Ladies: Three Day Rule?

You'll never win.

Some will say call the next day.
Some will say that's too soon
Some will say 3 days is too long.

Do what you feel like doing.

If you like her call her. I'd actually be pretty psyched if my date called me right after the date to say he had fun.

on our first date, my husband dropped me off at home and called me 20 minutes later. I was thrilled

If the date went well and you really liked her, call her the next day. If you wait three days, she is going to think you aren't into her, and when you finally do get around to making the call, she will have already turned into the psycho "why didn't you call me?" chick, all because you wanted to play games.

If the date was okay and you're open to seeing her again but you weren't blown away and may be thinking about making plans with someone else, it's okay to wait a day or two longer and give it more thought.

Do what you feel is right. If it went really well, you can call her that night or the next day. 3 days is kind of long. When a guy calls me 3 days later I feel like he's not really into me.

If you like her call her. I'd actually be pretty psyched if my date called me right after the date to say he had fun.

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If you're texting her or calling her to tell her that you had a good time, and would like to do it again, anywhere from the minute you walk away to the next day is fine.

If you're texting her or calling her to tell her that she is the love of your life and you want to marry her and have babies and grow old together (after the first date!), that's kinda creepy.

Girls like me don't want you to play games. If there's a spark, why wait 3 days to confirm it? If she texts back or feels the same way about wanting to go out again, she'll let you know. IMO, the 3 day rule should be abolished.

If you're in to her, call the next day, in my opinion.

If someone called me right after the date, I'd find them a bit to eager and clingy.

If you call on the 2nd day, it's like you're not really in to them, but giving it a 2nd chance.

If you call on the 3rd day, it's like you've made other plans and they fell through, so you called the chick back because she's the last option... However, texting right after is fine by me.

You'll get a feel by what you should do after you go out with the person though, don't sweat it

In dating, does the three day rule apply or is it ok to call or text her sooner? Never gave it much thought but now I'm curious what you think.

If you're into her let her know. Most mature women don't want a guy who plays head games. Send her a text to let her know you had a good time and if she writes back call her the next day to set up a second date.

Call her the next day, then say "Mary?" "Wait, no, Kelly?"
when she tells you her name then be all "Ohhhhh, the one with the (wrong color hair)."

Hysterical!!!

Ok, now, to answer the question, there is no need to wait three days. Especially as connected as we are in society. Three days can come off as you're not interested. I know for me a simple text can make me smile big time.

I hate playing games. If I had a good time, I'll text when I get home to say so. And I appreciate it when someone does the same for me.

Be yourself, and if they freak out because you called/texted without following a three day rule... well maybe that person isn't going to mesh well with you after all. Besides, the time of a text or a phone call isn't going to make or break if someone is attracted to you.

Call whenever you want. If she's a game player and turned off by it - at least you know now. No one likes games.

You watch too much "how I met your mother", lol

The rules are used to manipulate someone into thinking you're desirable. You know what's desirable? People who aren't manipulative. Call when you want to call, and be honest: "hi, I had fun with you, and couldn't wait to talk to you again." Is there a person in this world who wouldn't take that as a compliment?

On our first date, my husband called me as soon as I left his sight to tell me he had a good time. He was so sweet and funny about it, I was hooked. Call when you want, rules are stupid.