Disturbing Biggest Loser article

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  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
    edited January 2015
    segacs wrote: »
    jkal1979 wrote: »
    On the flip side of this, there are people that pay $2,500 a week to go to a Biggest Loser resort (there are 3 of them). The website makes it sound more like a spa with some activity and cooking lessons thrown in.

    "Fat camp" has been around forever. Not surprising that someone would capitalize on the popularity of the show by opening some branded ones.

    I presume that they don't put the participants through the torture that the contestants get. After all, there's no money in shaming people in private.

    yeah, it's probably more like a fun resort centered around healthy living. they wouldn't make money otherwise. nobody would go.

    i prefer the canyon ranch for that.
  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
    edited January 2015
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    I've never watched the show, because it's not realistic for the rest of us at home. There's not many of us who can give over their lives to this.... we have lose weight and try to be healthy in the real world.

    i can't imagine watching this show and thinking it's realistic for anyone else. i'd watch it because it's entertaining and that's about it.

    I don't even find it entertaining, really. It just makes me sad. :(

    i've never seen it and didn't have tv for a year and a half, but now i'm curious to watch it since i have the non-cable channels again.
  • segacs
    segacs Posts: 4,599 Member
    I don't even find it entertaining, really. It just makes me sad. :(

    Same here. Then again, I don't watch Survivor or the million other "reality" shows either. I watched Amazing Race for a few seasons 'cause I love to travel and liked to see the places they went, but eventually I got annoyed watching people bicker in airports and moved on. There are better travel shows on TV that aren't so much of a waste of my time.

    But millions of people do watch -- probably more than would admit it -- because they do find it entertaining. "Brain candy" or "amusing" are adjectives I've frequently heard. I think most healthy people know that what they see on the show is unrealistic, but then, lots clearly don't either, judging by the number of people who come around here regularly thinking they should be able to lose 10 pounds a week. Plus, they also probably feel that it's fair game to mock and humiliate obese people for sport.

    Hell yeah. History and the Roman Empire prove this to be true.

    Yeah. Not just the Roman Empire either. Most early societies have documented sports that involved killing or human sacrifice. We humans seem to find this entertaining. Which is why an evolved society has laws to keep our baser instincts in check. And it would be nice if some of those laws stopped greedy studio executives from causing permanent long-term medical damage to people on TV in the name of profit.
  • prattiger65
    prattiger65 Posts: 1,657 Member
    edited January 2015
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.
  • obscuremusicreference
    obscuremusicreference Posts: 1,320 Member
    I have never watched the show. I just read the article, and it certainly does not surprise me. At the point where I had lost 90#(October 2012), I discovered Ali Vincent's (first female Biggest Loser)syndicated show on tv. It was inspiring to me, but she had obviously gained some of the weight she had lost on "Biggest Loser".

    Others are correct. There are a lot of people out there willing to be a contestant. It is very sad that people are exploited in this way.

    Too bad they can not do a weight loss series like the movie "Boyhood", over a period of years and doing it in a healthy way. We could all learn from it and emulate a positive program of weight loss. Kind of like MFP for television
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    I would watch the he'll out of this show. A bunch of people of varying weights/fitness levels struggling with losing 1-2 pounds a week and becoming more fit. Even a year would be fine.
  • LAWoman72
    LAWoman72 Posts: 2,846 Member
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    I've never watched the show, because it's not realistic for the rest of us at home. There's not many of us who can give over their lives to this.... we have lose weight and try to be healthy in the real world.

    i can't imagine watching this show and thinking it's realistic for anyone else. i'd watch it because it's entertaining and that's about it.

    I don't even find it entertaining, really. It just makes me sad. :(

    Me too. I watched it once. That was plenty. Have never watched it since.

