Ok GUYS, answer me this....

wareagle8706
wareagle8706 Posts: 1,090 Member
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I recently had a conversation with my best friend who said she doesn't want to look defined, she wants to look toned (which I thought was the same thing, but I digress....). She also said she doesn't wanna look like me... that we want to look two different ways and there is nothing wrong with that... Well, regardless of what we look like. I have decided to take a poll... tell me which you would prefer. The girl who is skinny with no definition (tone), or the girl who is toned. Also, how do you feel about those kind of back muscles on a girl? She made the comment that she doesn't want "big bulky back muscles." I'm assuming she means like mine (profile picture).

Thanks guys!!!!

Skinny with no real definition:
skinnyfat.jpg

Skinny and toned:
toned2.jpg

Back Muscles:
tonedback.jpg


So.... what do you think???
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  • AwesomelyAmber
    AwesomelyAmber Posts: 1,617 Member
    Not a guy... but I like toned better :heart:
  • wifeandmom2009
    wifeandmom2009 Posts: 11
    Hmm... I think bulky back muscles on a female make her look masculine. I'd rather be healthy and toned but not bulky.
  • supatim
    supatim Posts: 239 Member
    Muscles on women.... YUMMMM! Your friend sounds like a girl who is feeling like she needs to overcompensate for her lack of back muscles...

    KEEP GOING!!!
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    Not a guy but first one :p
    lol
  • antizoni1
    antizoni1 Posts: 334
    The girl who is toned, thats Hot
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    I'm not a guy but I'll comment. I love my back muscles and my arms. I get comments on them all the time. The girlie in your pic has arms that are maybe a bit more than what I would like to have but still I like her better than the skinny chick.

    here's me . . . still a work in progress


    smaller400.jpg


    400.jpg
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
    All of the above... and more!
  • BigDaddyRonnie
    BigDaddyRonnie Posts: 506 Member
    Toned and back muscles are it for me.

    You can keep the skinny and emaciated one...give me the fit and a bit of muscle any day.
  • fiveohmike
    fiveohmike Posts: 1,297 Member
    The girl who is tone...the first picture, she looks almost sickly.
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  • rheelizabeth
    rheelizabeth Posts: 160 Member
    I think muscles on legs, arms and tummy on a lady is very sexy, a lot sexier than just being thin, however I think there is a fine line between being toned, and being OTT with muscles.
  • BigDaddyRonnie
    BigDaddyRonnie Posts: 506 Member
    I'm not a guy but I'll comment. I love my back muscles and my arms. I get comments on them all the time. The girlie in your pic has arms that are maybe a bit more than what I would like to have but still I like her better than the skinny chick.

    here's me . . . still a work in progress


    IMAG0949-1-1.jpg

    back52122.jpg

    we have a winner here! :happy:
  • gec1266
    gec1266 Posts: 201 Member
    *raises hand* I'll take the skinny and toned and the back muscles are cool too. Skinny and no tone/definition is not sexy to me..(personal opinion)
  • LeenaRuns
    LeenaRuns Posts: 1,309 Member
    The girl who is tone...the first picture, she looks almost sickly.

    She looks normal!!!
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    I don't really consider a back like that to be "muscley". Just in good shape...

    Toned ladies are sexy, but there's a difference between toned and bulky. Like I'd say the image you labeled as "skinny and toned" is more like a buff woman. There's a middle ground between the skinny and undefined and your "skinny and toned" as well. Anyway, I think it's all sexy, regardless.

    Of course, I'm a girl. =)
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    I definitely want the toned look for myself. Both girls are beautiful, but for me, I would prefer to be toned as opposed to skinny.
  • caraiselite
    caraiselite Posts: 2,631 Member
    i can't see much of a difference, honestly.

    slight tone, i guess. normal, good shape.
  • Waterbottlefiller
    Waterbottlefiller Posts: 21
    Skinny and toned.
  • Doing_The_Unstruck
    Doing_The_Unstruck Posts: 241 Member
    Women with an athletic build over skinny for me.
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    Hmm... I think bulky back muscles on a female make her look masculine. I'd rather be healthy and toned but not bulky.

    so do you think that pic is "bulky back muscles" ?
    bc i think its hardly any at all!
    interesting...
    all people prefer different things.. my husband feels that muscles on women make them look older then their years. *shrugs*
  • Cheveliar
    Cheveliar Posts: 12 Member
    If I'm honest I loves me a confident woman. I really don't care whether she is toned or not. While I'm partial to "big girls" I know all here are trying not to be so big. So I'm here to tell you ladies that if you are comfortable wearing it guys will pick up on the confidence more than the look...just one guy's opinion...
  • fiveohmike
    fiveohmike Posts: 1,297 Member
    The girl who is tone...the first picture, she looks almost sickly.

    She looks normal!!!

    Nah, she has ZERO figure...its rather disturbing.
  • Bobby_Clerici
    Bobby_Clerici Posts: 1,828 Member
    So long as she does not have man-looking muscle development like some of these hideous, face shaving female "bodybuilders' on testosterone.
    That's what unsettles my lunch, and that's not you at all from what I see.
    You look GREAT!
  • fiveohmike
    fiveohmike Posts: 1,297 Member
    Hmm... I think bulky back muscles on a female make her look masculine. I'd rather be healthy and toned but not bulky.

    so do you think that pic is "bulky back muscles" ?
    bc i think its hardly any at all!
    interesting...
    all people prefer different things.. my husband feels that muscles on women make them look older then their years. *shrugs*

    The other thing is, your not running around with your back muscles flexed all the time. When at a normal state they just look better than skinny and emaciated.
  • BigDaddyRonnie
    BigDaddyRonnie Posts: 506 Member
    The girl who is tone...the first picture, she looks almost sickly.

    She looks normal!!!

    Nah, she has ZERO figure...its rather disturbing.

    She actually looks like she is starving....
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I'm not a guy and I can't see the pics, but something just seem wrong with caring so much what a bunch of strangers think about your body. As long as you love your own body, that's all that matters.
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    She made the comment that she doesn't want "big bulky back muscles." I'm assuming she means like mine (profile picture).
    All I have to say is that I'm pretty sure you don't walk around with your arms up in the air in flexed position...Muscles can be quite feminine if you're not looking constipated and gritting your teeth like the hulk...just sayin'.
  • Waterbottlefiller
    Waterbottlefiller Posts: 21
    The girl who is tone...the first picture, she looks almost sickly.

    She looks normal!!!

    Nah, she has ZERO figure...its rather disturbing.

    Cool story bro , I like how you slipped in some hating there.
  • deninevi
    deninevi Posts: 934 Member
    The second pic and back muscles.
  • Shannon2714
    Shannon2714 Posts: 843 Member
    I prefer toned...and you have a sexy back, so she's crazy!

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