Really needing advice !!

Do any of you guys no if 2500 calories is really what you need to be eating of you have an eating disorder and are trying to recover from it?or is it too many?
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  • scottf4413
    scottf4413 Posts: 73 Member
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    scottf4413 wrote: »
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
    I did that and it says I an supposed to have 2000
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    niamh211 wrote: »
    scottf4413 wrote: »
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
    I did that and it says I an supposed to have 2000

    then you eat 2000.

    as you have an eating disorder maybe you should check with your treatment team…

    you already asked this question in the other thread and were given answers...
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    niamh211 wrote: »
    scottf4413 wrote: »
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
    I did that and it says I an supposed to have 2000

    then you eat 2000.

    as you have an eating disorder maybe you should check with your treatment team…

    you already asked this question in the other thread and were given answers...

    Ah I'm well aware that I asked already I just taught it mite be different when you have an eating disorder
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    niamh211 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    niamh211 wrote: »
    scottf4413 wrote: »
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
    I did that and it says I an supposed to have 2000

    then you eat 2000.

    as you have an eating disorder maybe you should check with your treatment team…

    you already asked this question in the other thread and were given answers...

    Ah I'm well aware that I asked already I just taught it mite be different when you have an eating disorder

    math and science don't change because you had an eating disorder. YOu need to eat enough calories to get into a surplus to gain weight. I assume you have a treatment team due to your disorder, yes? Maybe you should ask them and not a bunch of random internet people.

    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    niamh211 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    niamh211 wrote: »
    scottf4413 wrote: »
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
    I did that and it says I an supposed to have 2000

    then you eat 2000.

    as you have an eating disorder maybe you should check with your treatment team…

    you already asked this question in the other thread and were given answers...

    Ah I'm well aware that I asked already I just taught it mite be different when you have an eating disorder

    math and science don't change because you had an eating disorder. YOu need to eat enough calories to get into a surplus to gain weight. I assume you have a treatment team due to your disorder, yes? Maybe you should ask them and not a bunch of random internet people.

    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.

    Well the reason I was asking was because I DONT have a treatment team and yes u are being harsh as this is very hard topic to talk about and deal with

  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    niamh211 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    niamh211 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    niamh211 wrote: »
    scottf4413 wrote: »
    Enter your info in the MFP app.
    I did that and it says I an supposed to have 2000

    then you eat 2000.

    as you have an eating disorder maybe you should check with your treatment team…

    you already asked this question in the other thread and were given answers...

    Ah I'm well aware that I asked already I just taught it mite be different when you have an eating disorder

    math and science don't change because you had an eating disorder. YOu need to eat enough calories to get into a surplus to gain weight. I assume you have a treatment team due to your disorder, yes? Maybe you should ask them and not a bunch of random internet people.

    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.

    Well the reason I was asking was because I DONT have a treatment team and yes u are being harsh as this is very hard topic to talk about and deal with

    then you should go see a DR and/or specialist to help you recover from your eating disorder.
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    here is my advice..

    instead of asking over and over what is the right amount….Set MFP to 2000 calories and eat to that number. If you do not gain after two weeks, then add 100 calories a day until you start gaining.

  • socajam
    socajam Posts: 2,530 Member
    edited May 2015
    I am going to be as harsh as the others: go find a treatment team who have the experience in dealing with eating disorders and in due course will put you on the road to recovery.
    You can find one several ways: do some research, talk to your doctor or family/friends.
  • jorinya
    jorinya Posts: 933 Member
    I had an eating disorder when I was younger. They say you should aim at adding 2lb a week. After that when you at your target weight eat normally. Research online and ask your doctor. Try not to get stressed out and what's for the signs that trigger you to not eat, binge or throw up. You understand me right? Please take it one step at a time and my advise, don't post again because unless someone been through it themselves, they really can't advise you correctly. Go see a dietitian and a therapist and take little steps. You can beat this, I'm living proof it can be done. Add me and email me when ever you like. I'm in your corner.
  • jorinya
    jorinya Posts: 933 Member
    edited May 2015
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.

    I know you are trying to help and I know she has asked questions before but that kind of responses you gave can really trigger her to have a relapse. People recovering from eating disorders need encouragement and support on a different level. Give her some credit for having the courage to ask in the first place. It takes guts to let people know you have a problem and want to fix it. Some people don't share their problems and die. I'm not having a go at you. Just trying to show you the bigger picture. Patience is the key.
    Well done for trying to help her, it shows your a gentleman and there aren't many of them around. Well done you!!!
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    edited May 2015
    jorinya wrote: »
    I had an eating disorder when I was younger. They say you should aim at adding 2lb a week. After that when you at your target weight eat normally. Research online and ask your doctor. Try not to get stressed out and what's for the signs that trigger you to not eat, binge or throw up. You understand me right? Please take it one step at a time and my advise, don't post again because unless someone been through it themselves, they really can't advise you correctly. Go see a dietitian and a therapist and take little steps. You can beat this, I'm living proof it can be done. Add me and email me when ever you like. I'm in your corner.

