Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • JessicaMcB
    JessicaMcB Posts: 1,503 Member
    edited June 2017
    Hugs to you @MissKalhan <3 . You are good enough- having enough love for your friend to miss him right now is enough. Be kind to yourself.

    @quiksylver296 I am so excited for you!

    Confession: I am really over how "okay" people think it is to rail on sports they don't personally enjoy. I hate lifting, but lifters are amazing athletes who I have a ton of respect for. Wish that respect was more of a two way street
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    JessicaMcB wrote: »
    Hugs to you @MissKalhan <3 . You are good enough- having enough love for your friend to miss him right now is enough. Be kind to yourself.

    @quiksylver296 I am so excited for you!

    Confession: I am really over how "okay" people think it is to rail on sports they don't personally enjoy. I hate lifting, but lifters are amazing athletes who I have a ton of respect for. Wish that respect was more of a two way street

    That guy was a kittening kitten. I agree with you. I respect the hard work, no matter whether it's something I enjoy or don't.
  • MissKalhan
    MissKalhan Posts: 2,282 Member
    JessicaMcB wrote: »
    Hugs to you @MissKalhan <3 . You are good enough- having enough love for your friend to miss him right now is enough. Be kind to yourself.

    @quiksylver296 I am so excited for you!

    Confession: I am really over how "okay" people think it is to rail on sports they don't personally enjoy. I hate lifting, but lifters are amazing athletes who I have a ton of respect for. Wish that respect was more of a two way street

    AFUCKINGMEN! I ran two half marathons so I can understand the love for both sports and others (I would love to do pole if I wasn't so damn uncoordinated....). DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS PEOPLE /endrant
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    JessicaMcB wrote: »
    Hugs to you @MissKalhan <3 . You are good enough- having enough love for your friend to miss him right now is enough. Be kind to yourself.

    @quiksylver296 I am so excited for you!

    Confession: I am really over how "okay" people think it is to rail on sports they don't personally enjoy. I hate lifting, but lifters are amazing athletes who I have a ton of respect for. Wish that respect was more of a two way street

    Trust me, Jessica, I respect your ability to run. I lift and I am a decent dancer. (I was better before a car accident made mush of my left knee.) I respect the hours it takes to be good at anything. People who don get that are probably not good at much.
  • JessicaMcB
    JessicaMcB Posts: 1,503 Member
    Thanks ladies, I know it definitely isn't you guys who get on like that <3 . I usually don't let it bother me in real life or online but it seems a lot of the time that there are certain sports that people just feel like it's alright to minimize- makes me sad that people starting out might not try something that could make them happy because they hear all the collective negativity. Siiiigh.

    Or maybe taper against Banff Marathon on the 18th is making me crazy...who knows ;)
  • spamarie
    spamarie Posts: 2,825 Member
    spamarie wrote: »
    I always thought there was something slightly seductive about eating cherries on the stalk. Just me then?!

    But can you tie the stem in a knot inside your mouth? Neat bar trick.

    No I'm not that cool! I can just touch my nose with my tongue. I'm a pretty glamorous person...
  • spamarie
    spamarie Posts: 2,825 Member
    I'm lucky never to properly suffer with mental health problems (my post baby 'bit more than blues but not quite pnd' was scary enough) but I know what it's like to lose a dear friend in your 20s. It's hard @MissKalhan. All my sympathies and just know that you are an amazing person, all the more so for talking about it. It gets easier over time but it never goes away.
  • MissKalhan
    MissKalhan Posts: 2,282 Member
    JessicaMcB wrote: »
    Thanks ladies, I know it definitely isn't you guys who get on like that <3 . I usually don't let it bother me in real life or online but it seems a lot of the time that there are certain sports that people just feel like it's alright to minimize- makes me sad that people starting out might not try something that could make them happy because they hear all the collective negativity. Siiiigh.

    Or maybe taper against Banff Marathon on the 18th is making me crazy...who knows ;)

    Lol the taper or peak week craziness is real! Although, I think all of what you are saying is right and you are right to be upset/annoyed by it.
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
    I made it 3 days on my no treats challenge and then quit. I love my treats too much :disappointed: #fail

    You at least made it three days which is more than I could even do! So definitely consider it a win & like a few others said incorporate them into your day.