  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.
  • prattiger65
    prattiger65 Posts: 1,657 Member
    segacs wrote: »
    I don't even find it entertaining, really. It just makes me sad. :(

    Same here. Then again, I don't watch Survivor or the million other "reality" shows either. I watched Amazing Race for a few seasons 'cause I love to travel and liked to see the places they went, but eventually I got annoyed watching people bicker in airports and moved on. There are better travel shows on TV that aren't so much of a waste of my time.

    But millions of people do watch -- probably more than would admit it -- because they do find it entertaining. "Brain candy" or "amusing" are adjectives I've frequently heard. I think most healthy people know that what they see on the show is unrealistic, but then, lots clearly don't either, judging by the number of people who come around here regularly thinking they should be able to lose 10 pounds a week. Plus, they also probably feel that it's fair game to mock and humiliate obese people for sport.

    Hell yeah. History and the Roman Empire prove this to be true.

    Yeah. Not just the Roman Empire either. Most early societies have documented sports that involved killing or human sacrifice. We humans seem to find this entertaining. Which is why an evolved society has laws to keep our baser instincts in check. And it would be nice if some of those laws stopped greedy studio executives from causing permanent long-term medical damage to people on TV in the name of profit.

    Has there been proven long term medical damage from this show? I mean real proof?
  • Briantime
    Briantime Posts: 175 Member
    Not to throw a different spin on this debate, but I think yelling at the contestants has zero to do with motivation and everything to do with trying to make compelling TV.
  • segacs
    segacs Posts: 4,599 Member
    Has there been proven long term medical damage from this show? I mean real proof?

    The contestant pool hasn't been big enough for a double-blind controlled medical study, if that's what you're asking.

    But over the years I've certainly seen enough articles and people speaking out with anecdotal evidence to suggest that there has been quite a bit of long-term damage done to the participants.

    I mean, I get what you're saying -- they could all be people with an axe to grind, and maybe the show has wonderful medical support and treats everyone well. But, just watch what these people are doing ON camera... I don't think it's a leap to suggest that there's some truth to these allegations.
  • LAWoman72
    LAWoman72 Posts: 2,846 Member
    Briantime wrote: »
    Not to throw a different spin on this debate, but I think yelling at the contestants has zero to do with motivation and everything to do with trying to make compelling TV.

    Well, yeah.

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  • NoelFigart1
    NoelFigart1 Posts: 1,276 Member
    edited January 2015
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, my IQ is in the 99th percentile. That is NOT a free pass for me to be contemptuous of or cruel to anyone whose IQ is lower than mine.

    And to be frank, no matter how damn smart you THINK you are, you're still human and you still have all the human buttons, even if you think you don't. In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    I think a little humility and compassion is a better way to go.
  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, my IQ is in the 99th percentile. That is NOT a free pass for me to be contemptuous of or cruel to anyone whose IQ is lower than mine.

    And to be frank, no matter how damn smart you THINK you are, you're still human and you still have all the human buttons, even if you think you don't. In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    I think a little humility and compassion is a better way to go.

    yep, agree.
  • GingerbreadCandy
    GingerbreadCandy Posts: 403 Member
    segacs wrote: »
    Has there been proven long term medical damage from this show? I mean real proof?

    The contestant pool hasn't been big enough for a double-blind controlled medical study, if that's what you're asking.

    But over the years I've certainly seen enough articles and people speaking out with anecdotal evidence to suggest that there has been quite a bit of long-term damage done to the participants.

    I mean, I get what you're saying -- they could all be people with an axe to grind, and maybe the show has wonderful medical support and treats everyone well. But, just watch what these people are doing ON camera... I don't think it's a leap to suggest that there's some truth to these allegations.

