Breasts or fat??

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You know there are millions of users on here, so when you ask "what is more attractive" you are going to get a million answers. How about what do YOU find attractive in yourself and go with that?

Love this^^^^^^

Looking in the mirror and loving what you see.

Fat breasts. Boom!

so you prefer heavy women?

You've never seen a skinny girl with big boobs?

<--- hehe..? jk I don't call myself "skinny"...

What a topic! I think most men want nice size boobs and small waist with a little curve. Unfortunately ya can't tell your weight where to go, so I say smaller is better then flabbier...

Let me ask, I noticed that when I lose weight, the breasts are the first to go.

What looks and feels better and is more attractive, heavy women with big breasts? Or thinner, healthy women with small breasts?

Seem I can't win either way....any opinions?

Hmmm, I dislike the inference that to have large breasts is unhealthy and if you are healthy your breasts will be small. Breasts are extremely individual and many healthy weight women have large breasts. I certainly did. I've also seen many very heavy women who seemed to have small breasts. It depends on your body type.

The bottom line is, the most unhealthy thing is to obssess about a single body part. If the shrinkage makes you self-conscious, then buy a padded bra. That's what they make them for.

Exactly. I don't know where this incessant belief comes from that big boobs = big weight.

They are NOT saying that big boobs equals big or unhealthy women. She is simply describing how her OWN body works, which is the same way MY body works. If I lose weight, my boobs are the first to go. They don't come back until I am about twenty-five pounds heavier than my ideal weight. Yes, women come in all shapes and sizes, some who are perfectly fit and healthy and with big boobs. However, for the author of the original post and myself, we don't have that option (short of surgery). My only two choices are thinner (healthy weight) and flat-chested or heavy and curvy. For women whose bodies work like ours, we have to be a little unhealthy in order to get to a "grown-up" bra size.

For me personally, if I have to choose between being a little overweight with some boob versus athletic and *barely* a handful, I choose athletic and healthy.

My breastsd have always been bigger than id like and are always the last thing to go. Too bad man boobs aren't sexy.

If I were being honest, I don't think being fat with big boobs counts for much; e.g. having large boobs but a large tummy to go with them doesn't create a very nice silhouette... I had smallish boobs to begin with, and a lost a bit of weight off them when I started on here (though mostly in my band size as opposed to cup). I was a little bit upset about it at first, but I'd rather have a slimmer waist and smaller boobs than a biggish tummy with slightly bigger (but still smaller than average size) boobs. Look at celebs like Cameron Diaz; she's still hot and her boobs are tiny

There are small women with naturally large Brest.

I prefer them to support their own weight, not flop about. Generally that means small and natural of big and fake.

I guess im lucky i really dont lose in this area. If anything they look bigger when im smaller because my waist is smaller.