Reasons to get fit... Girlfriend someday
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I dont to discourage anyone here but i really don't think girls care if a guys swole or not, i'm pretty sure it's the last thing they care about, plus if a girl wants to jump on you because you're jacked.... she's probably the kind you want to avoid anyway haha.
Very much agree with this! I'm by no means "swole" or even thin but I have had a boyfriend for a while now. He's seen me at my fattest and didn't even care (minus his concerns for my health). If somebody really loves you they won't care whether or not you're swole, they'll care that you are doing what you want to do and that you're happy.
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alaskanbliss wrote: »You know, I initially started losing weight and getting fit b/c I was sick of being the funny fat friend with a "pretty face". To some degree, I think I partly wanted to attract more male attention. Funny thing is...once you start losing and getting fit you realize that you are awesome...male/female attention or not. I seriously catch certain views of myself now and I'm like "daaaammmmnnnn self!".
Just do you. Work on you. Be happy. You may or not meet someone...but really...your life is about sooo much more than finding a girlfriend. Take up hobbies, figure out what you like and work to be happy independent of another person. It's totally worth it.
I promise!
Good luck!
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I dont to discourage anyone here but i really don't think girls care if a guys swole or not, i'm pretty sure it's the last thing they care about, plus if a girl wants to jump on you because you're jacked.... she's probably the kind you want to avoid anyway haha.
I agree aswell. You need to find someone who loves all your perfections and imperfections... Thats all that matters and you both support eachothers goals.
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I agree with the swole not swole thing, but I think you have a better chance to get noticed if you aren't overweight, that's one of the reasons I wanted to get in shape..0
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I dont to discourage anyone here but i really don't think girls care if a guys swole or not, i'm pretty sure it's the last thing they care about, plus if a girl wants to jump on you because you're jacked.... she's probably the kind you want to avoid anyway haha.I agree with the swole not swole thing, but I think you have a better chance to get noticed if you aren't overweight, that's one of the reasons I wanted to get in shape..
Agreed with both of these!0 -
I dont to discourage anyone here but i really don't think girls care if a guys swole or not, i'm pretty sure it's the last thing they care about, plus if a girl wants to jump on you because you're jacked.... she's probably the kind you want to avoid anyway haha.
Disagree somewhat.
@Tomm88 you have 10/10 facial aesthetics. Something you have no control over. I'm positive girls want to jump you because of your handsome face, how is that any different from girls throwing themselves at jacked bros?
If your face (as a guy) isn't a 7/10 or better, being jacked help makes up for it.
At the OP, you don't have to be jacked at all to get a girl, but being jacked expands your opportunities by 100x0 -
I dont to discourage anyone here but i really don't think girls care if a guys swole or not, i'm pretty sure it's the last thing they care about, plus if a girl wants to jump on you because you're jacked.... she's probably the kind you want to avoid anyway haha.
Disagree somewhat.
@Tomm88 you have 10/10 facial aesthetics. Something you have no control over. I'm positive girls want to jump you because of your handsome face, how is that any different from girls throwing themselves at jacked bros?
If your face (as a guy) isn't a 7/10 or better, being jacked help makes up for it.
At the OP, you don't have to be jacked at all to get a girl, but being jacked expands your opportunities by 100x
Smart man!0 -
I work out to look good naked...and eat more ice cream.0
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to inspire and set a good example for others!0
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I dont to discourage anyone here but i really don't think girls care if a guys swole or not, i'm pretty sure it's the last thing they care about, plus if a girl wants to jump on you because you're jacked.... she's probably the kind you want to avoid anyway haha.
Disagree somewhat.
@Tomm88 you have 10/10 facial aesthetics. Something you have no control over. I'm positive girls want to jump you because of your handsome face, how is that any different from girls throwing themselves at jacked bros?
If your face (as a guy) isn't a 7/10 or better, being jacked help makes up for it.
At the OP, you don't have to be jacked at all to get a girl, but being jacked expands your opportunities by 100x
i disagree... a lot of women go deeper than just looks and physical , certain features in someones personality is more attractive to a woman.. men are more like monkey see and like then monkey do her.
Double disagree. Women have preferences as much as men (probably more)
You don't walk into a room and immediately say that guy has a great personality. He is sincere and true
You walk in and judge on aesthetics.
If face is good >then personality matters
if face is not good >then body matters >then personality0 -
I have dated a variety of men both skinny and bodybuilders. I can honestly say that I find them all attractive on different levels. As far as the type of attraction, it varies greatly...... Sure I was always very physically attracted to the muscular bodybuilder types, but it never seemed to go deeper than that. The skinnier men that I dated I may not have had that initial physical attraction to, however seeing how sweet, funny and caring they can be made them attractive on a totally different level. Bottom line is, it all depends on the individual personalities. I am now fortunate enough to have the best of both worlds, my hubby is not only sweet and handsome but I think he has a bangin' body too.
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@jelie3110 you just ruined everyone's hopes by mentioning that you're married haha
In all seriousness though, get fit for you and no one else...if it makes you happy, it will make others happy both directly and indirectly0 -
@jelie3110 you just ruined everyone's hopes by mentioning that you're married haha
In all seriousness though, get fit for you and no one else...if it makes you happy, it will make others happy both directly and indirectly
Aww, that's sweet:) what you said is right on!0 -
@moijo705 i have no idea what body parts are being shown in your picture...0
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This requires much closer inspectionCapt_Apollo wrote: »@moijo705 i have no idea what body parts are being shown in your picture...
my arm!0 -
If I started working out to get a boyfriend, I would have given up years ago. Love is not a victory march - Leonard Cohen0
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