Breasts or fat??

I'd prefer slim with smallish boobs. It's more about the shape of the body than the boobs for me, although I don't really like a flat chest.

By the way, I'm straight, but I notice women *shrugs*

Boobs > Everything (except bacon) lol

Even when I was 90lbs at 13 years old (yes 13) I had DD's. I was skin and bones.

So no, breasts are not necessarily complete fat.

I am fat with relatively big breasts but instead of feeling sexy I feel matronly so I say go for healthy not hagard, I just saw a " success" story where the person looked best in the during photo so do not get too thin - it is not attractive or healthy! When you get close ask for opinions on if you need to lose more.

Look at www.mybodygallery.com to see what people look like at your weight & height.. It is easier to see on others than yourself!

to me thin/healthy/fit with small breasts is a million times more attractive than fat with large breasts.

Honestly it depends on the man...I my self love skinny, and could care less about breasts big or small.....I would rather have the thin legs, and flat belly and nice butt.....with long hair. Other friends of mine don't care about the belly, they want the big boobs...So your question does not really have an answer.

i prefer boobs that are doing their job feeding bambinos

I think both can be beautiful. Me personally, i just wanted to say I'm thin, had nice full breasts before I had and nursed 3 babies, and then had small, sad, empty ones. They made me feel less attractive. Now, they are big and fake and I love them again. Loved them more after nursing one child with implants for 14 months. I think it's really sad that people have to be so rude on here (women). Jealousy is a very ugly thing.

Let me ask, I noticed that when I lose weight, the breasts are the first to go.

What looks and feels better and is more attractive, heavy women with big breasts? Or thinner, healthy women with small breasts?

Seem I can't win either way....any opinions?

Hmmm, I dislike the inference that to have large breasts is unhealthy and if you are healthy your breasts will be small. Breasts are extremely individual and many healthy weight women have large breasts. I certainly did. I've also seen many very heavy women who seemed to have small breasts. It depends on your body type.

The bottom line is, the most unhealthy thing is to obssess about a single body part. If the shrinkage makes you self-conscious, then buy a padded bra. That's what they make them for.

Exactly. I don't know where this incessant belief comes from that big boobs = big weight.

I lost my weight there last...I still am a 36 DDD. I was hoping they would be a little smaller, but I can buy my bras at the store, and not mail order now!!

::headdesk::

You know there are millions of users on here, so when you ask "what is more attractive" you are going to get a million answers. How about what do YOU find attractive in yourself and go with that?

Love this^^^^^^

Looking in the mirror and loving what you see.

Fat breasts. Boom!

so you prefer heavy women?

You've never seen a skinny girl with big boobs?

<--- hehe..? jk I don't call myself "skinny"...

What a topic! I think most men want nice size boobs and small waist with a little curve. Unfortunately ya can't tell your weight where to go, so I say smaller is better then flabbier...

Let me ask, I noticed that when I lose weight, the breasts are the first to go.

What looks and feels better and is more attractive, heavy women with big breasts? Or thinner, healthy women with small breasts?

Seem I can't win either way....any opinions?

Hmmm, I dislike the inference that to have large breasts is unhealthy and if you are healthy your breasts will be small. Breasts are extremely individual and many healthy weight women have large breasts. I certainly did. I've also seen many very heavy women who seemed to have small breasts. It depends on your body type.

The bottom line is, the most unhealthy thing is to obssess about a single body part. If the shrinkage makes you self-conscious, then buy a padded bra. That's what they make them for.

Exactly. I don't know where this incessant belief comes from that big boobs = big weight.

They are NOT saying that big boobs equals big or unhealthy women. She is simply describing how her OWN body works, which is the same way MY body works. If I lose weight, my boobs are the first to go. They don't come back until I am about twenty-five pounds heavier than my ideal weight. Yes, women come in all shapes and sizes, some who are perfectly fit and healthy and with big boobs. However, for the author of the original post and myself, we don't have that option (short of surgery). My only two choices are thinner (healthy weight) and flat-chested or heavy and curvy. For women whose bodies work like ours, we have to be a little unhealthy in order to get to a "grown-up" bra size.

For me personally, if I have to choose between being a little overweight with some boob versus athletic and *barely* a handful, I choose athletic and healthy.