Dumped, Depressed and wanting to kill something.

TN Beauty!!!!! :flowerforyou:

You are a beautiful & strong woman!
I'm soooooooo very sorry this happened.
It will take time to heal & feel better.
In the meantime, do all you can for you & your little one to feel good.
Exercise, hot baths & playing are great stress relievers!

I wish you the best Girl! Take good care!!! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

:flowerforyou: OMG!.. I feel for you.. I've been on the situation of being cheated on... I know how it feels... Just move forward girl! I know you can do it... you are very pretty!

He will soon realize it's his lost! Just focus on yourself and your little girl... and yes, there is a reason for everything... You'll meet someone in the future who will give you his all...

Smile... work out... go Out.. PRAY....

Just message me if you need a friend to talk too...

Wow...I have to comment on the stitches since no one else has...never the way to go, no matter how angry you are. That being said, he's a pig, and you need to change your mindset. You're lucky to be rid of him, and now you can focus on yourself and your beautiful child. Don't be waiting for him to call. Change your number, change the locks. Good riddance. Take your frustration out at the gym like you said.

All men are not pigs (most, but not all), so don't waste your energy on one who is.

Same year, My ex-husband cheated on me for years and I was non the wiser. I only found when I left him because something was never felt right. When I was single everyone knew!! I was humiliated.
I lost so much weight because I did not have friends only through my ex- so I hit the gym, instead of feeling lonely. It took me three years being single. I looked pretty but my self esteem was in the gutter because I thought what was wrong with me that he had to cheat on me. Well, like I said three years later and many dates ( which was fun, some not so much ) I found a wonderful man. We are still together 7yrs. Looking back I even gave thanks to my ex, had he not done this to me I would never have met my new guy. My ex- remarried and his wife is a witch, one of his girlfriends gave him an STD.
I was happy to hear this at first, because he got what he deserved, but I feel sad that I am so happy and he is not. He always tell me he regrets how he treated me. We are friends now.

Karma Karma Karma.

He will get his and you will get yours. Keep up the faith, do exercise. Oh I read so many self help books. My favorite was the THE RULES, and I never got hurt again.

GOOD LUCK, THIS TOO SHALL PASS

Hello and welcome to MFP, the best website ever!!! You will love this site if you don't already. I love this site. It is so motivational, supportive, helpful, easy to use, and everyone is so nice and friendly. I just wanted to wish you a lot of success on your weight loss journey. You can do this!!!!!!!!!!!! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: I am sorry to hear about your husband cheating on you.

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Welcome to MFP

Today is the first day of the rest of your life. You can make it better through positive action and with the support of the new friends you will make here.

Living well is the best revenge. Walk through this with dignity, value, and worth and you will be the winner every day.

Take it one day at a time.

You can do it.:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

Oh my, that really sucks, and I totally feel for you. I am going through a breakup right now too, and its painful and heavy in my heart everyday, and I always feel like there was something wrong with me but its not true! You are worthy, and beauty comes from within even though that sounds corny. Find some supportive friends, start a new hobby, and concentrate on doing the things you love doing. With a little effort, you will lose weight as well and it will be easier than you ever immagined possible. Work on accepting who you are, right now, today, and go from there, because you are beautiful and we are all incredible and unique human beings, so give yourself some love! Take yourself on a date, watch your favorite movies, read your favorite books or poems. And if you feel sad, just let yourself feel sad, its completely ok to be sad sometimes and its a natural part of being a human being. Give yourself permission to cry your eyes out, beat up a pillow, or just go for a long slow walk to blow off some steam. You can do this, find the strength within yourself.

Same year, My ex-husband cheated on me for years and I was non the wiser. I only found when I left him because something was never felt right. When I was single everyone knew!! I was humiliated.
I lost so much weight because I did not have friends only through my ex- so I hit the gym, instead of feeling lonely. It took me three years being single. I looked pretty but my self esteem was in the gutter because I thought what was wrong with me that he had to cheat on me. Well, like I said three years later and many dates ( which was fun, some not so much ) I found a wonderful man. We are still together 7yrs. Looking back I even gave thanks to my ex, had he not done this to me I would never have met my new guy. My ex- remarried and his wife is a witch, one of his girlfriends gave him an STD.
I was happy to hear this at first, because he got what he deserved, but I feel sad that I am so happy and he is not. He always tell me he regrets how he treated me. We are friends now.

Karma Karma Karma.

He will get his and you will get yours. Keep up the faith, do exercise. Oh I read so many self help books. My favorite was the THE RULES, and I never got hurt again.

GOOD LUCK, THIS TOO SHALL PASS

I'm currently working with my therapist to move past the anger to a place of indifference for him, and hopefully eventually wanting the best for him.

I cannot begin to fathom wanting anything but his misery right now. :laugh: I am setting my goals for indifference towards him.... baby steps.

I hope one day to be where you are.... wanting the best, sad that my ex has a horrible life, because I know he will have regrets for what he's done, one day. (If he ever matures. He may not.)

OMG...that is horrible honey. Hang in there.

This happened to me also, after 27 years of being together. People knew but didn't tell me it had been going on for years. I wasn't bad looking or really overweight. He just got bored I guess and needed attention from someone new. I cried and cried and didn't eat and drank vodka. They call it the divorce diet. I think I lost 30 pounds. My heart felt like it was breaking and it actually did. I had a massive heart attack. People do die of a broken heart. Be careful. I read a lot of self help books, some good and some not so good but that's how I got to sleep at night, reading self help and then crying into my pillow. I tried to get therapy but no one would answer my calls. Watched Bridget Jones lots, haha and anything to do with husbands cheating and why they did.

Do not waste your time on trying to get back with him because it is just that, a waste of time. I wish I had known that also. I let him come over every weekend after we split up for about a year. I tried everything to get him back. I found out that he was still cheating. He was "Just not that into me". I met a fantastic man online and we have been married for 2 years now. He treats me like a princess.

My ex is now a complete alcoholic and lives in a room at the bar. I feel sorry for him but I have tried helping him and out of respect for my husband, will not anymore.

Good luck to you. Be good to yourself. Do not call or see your ex as this only makes things worse. Easy to say but take it from me, it is a "waste of your time"

I do not suggest the vodka by the way.
I don't drink anymore.
Good luck.