    If you have some stuff that's harder to manage eating without binging (like I did with ice cream for awhile) then try to find some alternatives like frozen yogurt or popsicles.

    My favorite ice cream at the moment is Halo Top & Enlightened (it can be pricy but Wal-Mart sells it for $4.67 a pint). If I eat a whole pint it will usually only be around 280-400 calories max. I wish it were cheaper or I had a Shop Rite near me, because that store sells a lot of those brands at times for $2.88.

    I bought my fourth pint of Halo Top this weekend. Cookies and Cream. It's waiting in the freezer currently. I'm still Team #realicecream.

    My favorite is Birthday Cake, Cookie Dough, & Peanut Butter Cup.
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
    Normal BMI, people!!! B)h0ghj6ssq3br.jpg

    Way to go Quik! You have worked your *kitten* off to get to that point. Any new lifting meets in the work?

    Ouch on the ripped callous!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    JessicaMcB wrote: »
    Hugs to you @MissKalhan <3 . You are good enough- having enough love for your friend to miss him right now is enough. Be kind to yourself.

    @quiksylver296 I am so excited for you!

    Confession: I am really over how "okay" people think it is to rail on sports they don't personally enjoy. I hate lifting, but lifters are amazing athletes who I have a ton of respect for. Wish that respect was more of a two way street

    AxxxxxMEN! I ran two half marathons so I can understand the love for both sports and others (I would love to do pole if I wasn't so damn uncoordinated....). DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS PEOPLE /endrant

    I hate my first post in days is a comment on swearing...
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    JessicaMcB wrote: »
    Hugs to you @MissKalhan <3 . You are good enough- having enough love for your friend to miss him right now is enough. Be kind to yourself.

    @quiksylver296 I am so excited for you!

    Confession: I am really over how "okay" people think it is to rail on sports they don't personally enjoy. I hate lifting, but lifters are amazing athletes who I have a ton of respect for. Wish that respect was more of a two way street

    That guy was a kittening kitten. I agree with you. I respect the hard work, no matter whether it's something I enjoy or don't.

    Ditto!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MissKalhan wrote: »
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    One year ago yesterday technically I lost a dear friend and fellow wrestler (who I coached) to an overdose on recreational psychedelics, I made a promise in that moment that I would do enough living for the both of us (he was 23 when he passed). I've been a bit of a wreck emotionally and mentally lately, just a bunch of self hate and depression rearing its ugly head. All of this is highlighted by the fact that lately I'm not doing enough, I'm not good enough and well I'm lost.

    So I guess there's a real darn confession for yall.

    Photo was taken the day after I got the news of his death, sunset which was very fitting.

    I'm so sorry Victoria.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Normal BMI, people!!! B)h0ghj6ssq3br.jpg

    You rock!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Ooooh, and I ripped my first callus weight lifting last night. That sucker stings!
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    Owww!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    spamarie wrote: »
    I always thought there was something slightly seductive about eating cherries on the stalk. Just me then?!

    Anne-Marie I will never look at cherries the same way again!!! :p
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    I made it 3 days on my no treats challenge and then quit. I love my treats too much :disappointed: #fail

    I made it like 3 months last year without drinking. Now the most I've made it is like 10 days. We all have our weaknesses. Like Quik said, maybe just figure out how to work it into your daily routine in moderation.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    spamarie wrote: »
    I shall join the rubbish sleep club. Bathroom is out of action so I have to trapse through the house (it's not big but it's a weird zigzag layout) to the downstairs loo. Then husband wakes me before 6am to tell me the election results. Says it will affect the next 5 years of our lives. True perhaps, but it wouldn't have affected them any more or less had I discovered them at 7ish and now I am grumpy. That will affect husband's life for the next day!

    I was reading about that last night. I guess we are all going to be in a weird political situation for the next few years. Except our Canadian friends. They seem ok...

    Yah, even our Conservative's are pretty tame compared to Trump to be honest....
    Politically speaking, the pendulum swings one way or the other every few decades or so. The swing to the right was a long time coming, although this far right is TERRIFYING.