    There have also been plenty of doctors and other people with a medical background criticising the show.
  • Briantime
    Briantime Posts: 175 Member
    edited January 2015
    In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    Wouldn't a $5 fiddle actually be very difficult to play? :-)
  • NoelFigart1
    NoelFigart1 Posts: 1,276 Member
    Briantime wrote: »
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    Wouldn't a $5 fiddle actually be very difficult to play? :-)

    LOL. The wisdom of my Ancestors is in the expression. My unhallowed hands shall not touch it.
  • prattiger65
    prattiger65 Posts: 1,657 Member
    I personally think the show sucks, but I have that same thought about almost all reality TV. I just hate to see knee jerk reaction to one article by two disgruntled contestants. There have literally been thousands do the show, where is the groundswell of outrage by the others? We all know that in the US, a good attorney would blow right through that contract if the contestants were mislead or mistreated, you know that! Where are the lawsuits? ITs reality TV, part of the appeal is how poorly the contestants appear to be treated. I think anyone who takes this at face value is easily deceived.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Jimmyftw94 wrote: »
    I remember some of the coaches from when I was in high school. The girls volleyball coach did the most yelling and he's the one that got them a state championship trophy.

    This. Most Americans are brought up by lenient parents. That's why most people cannot handle tough criticism and are generally lazy as opposed to hard working.

    That's bull.
  • snowflake930
    snowflake930 Posts: 2,188 Member
    edited January 2015
    I personally think the show sucks, but I have that same thought about almost all reality TV. I just hate to see knee jerk reaction to one article by two disgruntled contestants. There have literally been thousands do the show, where is the groundswell of outrage by the others? We all know that in the US, a good attorney would blow right through that contract if the contestants were mislead or mistreated, you know that! Where are the lawsuits? ITs reality TV, part of the appeal is how poorly the contestants appear to be treated. I think anyone who takes this at face value is easily deceived.

    ^^That's me, easily deceived. I refuse to watch people be humiliated and treated like this. It does not matter if they are agreeable to the treatment or not. This is a sick commentary on what many in the society find to be entertainment.

    The number of people that watch proves that people find this entertaining. I do not, and refuse to watch reality tv. It is not amusing in the least. It is cruel and mean spirited treatment. Nothing justifies this in my opinion.

  • stealthq
    stealthq Posts: 4,298 Member
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, my IQ is in the 99th percentile. That is NOT a free pass for me to be contemptuous of or cruel to anyone whose IQ is lower than mine.

    And to be frank, no matter how damn smart you THINK you are, you're still human and you still have all the human buttons, even if you think you don't. In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    I think a little humility and compassion is a better way to go.

    I can guarantee you that the show would not allow someone with insufficient mental capacity to evaluate the facts and make an informed decision on the show. Doing so would invalidate their contracts. They would exclude people with obvious emotional issues as well - don't want anyone committing suicide or murder or the show, either.

    My problem is that these people are not idiots. They have the full mental capacity to make an informed choice for themselves. They made a wrong choice and must live with the consequences, just like every human being on the planet does.

    I'm not going to walk around feeling particularly sorry for them putting themselves in a bad situation. Do I understand that it's easy to do? Sure. Have I made not-so-smart decisions, too, and reaped the consequences? Yep. Do I think I'm better than they are? Nope. But I'm going to acknowledge that the blame for their situation lands squarely in their laps - just like it lands in mine when I do something ill-advised.

  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member
    I watched and loved the show for several seasons. I might have stopped watching because Jillian michaels left and she was the yelliest of them all. From the initial workouts to their increasing fitness over time, to their team challenges and even the tips the trainers gave before commercial breaks, I really liked it all of it. I would say they actually inspired some of my attitudes to exercise today, because i figured if these people could exercise for eight hours a day, I could do two or three if I wanted to. Like any show though after a while you just stop watching.

    After the first damn season you know a good chunk of what goes on in the show. If you're a wimp, stay home. If you can hack it, sign up.

    And don't forget that once there, not only can you leave whenever you want, each week you have to actively work hard to prevent being eliminated. At the very least if you want to leave on the sneak sneak all you have to do is not try so hard when it comes time to start sending people off the show...
  • WalkingAlong
    WalkingAlong Posts: 4,926 Member
    Hibbard has been bad-mouthing the show for years, and it seems to be getting worse each article. Not that I think the show doesn't deserve a lot of it. But I agree that the "400 calories" and stuff is exaggerated. And they do sideline people with injuries.

