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Would You Do This In Front of Your Spouse??

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  • TheNewo
    TheNewo Posts: 239 Member
    Well, I cannot say what others should or should not do in their own relationship, but...
    In my own, bathroom time is alone time. When he goes in, the door needs to be shut, and you couldn't pay me to follow him in there. If ever do, it had better be some kind of emergency :wink:
    He is most certainly not allowed in when I'm using the bathroom. I get stage fright.
    PS, I'm also the girl that runs out of the bathroom when her friends try to follow her in at the bar. I understand this makes me a minority, but sometimes you just need to be alone.
    Also I'm not really comfortable shaving in front of my fiancé...kinda random, I know.
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    I couldn't think of anything when I first read this, but I just remembered something I used to not do in front of my bf. He is a fireman and is gone for 48 hours at a time. Sometimes, I eat peanut butter out of the jar, then dip the peanut butter spoon into a bowl of chocolate chips and then devour. lmao. And I would never do it in front of him because I was ashamed. Well, he ended up being home from work for like a week straight at one point and I finally said "there is something I do when you are not home, do not judge me" ... Now he has that for a snack sometimes too! haha.

    Lol that's a good story!
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    I agree that this is a funny topic, I hear stilly stuff like this on the radio ALL the time and I just snicker at it.

    My husband and I have been married almost 3 years (been together about 5 years) and I think we've always been comfortable doing everything in front of each other, I mean there has been some hilarious instances that got us to that point so quickly but either way if you're not comfortable with everything I totally understand, not everyone is, just depends on the people.
    One of my friends and her ex were crazy with it. they wouldn't have sex if either one of them had pooped that day! WHAT?!

    I think eventually it all becomes open, we never shut doors unless someone is here. I'm a very open person and now so is he :)
    i don't think that farting or anything in front of him makes him think we're not "girls" if you hold it in it can seriously cause damage. that's why it hurts when you do!! Either way, love won't stop just because you fart in front of him lol

    ...Aren't you SUPPOSED to poop every day? :huh:

    I would be LIVID if my fiance was withholding sex from me for that reason! Like, don't you know I could die if I don't "go". LOL!!!
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    The only thing I wouldn't do in front of my wife is my girlfriend.............




    I'm going to hell :laugh:
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    I'll do about anything infront of each other except for BM's and TTOM. That to me is just a no no in front of my husband.

    Kinda slow here lol but what is TTOM? Thanks!
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    The only thing I wouldn't do in front of my wife is my girlfriend.............

    thank you, dear.
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    I use to be very private, like didn't want my husband to hardly see me naked but I was always over weight so that caused for self esteem issues. Now I've become very opened and comfortable so now there isn't anything I won't do in front of him. I think he and I both are in a place where we are literally one, I mean like it's natural to do anything in front of each other and not even care. I have nothing to hide, he's seen me at my worse and at my best, after all he has seen my insides when I had a c-section, he actually peaked over the sheet when they told him not to, he knew better the second time lol.
  • bergsangel
    bergsangel Posts: 131
    It totally depends on the individual, no wrong or right way I suppose, BUT...I don't fart, use the bathroom, try not to even burp rudely, or any of those other body functions in front of my husband. We have been together for 10 years and he has watched me birth 2 children, one very tramatically. However, I still like him to see me as a "girl", maybe I'm old-fashioned.

    Wow, you must have extreme body control not to have farted in front of your guy in 10 years? Don't you ever eat Mexican? ha ha!

    Or maybe she just leaves the room like most LADIES do.

    Yes, I do just leave :) It's no that hard to walk out of the room. Now surely, I've let a silent one escape on occassion, but that is not the spirit of this thread...
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    The only thing I wouldn't do in front of my wife is my girlfriend.............

    thank you, dear.

    oh you love it....
  • sassyshook
    sassyshook Posts: 213 Member
    I dont like to workout in front of my spouse, I do but if i want a full workout then no, but its only because he gets too you know um "happy" and I dont get to finish my workout. lol :)
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    Personally there's not really anything I wouldn't do if I had to. There are things I choose not to out of courtesy, but if there was some sort of emergency situation, like about to have explosive diarrhea while he is showering and there's only one bathroom, you bet your *kitten* I'm not sh*ttin my pants just for his comfort!
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    Yeah don't worry. I thought it was pretty obvious that you were talking about your own relationship and not implying other people should adhere to things you're saying. Overly sensitive is the right term.

    I'm not worried lol I'm just glad somebody gets what I mean.
  • Changing__Christina
    Changing__Christina Posts: 245 Member
    The only thing I wouldn't do in front of my wife is my girlfriend.............




