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Married couples question for you?

Baseballfan158
Baseballfan158 Posts: 39
edited January 26 in Chit-Chat
What would you do if you caught your husband or wife cheating on you? Seriously what would you do?
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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Totally agree.
  • ACepero79
    ACepero79 Posts: 711 Member
    Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    Nothing because he never would do that.

    Even if he did I wouldn't come on to a public message board and ask complete strangers who know nothing about me or my life what to do about it.
  • Baseballfan158
    Baseballfan158 Posts: 39
    It was a joke question saw someone post the other about this.
  • butterflyluv1218
    butterflyluv1218 Posts: 430
    I don't think anyone really knows what they would do until it happen to them.
  • bmiller211
    bmiller211 Posts: 222 Member
    More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.
    wow you are understanding...
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.
  • megalin9
    megalin9 Posts: 771 Member
    It would depend on the specifics. Honestly, I would be very hurt, and there would be a lot of anger/healing/counseling involved. When I was younger, I always thought I would end the relationship immediately. Then I read a fictional book that dealt with it and showed how a relationship could be restored, and that changed my opinion.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......

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    Geez, I just did it a few times.....why you so serious?
  • Sublimely_Self_Righteous
    Sublimely_Self_Righteous Posts: 429
    I would come on here and ask everyone's opinion about cheating.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.

    That's true. I'm from the land of the internet, but you wouldn't have to tell me because I would only cheat with you anyway.
  • emiliewright
    emiliewright Posts: 148 Member
    Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......

    I love my friends :)
  • HMVOL7409
    HMVOL7409 Posts: 1,588 Member
    It's a situation you can never judge or say what you'll do until you lived it. Plus the dynamics of the incident do come into play.
  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
    Forgive him and move on.
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.

    That's true. I'm from the land of the internet, but you wouldn't have to tell me because I would only cheat with you anyway.

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  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
    Nothing because he never would do that.

    Even if he did I wouldn't come on to a public message board and ask complete strangers who know nothing about me or my life what to do about it.

    OP didn't even say this happened to them. I took it as a hypothetical question.
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    I'd feel a lot less guilt when I'm out with the boyfriend....
  • CountingCaloriesSuxass
    CountingCaloriesSuxass Posts: 387 Member
    Like in the act?? Join em
  • ChelseaM8726
    ChelseaM8726 Posts: 117
    My Husband decided to stay with me, after he found out. It's been a hard journey, but we're getting through it!
  • CountingCaloriesSuxass
    CountingCaloriesSuxass Posts: 387 Member
    For realz though..I dont know.
  • JNick77
    JNick77 Posts: 3,783 Member
    What would you do if you caught your husband or wife cheating on you? Seriously what would you do?

    <--- Divorced. The marriage would most likely be over for me. Especially if I knew the guy; I couldn't get past the visual on that and it would likely forever be an issue for me. I have trust issues in the first place, so that wouldn't help, probably no survivable.
  • Anthonydaman
    Anthonydaman Posts: 854 Member
    I don't think anyone really knows what they would do until it happen to them.

    Exactly
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
    One word:

    Hidden camera system and online monthly subscription for all fans to view.

    OK, 12 words.
  • Hellbent_Heidi
    Hellbent_Heidi Posts: 3,669 Member
    More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.
    WOW..that's very forgiving...

    I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to react that rationally. I'd most likely go off half cocked, waving my gun around or something. I wouldn't actually shoot him, because nobody is worth going to prison for, but after all is said and done, I'm 99.9% sure I would leave, because if he did it to me once, mistake or not, I don't think I could ever trust him again, and don't want to be in a marriage without trust.:ohwell:
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    i'd start a thread on MFP and ask everyone what i should do.
    then when they give me their opinions on the matter, i would become instantly butthurt, report any and all posts that arent what i want to hear (as well as any gifs of bunnies/kittehs and memes), then i would ragequit.
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
    Forgive him and move on.

    You're not even married.
  • cherryd69
    cherryd69 Posts: 340
    1) belongings packed (his) and dropped in front yard, ready for him to collect
    2) His car trashed
    3) any belongings that he dosnt wear trashed
    4)her face trashed
    5) i would show him exactly what he had given up, this includes access to his child.



    O.H knows this, he knows exactly how i feel.

    Iv already told him, if he is bored with me/us and finds he wants to be with someone else, then he is to tell me an go.... theres no excuse to cheat. Just leave.
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