    And you can't sign away your legal rights. If there was actual and widespread physical abuse going on, there would be lawsuits, I think.

    The ABC one in summer has a bitter past contestant-- Extreme Weight Loss. He keeps asking the show to cover medical things in his present claiming they're consequences of his loss, and when they don't, he cries to the internet about all the abuses they dished out. There is a girl who was bitter, too. She was the one who got a swimming pool built at her house. It's like the networks adopt these people for the year and some of them don't want it to end.
  • Mr_Knight
    Mr_Knight Posts: 9,532 Member
    kyta32 wrote: »
    Yelling and negativity are neither necessary nor helpful in weight loss or athletic performance.

    If that were true, yelling would have been de-selected from sports a long time ago.
  • Aviva92 wrote: »
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, my IQ is in the 99th percentile. That is NOT a free pass for me to be contemptuous of or cruel to anyone whose IQ is lower than mine.

    And to be frank, no matter how damn smart you THINK you are, you're still human and you still have all the human buttons, even if you think you don't. In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    I think a little humility and compassion is a better way to go.

    THANK YOU.
  • SingRunTing
    SingRunTing Posts: 2,604 Member
    LAWoman72 wrote: »
    Jimmyftw94 wrote: »
    LAWoman72 wrote: »
    I remember some of the coaches from when I was in high school. The girls volleyball coach did the most yelling and he's the one that got them a state championship trophy.

    And was it worth all that yelling?

    One trophy?

    It's not about the trophy.. It's the idea that hard work pays off. They're never going to learn this from having a lenient couch.

    No, nor are they going to learn it from being yelled at.

    What they're going to learn from that isn't that hard work pays off; it's that if they don't do very well, they'll get yelled at.

    Ergo, take away the yelling = no more motivation to work hard.

    So, not sure they learned much of a hard work ethic here, except that when you're not yelled at, you can slack off, but if, say, your boss screams at you, that's when to get to work.

    Hopefully they all grew up to have screamer bosses so that they were able to excel in the workforce, and screaming spouses so that they were motivated to keep the house clean and so on.

    Some people respond better to yelling, some people respond better to hand holding. Each of us are different and respond to different things. There are plenty of people who hire a PT to yell at them, so yes, some people actually want to be yelled at.

    It's just like here on MFP. Some people respond well to hand holding, coddling posts. Some people respond better to the so called "mean people" type posts. Some people just need and want to be slapped with the hard cold reality and that's what will reach them. People are different, so a good trainer (and forum posters) will try to reach them with different methods until something clicks.
  • NoelFigart1
    NoelFigart1 Posts: 1,276 Member
    stealthq wrote: »
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, my IQ is in the 99th percentile. That is NOT a free pass for me to be contemptuous of or cruel to anyone whose IQ is lower than mine.

    And to be frank, no matter how damn smart you THINK you are, you're still human and you still have all the human buttons, even if you think you don't. In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    I think a little humility and compassion is a better way to go.

    I can guarantee you that the show would not allow someone with insufficient mental capacity to evaluate the facts and make an informed decision on the show. Doing so would invalidate their contracts. They would exclude people with obvious emotional issues as well - don't want anyone committing suicide or murder or the show, either.

    I think you're missing my point. Did they make a bad decision to be on that show? Hell YEAH.

    I'm a Heinleiner, so I'm about as Thou Art God, self-responsibility and all that jazz as you can get.

    Doesn't mean I don't have compassion for someone who fell to an a manipulator with a level of skill you have to be on the wrong end of to believe, and I promise you the people who work in so-called reality TV are among the most skilled you'd ever have the misfortune to meet.


