Just not that into you?

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  • lyncupit
    lyncupit Posts: 1
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    some guys like to have girls hanging on to feed their egos, are needy
  • grannygethealthy1111
    grannygethealthy1111 Posts: 422
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    He sounds married or attached to me. Don't waste your time on someone who SAYS one thing and his actions say something else.
  • prettygirlhoward
    prettygirlhoward Posts: 338 Member
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    With the "hey gorgeous" texts he wants to keep you as an option while he checks out others as well. Go on more dates with other people and have fun. Don't be a guy's option.

    This! I agree completely. Dont be an option. Find a guy whos worth it!!

    ^^^ this!
  • luvmycandies
    luvmycandies Posts: 489 Member
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    If he doesnt schedule another date....move along. Or next date he asks you on, dont be so available. Also dont answer the texts right away. Keep em waiting awhile. But if he was really into you, he would've gone on date even if sick. Most guys dont care if they have the ebola virus if they like you enough. Sorry. Im sure there are lots of people on dating site who would be lucky to have you! I met mine on there! :flowerforyou:
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
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    Next!
  • doinitforme2012
    doinitforme2012 Posts: 98 Member
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    i say ditch him to the curb!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,022 Member
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    If he's not trying to see you, he's not into you. One phone call to reschedule the date he bailed on means more than a million "Hey gorgeous" texts that he could be sending to 20 different women, for all you know. He made it obvious he wasn't interested in the first chance. Why bother giving him another one? Move on.
  • FriendsR4EverTreasures
    FriendsR4EverTreasures Posts: 181
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    Are you responding to his text messages? If so, STOP! Silence usually sways one way or another (he will either get serious and ask to see you OR you will never hear from him again!). Tell yourself you are better than that!!! MOVE ON
  • chatnel
    chatnel Posts: 688 Member
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    thanks everyone, this is just what I needed. I am a bit naive when it comes to dating. I won't be replying to his texts anymore.
  • cufirst84
    cufirst84 Posts: 127 Member
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    Do you want to see him? is so make a date...but im guessing if he's been able to text ya, he would have popped a date out by now...sounds like a player waiting out his bookings !!!
    I woudl say ....SEE YA !
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
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    texting sucks. if they don't CALL you and show up when they say they'll show up, they don't mean it. How easy is it to send the same text to 5 different people and see which responds to the booty call?

    seriously.
  • cohophysh
    cohophysh Posts: 288
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    Hey, if I am in to you, I am not going to continue to text you, I would be wanting to see you...dump this guy and move on.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
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    nnnneeexxxxxxtttttttttttttttttttttt................
  • lisakyle_11
    lisakyle_11 Posts: 420 Member
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    move on.... not worth the time.
  • FriendsR4EverTreasures
    FriendsR4EverTreasures Posts: 181
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    thanks everyone, this is just what I needed. I am a bit naive when it comes to dating. I won't be replying to his texts anymore.


    :flowerforyou: That's the spirit!
  • Silver_Star
    Silver_Star Posts: 1,351 Member
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    Yeah...Id' say he's shopping around.
    maybe just catch him unawares and ask him about it in a text!
  • HeatherHoskins
    HeatherHoskins Posts: 157 Member
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    If this is what he is doing after one date and you "play" along then he will think that he can walk all over you throughout your intire friendship. He will never put you before himself. Don't let him do this. Blow him off, stop texting back and see how hard he works on getting back in touch. I believe in second chances, not third chances but do not let him walk all over you. You deserve better. we all do
  • Pinoy_Pal
    Pinoy_Pal Posts: 281 Member
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    He's trying to keep you on the hook...as Jenny say's, "RUN Forrest, RUN!!!!"
  • 13nicholas
    13nicholas Posts: 154 Member
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    Agree. Drop him.
  • kiminikimkim
    kiminikimkim Posts: 746 Member
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    Yes please! Move on!

    I've been there, he's shopping around to see if there is something better out there but keeps you close with superficial texts.

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