    Aw tanx so much you are very kind I really appreciate it
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    edited May 2015
    jorinya wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.

    I know you are trying to help and I know she has asked questions before but that kind of responses you gave can really trigger her to have a relapse. People recovering from eating disorders need encouragement and support on a different level. Give her some credit for having the courage to ask in the first place. It takes guts to let people know you have a problem and want to fix it. Some people don't share their problems and die. I'm not having a go at you. Just trying to show you the bigger picture. Patience is the key.
    Well done for trying to help her, it shows your a gentleman and there aren't many of them around. Well done you!!!
    jorinya wrote: »
    [quote="ndj1979;32404264"
    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.

    I know you are trying to help and I know she has asked questions before but that kind of responses you gave can really trigger her to have a relapse. People recovering from eating disorders need encouragement and support on a different level. Give her some credit for having the courage to ask in the first place. It takes guts to let people know you have a problem and want to fix it. Some people don't share their problems and die. I'm not having a go at you. Just trying to show you the bigger picture. Patience is the key.
    Well done for trying to help her, it shows your a gentleman and there aren't many of them around. Well done you!!![/quote]

    Tanx so much for understanding
  • jorinya
    jorinya Posts: 933 Member
    No problem!!
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
    Will assume theres something wrong with your mobile. Dont take it to heart with some of the posts being harsh they are trying to be helpful in their own way.

    You would serve yourself well if you found out about your eating doisorder, whether you have one and the best strategies to deal with it. Obviously your Dr would be a good start so they cna monitor your progress, but you can also look at many of the eating disorder charities, which have plenty of information available.

    http://www.b-eat.co.uk/about-eating-disorders/help-and-treatment

    This is quite a good guide showing you the overall plan in how to deal with an eating disorder and regain weight.

    http://www.b-eat.co.uk/assets/000/000/275/A4RecoveryTool_LowresPDF_pdf.log1_original.pdf?1423482099

    As far as setting the corret level of calories, then enter your details into MFP to find out what your maintenance is, whatever it is then for each 250 calories per day over that number you should gain 1/2lb a week as long as you are consistent. As long as you track your calories and consistently meet the targets it will happen for you. Good luck.
  • jorinya
    jorinya Posts: 933 Member

    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.



    (Sorry had to fix it cos I didn't work the first time. )
    jorinya wrote: »

    I know you are trying to help and I know she has asked questions before but that kind of responses you gave can really trigger her to have a relapse. People recovering from eating disorders need encouragement and support on a different level. Give her some credit for having the courage to ask in the first place. It takes guts to let people know you have a problem and want to fix it. Some people don't share their problems and die. I'm not having a go at you. Just trying to show you the bigger picture. Patience is the key.
    Well done for trying to help her, it shows your a gentleman and there aren't many of them around. Well done you!!!

  • AliceDark
    AliceDark Posts: 3,886 Member
    Recommendations for weight restoration after an ED are different from bulking recommendations. If you don't tell people here that you are in recovery, you are probably going to give you inaccurate and possibly dangerous advice. 2000 calories is probably low if you're in recovery, but I'm not a doctor and can't tell you for sure what you should do. Nobody here can.

    With that said, here are some actual resources:

    http://www.youreatopia.com/blog/2013/3/31/minniemaud-guidelines-for-recovery-from-a-restrictive-eating.html
    http://www.youreatopia.com/blog/2011/9/14/i-need-how-many-calories.html
    https://myfitnesspal.desk.com/customer/portal/articles/1575987-eating-disorder-resources
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    AliceDark wrote: »
    Recommendations for weight restoration after an ED are different from bulking recommendations. If you don't tell people here that you are in recovery, you are probably going to give you inaccurate and possibly dangerous advice. 2000 calories is probably low if you're in recovery, but I'm not a doctor and can't tell you for sure what you should do. Nobody here can.

    With that said, here are some actual resources:

    http://www.youreatopia.com/blog/2013/3/31/minniemaud-guidelines-for-recovery-from-a-restrictive-eating.html
    http://www.youreatopia.com/blog/2011/9/14/i-need-how-many-calories.html
    https://myfitnesspal.desk.com/customer/portal/articles/1575987-eating-disorder-resources

    That's great help thank you so much it's really appreciated
  • niamh211
    niamh211 Posts: 150 Member
    Pu_239 wrote: »
    What type of eating disorder do you have?

    It's called ednos
  • scottf4413
    scottf4413 Posts: 73 Member
    edited May 2015
    jorinya wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Not trying to be harsh, but it is really annoying when you keep posting multiple thread asking the same thing, when you have already gotten answers.

    I know you are trying to help and I know she has asked questions before but that kind of responses you gave can really trigger her to have a relapse. People recovering from eating disorders need encouragement and support on a different level. Give her some credit for having the courage to ask in the first place. It takes guts to let people know you have a problem and want to fix it. Some people don't share their problems and die. I'm not having a go at you. Just trying to show you the bigger picture. Patience is the key.
    Well done for trying to help her, it shows your a gentleman and there aren't many of them around. Well done you!!!

    Very compassionately and we'll stated.