Married couples question for you?
Baseballfan158
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What would you do if you caught your husband or wife cheating on you? Seriously what would you do?
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No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.0
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No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
^^^^This. Nor anyone else.0 -
More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.0
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No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
^^^^This. Nor anyone else.
Totally agree.0 -
Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......0
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Nothing because he never would do that.
Even if he did I wouldn't come on to a public message board and ask complete strangers who know nothing about me or my life what to do about it.0 -
It was a joke question saw someone post the other about this.0
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I don't think anyone really knows what they would do until it happen to them.0
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wow you are understanding...More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.0 -
No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
^^^^This. Nor anyone else.
Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.0 -
It would depend on the specifics. Honestly, I would be very hurt, and there would be a lot of anger/healing/counseling involved. When I was younger, I always thought I would end the relationship immediately. Then I read a fictional book that dealt with it and showed how a relationship could be restored, and that changed my opinion.0
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Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......
Geez, I just did it a few times.....why you so serious?0 -
I would come on here and ask everyone's opinion about cheating.0
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No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
^^^^This. Nor anyone else.
Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.
That's true. I'm from the land of the internet, but you wouldn't have to tell me because I would only cheat with you anyway.0 -
Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......
I love my friends
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It's a situation you can never judge or say what you'll do until you lived it. Plus the dynamics of the incident do come into play.0
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Forgive him and move on.0
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No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
^^^^This. Nor anyone else.
Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.
That's true. I'm from the land of the internet, but you wouldn't have to tell me because I would only cheat with you anyway.
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Nothing because he never would do that.
Even if he did I wouldn't come on to a public message board and ask complete strangers who know nothing about me or my life what to do about it.
OP didn't even say this happened to them. I took it as a hypothetical question.0 -
I'd feel a lot less guilt when I'm out with the boyfriend....0
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Like in the act?? Join em0
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My Husband decided to stay with me, after he found out. It's been a hard journey, but we're getting through it!0
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For realz though..I dont know.0
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What would you do if you caught your husband or wife cheating on you? Seriously what would you do?
<--- Divorced. The marriage would most likely be over for me. Especially if I knew the guy; I couldn't get past the visual on that and it would likely forever be an issue for me. I have trust issues in the first place, so that wouldn't help, probably no survivable.0 -
I don't think anyone really knows what they would do until it happen to them.
Exactly0 -
One word:
Hidden camera system and online monthly subscription for all fans to view.
OK, 12 words.0 -
WOW..that's very forgiving...More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.
I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to react that rationally. I'd most likely go off half cocked, waving my gun around or something. I wouldn't actually shoot him, because nobody is worth going to prison for, but after all is said and done, I'm 99.9% sure I would leave, because if he did it to me once, mistake or not, I don't think I could ever trust him again, and don't want to be in a marriage without trust.:ohwell:0 -
i'd start a thread on MFP and ask everyone what i should do.
then when they give me their opinions on the matter, i would become instantly butthurt, report any and all posts that arent what i want to hear (as well as any gifs of bunnies/kittehs and memes), then i would ragequit.0 -
Forgive him and move on.
You're not even married.0 -
1) belongings packed (his) and dropped in front yard, ready for him to collect
2) His car trashed
3) any belongings that he dosnt wear trashed
4)her face trashed
5) i would show him exactly what he had given up, this includes access to his child.
O.H knows this, he knows exactly how i feel.
Iv already told him, if he is bored with me/us and finds he wants to be with someone else, then he is to tell me an go.... theres no excuse to cheat. Just leave.0
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