Did I do something wrong?? (Relationship problem)

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  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    ferniejoy wrote: »
    I have been with an emotional abuser now for 31 years. While I am grateful for his service, what he did to you was abusive. There is no excuse for abuse. I have had a hard time leaving, but I need to for my sanity. It is much easier when you are not married, don't have kids, and don't have decades of history and brainwashing in place. Please don't take a chance. Get out now.

    ditto.

  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Dump him. Name calling is never acceptable in a relationship. That's in addition to his immaturity. Besides, it is rare that serviceman that is deployed for any length of time is faithful.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    While I would not really care but someone else can care. What is right in a relationship to one is not right for another.

    So talk to him and find out why he acted the way he did.