    Amen. I can say it woke me up to politics. Now I'm obsessed. Myiah would be proud of me.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Assassin Kitty struck again.
    4 mice, 4 chipmunks, 1 squirrel

    This is a tally right? He isn't getting more kills in each night?

    Maybe you aren't giving him enough attention? He must kill more to buy your affection.

    I think he's thanking me for feeding him. He high fives me now and has even gnawed on my fingers but won't let me pet him yet.

    That's pretty amazing though!

    It is. Sometimes when he is anxious to eat he just keeps tapping at my arm as I'm putting the wet food in the bowl. I think he's just trying to hurry the obligatory high 5 along.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Assassin Kitty struck again.
    4 mice, 4 chipmunks, 1 squirrel

    I'm telling you, that kitty loves you and is on a kill streak.

    Yep. I just hate he is bringing me animals. How about flowers?

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    I know I know...he's just being sweet.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Assassin Kitty struck again.
    4 mice, 4 chipmunks, 1 squirrel

    4 mice, 4 chipmunks, 1 squirrel, 1 bird.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    I have had the worst cold the last few days and been swamped. The open work environment has really put a cramp in my posting in here. I have to find more time to do it I miss you guys!
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    I have had the worst cold the last few days and been swamped. The open work environment has really put a cramp in my posting in here. I have to find more time to do it I miss you guys!

    You're my cold twin! I'm currently suffering right now as well. I'm hoping I'll be sent home early at some point today. I've already affectionately been called snotface so it's looking good!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    I have had the worst cold the last few days and been swamped. The open work environment has really put a cramp in my posting in here. I have to find more time to do it I miss you guys!

    You're my cold twin! I'm currently suffering right now as well. I'm hoping I'll be sent home early at some point today. I've already affectionately been called snotface so it's looking good!
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    I have had the worst cold the last few days and been swamped. The open work environment has really put a cramp in my posting in here. I have to find more time to do it I miss you guys!

    You're my cold twin! I'm currently suffering right now as well. I'm hoping I'll be sent home early at some point today. I've already affectionately been called snotface so it's looking good!

    Mine has settled into my chest now and I have a hacking cough. And yes, lots of blowing of the nose, sniffling!
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    edited June 2017
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Assassin Kitty struck again.
    4 mice, 4 chipmunks, 1 squirrel

    4 mice, 4 chipmunks, 1 squirrel, 1 bird.

    Stop dropping hints, Porch Kitty. POF is not going to feed you raw meat. :)

    EDIT: I'm sorry. I missed that we have changed his name to Assassin Kitty. Hereafter, I shall call him AK for short.
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    Ugh, I'm a fatty. I have 208 calories left for the day at 2:50 pm. LMAO Looks like I'll be getting some steps in during my son's baseball game tonight.

    On the plus side, I've discovered that The Taste of Texas BBQ Payday bar is quite delicious.

    That does not sound delicious :s
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    Fact: there is no graceful way to eat cherries. I'm sitting at my desk spitting the pits into a paper cup. #classy

    This. Every time they're in season, I look like a ball player with dip except my teeth turn red like I belong on True Blood.

    Perhaps these are the reasons why I only eat cherries in pie.

    Oh man, tart cherry pie is SO good!
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    MissKalhan wrote: »
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    One year ago yesterday technically I lost a dear friend and fellow wrestler (who I coached) to an overdose on recreational psychedelics, I made a promise in that moment that I would do enough living for the both of us (he was 23 when he passed). I've been a bit of a wreck emotionally and mentally lately, just a bunch of self hate and depression rearing its ugly head. All of this is highlighted by the fact that lately I'm not doing enough, I'm not good enough and well I'm lost.

    So I guess there's a real damn confession for yall.

    Photo was taken the day after I got the news of his death, sunset which was very fitting.

    <3
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Normal BMI, people!!! B)h0ghj6ssq3br.jpg

    Way to go Quik! You have worked your *kitten* off to get to that point. Any new lifting meets in the work?

    Ouch on the ripped callous!

    August 5th. Northwest regionals. And my coach is already looking at Nationals in October in Orlando... :#
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    I have had the worst cold the last few days and been swamped. The open work environment has really put a cramp in my posting in here. I have to find more time to do it I miss you guys!

    Feel better!