    I'm going to hell :laugh:

    I'm usually an open book, but this should apply to everyone!!! LOL!!!
  • bergsangel
    bergsangel Posts: 131
    I think it's funny that people keep saying, he's not gonna stop loving you if you fart...really?? Thanks for the clarification, now i can rest easier. I obviously realize that, i just prefer to be ladylike, and if you don't, that's cool. To each his own. I have zero self esteem issues with the appearance of my body (except I'd love to be taller), but tend to not walk around naked. I just happen to believe that my sexy parts are or sexy time!
  • bergsangel
    bergsangel Posts: 131
    LOL...agreed!
    Personally there's not really anything I wouldn't do if I had to. There are things I choose not to out of courtesy, but if there was some sort of emergency situation, like about to have explosive diarrhea while he is showering and there's only one bathroom, you bet your *kitten* I'm not sh*ttin my pants just for his comfort!
  • mccarol1956
    mccarol1956 Posts: 422 Member
    The only thing I wouldn't do in front of my wife is my girlfriend.............




    I'm going to hell :laugh:

    :drinker: :drinker: :love:
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    I dont like to workout in front of my spouse, I do but if i want a full workout then no, but its only because he gets too you know um "happy" and I dont get to finish my workout. lol :)
    :laugh: Me too! He Loves the hip extensions!
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    I think it's funny that people keep saying, he's not gonna stop loving you if you fart...really?? Thanks for the clarification, now i can rest easier. I obviously realize that, i just prefer to be ladylike, and if you don't, that's cool. To each his own. I have zero self esteem issues with the appearance of my body (except I'd love to be taller), but tend to not walk around naked. I just happen to believe that my sexy parts are or sexy time!

    I second that.
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  • Ashley_Panda
    Ashley_Panda Posts: 1,404 Member
    I won't poop in front of him but I tell him all about it.
  • Dtho5159
    Dtho5159 Posts: 1,054 Member
    Workout... He for one complains when I take the tv for an hour *GASP* and second he just sits there shaking his head like Im doing it wrong so I prefer to do it when he's at work lol
  • NSQuintana
    NSQuintana Posts: 207
    Workout... He for one complains when I take the tv for an hour *GASP* and second he just sits there shaking his head like Im doing it wrong so I prefer to do it when he's at work lol

    I hate that! It's like is there ever a sport NOT playing on TV lol!
  • Irishmoonwitch
    Irishmoonwitch Posts: 97
    I'm comfortable to do anything! My fiance and I are the exact same person, just in male and female forms, so anything that we do in front of one another doesn't surprise us. I def don't leave the bathroom door open, but am not shy about announcing what went down behind closed doors! TMI? Maybe, but it works for us. Lol!!

    This is me and my boyfriend.
  • sunshine__angel
    sunshine__angel Posts: 366 Member
    I'm comfortable to do anything! My fiance and I are the exact same person, just in male and female forms, so anything that we do in front of one another doesn't surprise us. I def don't leave the bathroom door open, but am not shy about announcing what went down behind closed doors! TMI? Maybe, but it works for us. Lol!!

    ^ Exactly this! Lol!
  • polarsjewel
    polarsjewel Posts: 1,725 Member
    The only thing I wouldn't do in front of my wife is my girlfriend.............




    I'm going to hell :laugh:

    ^^^ Probably the funniest thing I've read today.
  • HollyAus
    HollyAus Posts: 241 Member
    I leave my bathroom door open all the times, and bowel movements and periods are talked about. They are not gross, just normal activities.

    This is us too! we have three kids so it's hard to ever close the door and if it is closed some one WILL be right outside either crying or talking to us lol.
    The only time it is closed is if we aren't feeling good. And I hate throwing up so I always kick him out even if he wants to help lol. (for clarification: I know everyone hates to throw up, but some people, like my hubs, would rather get it over with and feel better.)
  • FadedFreckles
    FadedFreckles Posts: 81 Member
    Bathroom activities are solo activities in this house!
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    There is a lot I wouldn't do in front of my spouse.

    After 10 years and I wouldn't even think of going to the bathroom with him in there! Ewww! Gross!

    I never even leave the door open.

    He doesn't have a problem with it though...lol I always have to shut the door when he is in there...so annoying that he leaves it open when he goes.

    Longterm-Relationship-Barbie.jpg
  • FadedFreckles
    FadedFreckles Posts: 81 Member
    If I'm not comfortable with something, I just don't do it. I don't go around telling other people what they should or shouldn't do in their own relationships.

    Give your head a wobble love!
  • bergsangel
    bergsangel Posts: 131
    There is a lot I wouldn't do in front of my spouse.

    After 10 years and I wouldn't even think of going to the bathroom with him in there! Ewww! Gross!

    I never even leave the door open.

    He doesn't have a problem with it though...lol I always have to shut the door when he is in there...so annoying that he leaves it open when he goes.

    Longterm-Relationship-Barbie.jpg

    HILARIOUS... see girls, if Barbie aint cute on the toilet, your *kitten* aint either!
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