  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member
    Yeah, I vote we ban all hobbies and activities we don't agree with.
  • SingRunTing
    SingRunTing Posts: 2,604 Member
    stealthq wrote: »
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    Of course, this is just one hit piece. The truth might be different than this story. I personally think these people are idiots to subject themselves to this. They are adults and the should know what they are getting in to. I have no sympathy at all.

    but why not have sympathy for idiots? it's not their fault that they weren't blessed with intelligence.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, my IQ is in the 99th percentile. That is NOT a free pass for me to be contemptuous of or cruel to anyone whose IQ is lower than mine.

    And to be frank, no matter how damn smart you THINK you are, you're still human and you still have all the human buttons, even if you think you don't. In fact, when it comes to manipulating people, the people who think they're strong-minded and above manipulation are actually some of the easiest to play like a $5 fiddle.

    I think a little humility and compassion is a better way to go.

    I can guarantee you that the show would not allow someone with insufficient mental capacity to evaluate the facts and make an informed decision on the show. Doing so would invalidate their contracts. They would exclude people with obvious emotional issues as well - don't want anyone committing suicide or murder or the show, either.

    I think you're missing my point. Did they make a bad decision to be on that show? Hell YEAH.

    I'm a Heinleiner, so I'm about as Thou Art God, self-responsibility and all that jazz as you can get.

    Doesn't mean I don't have compassion for someone who fell to an a manipulator with a level of skill you have to be on the wrong end of to believe, and I promise you the people who work in so-called reality TV are among the most skilled you'd ever have the misfortune to meet.


    Seriously, a lot of the contestants believe that if they don't lose the weight, they are going to die. And they feel like they can't do it on their own. The show is like a white knight charging in to save them. It would be hard to resist if you are in that mentality of I need to do this or die.

    I do hold the opinion that they know what they're getting into just from watching the show. If they don't watch the show before they sign up, then they are dumb. They also can leave at any time, several contestants have willingly dropped out or have "faked" a gain on the scale to get voted off.

    Basically, I understand why people sign up for the show, but don't believe that they are trapped there being tortured against their will.
  • SLLRunner wrote: »

    Comparing this show to abusive relationships and cults is a bit ridiculous.

    I don't really think so. People ask the same questions of people involved in cults or abusive relationships - Why did you stay so long? You could leave whenever you wanted... It's been proven that you can keep control over someone without physically restraining them. The contestants should be grateful, this is the best chance that they have to save thier lives, nobody else would ever want to help them, not only do they get to lose a bunch of weight and get attention, they also get a chance at money! They have no reason to complain besides being lazy... in fact, that's what people are saying in this very thread. That's how you end up with "Stockholm Syndrome-like Tendancies," and it's why people don't leave when everything about the situation says that they should.

    Now obviously cults and abusive relationships are more extreme and long term than reality TV, but the idea is the same. Take a bunch of vulnerable people (mentally ill, social disorders, low self esteem, depression, personality disorders, etc. - you know, the kind of people that are "fun" to watch), isolate them from friends and family in a very intense situation (on other shows there's usually a lot of free alcohol involved), restrict entertainment and contact with the "normal" world, and put them through physical challenges beyond what is normal for that person. Add in personal drama (on this show, constant belittling and screaming which is PROVEN to be less effective in the long run for weight loss than positive affirmation), and you have absolutely got a recipe for disaster.

    We're watching people self destruct for fun. It's not inspirational, it's not educational - in fact, it quite often spreads misinformation and unrealistic goals more than anything. When someone is scammed why don't we put the blame on the scammer? You know, on the person who's actively hurting people to make a buck? Why is it that the victims become somehow to blame for being taken in? If you're the kind of person that needs to be reassured that "this couldn't possibly happen to me" by assuming that everyone who falls for things like this must be stupid or weak, then I sincerely hope that you never end up in a situation where someone is taking advantage of you. Or if you do, I hope you find someone with a bit more compassion to listen to your story.
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