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    What makes a person physically attractive/sexy/hot ???

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    • Posts: 617 Member
      Confidence is nice but as far as physical attributes, I think it's all in the curves from their face all the way down. That being said...without a great personality and sense of humor it would be for nothing ;)
    • Posts: 751 Member
      There are so many things, so its hard to single them out. However, I usually look at the shoes first, then the teeth. Also, if your ashy I can't deal with that!

      Then I have to ask you three questions:

      How many kids do you have?
      Are you on paper or have you been to jail for a serious crime?
      Who do you live with?

      If you answer any one of those questions incorrectly, its pretty much a wrap regardless of how fine you are!
    • Posts: 64
      confidence !

      And on a man broad shoulders, big arms & a personality !!! no one wants someone whos picture perfect hot but so boring or stupid that spending time with them is a chore !
    • Posts: 510 Member
      Physical beauty is very real and cannot be ignored as a factor. But make no mistake, the prettiest woman can very quickly become ugly if she has a horrible heart inside of her.

      I prefer these traits every day of the week. And I'd rather be alone my whole life than have a partner that doesn't embody these characteristics...

      - Confident
      - Genuine
      - Empathetic
      - Gracious
      - Authentic
      - Loving
      - Supportive
      - Loyal
      - Trustworthy
      - Passionate

      ...and that's just a start.

      A woman with those characteristics is an amazing woman indeed!
    • Posts: 84 Member
      Smell, I can be a sucker for the way a guy smells - I've had to stop in the street before now when someone who smells good has walked by and my knees nearly buckle :laugh:

      I'm assuming I'm attracted to more 'feminine' men as they're the ones I've always ended up in long-term relationships with (including my husband of 5 years), softer facial features, low levels of body hair, proportionally lower amounts of muscle,

      That being said - a quick fling has always been with a more 'manly' man. Not necessarily muscular (not really a fan, makes me think there's too much self-obsession going on :tongue: ), just more 'solid' and hairy and probably in a manual job lugging tarmac or cement and getting all sweaty. mmmmmmm :blushing: :laugh:
    • Posts: 519 Member
      I like nice; I have always been attracted to genuinely nice guys. And suits, love a man in a suit.
    • Posts: 895 Member
      Physical:

      Tall, dark, and handsome
      Big hands
      Stocky build (I like my guys to have some extra cushion, who wants to cuddle with a stick?)

      Personality:
      Chivalrous
      Smart
      Funny
      Kind
      Gentle

      I have been attracted to guys that don't necessarily fit into my ideal physical preferences, since I mostly choose partners based on personality rather than appearance. I just happen to be lucky enough to be married to a guy that fits all of my physical and personality preferences :)
    • Posts: 84 Member
      Strong shoulders that promise to firmly hold me. Makes me melt having a proper hug!x
    • Posts: 108 Member
      Kcwebguy said it best. If you've lived long enough and WISE enough you truly understand the meaning of beauty, what's physically attractive/sexy/hot. Now I'm not going to lie, I saw a man with the most bea-u-ti-ful pair of buns I had ever seen in my life. He made me BLUSH they looked so good. But, if he were to open his mouth and say something stupid that would all FADE AWAY.

      If you're not right on the inside, you definitely don't look like much on the outside. Why do you think Hollywood is having such a hard time? You have some of the most physically attractive people on TV today, but their personal lives are....for a better term...jacked-up. Your man could be the troll who lives under the bridge, but if he treats his woman as the queen she is....she will follow him anywhere.

      Now my Boo has that Teddy Pendergrass thang going on and he definitely treats me like a 'QUEEN'.
    • Posts: 159 Member
      Bump <3
    • Posts: 181 Member
      MONEY :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    • Posts: 3,845 Member
      First: T & A. If those are good to go...

      After that, its hair, teeth, smile, eyes and confidence. Not necessarily in that order, but just overall a great healthful and youthful appearance along with a strong air of confidence, but not in an unapproachable way. I see too many women that are very attractive physically, but they shoot off this "I'm too good for you" vibe. That's not confidence, that's actually a lack of it. So, it's subtle I guess, but present. A big part of being confident is showing weakness and vulnerability at the right times.
    • Posts: 82 Member
      There's more to a person than the physical part.......it's what's on the inside that truly makes or breaks a person. Yea, sure a guy can have a totally hot body (arms and chest does it for me) or a woman can be built hot or sexy but most of the time those people are all about what's on the outside....their looks. True attractiveness comes from within......the honesty, love, affection, caring, etc.
    • Posts: 241
      a full beard .... on a man.

      Waiting for a guy to say he likes it on a woman.
    • Posts: 318 Member
      Hair, eyes, lips, teeth??? What is it? I'm soo curious to know

      Yea I need her to have all those. Hair lips and teeth on a woman are important.

      A figure like Megan Goode in the new Tyler Perry movie"Think like a man". MERCY!!!
    • Posts: 553 Member
      Confidence but not cocky
    • Posts: 10 Member
      I like girls if they're up for a laugh and friendly tbh, looks don't bother me all that much
    • Posts: 518 Member
      confidence :)
    • Posts: 599 Member
      Physically, I like a man with a broad strong back, dark hair and facial hair. But it's the person that attracts me soo much that the physical sides just fade away XD
    • Posts: 208 Member
      I have no idea what makes them sexy....I just know it when I see it.
    • Posts: 2,181 Member
      Confidence and arrogance!

      THEN his body! :)
    • Posts: 173 Member
      You have to like the physique but the most important is that when you are close, you just want to be closer!
    • Posts: 7
      Confidence and a great personality!!
    • Posts: 256 Member
      personality for sure. but as far as physical attributes, I notice your smile first, eyes and I always look at a man's hands! lol Im just like that! but I must say its many different things that make a person attractive, its an individual perception.
    • Posts: 929 Member
      A picture of themselves wearing a visor with bud lights in front of them.................:drinker:
    • Posts: 1,719 Member
      One word: confidence. When you genuinely think you're best people start to believe you
    • Posts: 11,788 Member
      She should be about 5"2 1/2 inches tall. Brown hair with red highlights. Mesmerizing deep blue eyes. Supports me even when I'm wrong, but calls me out on my dumb *kitten*.
    • Posts: 459 Member
      hmmmm
      i don't necessarily have a type or specific things i look for

      top 5 is -sense of humour
      -compassion for living things
      -intelligence
      -good conversation skills
      -intensity in thought, emotion, and sex drive

      it helps if they are tall with a broad chest and deep voice, but not necessary
    • Posts: 261 Member
      Physically, I like em tall, nice smile, beautiful dreamy eyes

      Personality, you have to be smart and somewhat funny

      Of course more or less can be accepted but that's my basic attraction
    • Posts: 802 Member
      Personality is what's important to me, intelligence is number one coupled with confidence, humor , trustworthy and kindness. Great hair is a plus. I know you said physical appearance but that does really matter to me its not what's important in the long run.
      She's right !
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