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Baseballfan158
Baseballfan158 Posts: 39
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What would you do if you caught your husband or wife cheating on you? Seriously what would you do?
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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
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    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
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    More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
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    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Totally agree.
  • ACepero79
    ACepero79 Posts: 711 Member
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    Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,843 Member
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    Nothing because he never would do that.

    Even if he did I wouldn't come on to a public message board and ask complete strangers who know nothing about me or my life what to do about it.
  • Baseballfan158
    Baseballfan158 Posts: 39
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    It was a joke question saw someone post the other about this.
  • butterflyluv1218
    butterflyluv1218 Posts: 430
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    I don't think anyone really knows what they would do until it happen to them.
  • bmiller211
    bmiller211 Posts: 222 Member
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    More details needed. Full blown affair or drunken one night stand? Stranger or someone she/he knows? My gut reaction is to say I'd end the relationship, however I am a pretty rational person. I would obviously be very hurt if my spouse cheated on me, but I understand that people make bad decisions and can actually learn from them.
    wow you are understanding...
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
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    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.
  • megalin9
    megalin9 Posts: 771 Member
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    It would depend on the specifics. Honestly, I would be very hurt, and there would be a lot of anger/healing/counseling involved. When I was younger, I always thought I would end the relationship immediately. Then I read a fictional book that dealt with it and showed how a relationship could be restored, and that changed my opinion.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......

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    Geez, I just did it a few times.....why you so serious?
  • Sublimely_Self_Righteous
    Sublimely_Self_Righteous Posts: 429
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    I would come on here and ask everyone's opinion about cheating.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.

    That's true. I'm from the land of the internet, but you wouldn't have to tell me because I would only cheat with you anyway.
  • emiliewright
    emiliewright Posts: 148 Member
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    Instead of coming here and talking about it, I'd write it in my diary......Dear Diary, my *kitten* for a wife......

    I love my friends :)
  • HMVOL7409
    HMVOL7409 Posts: 1,588 Member
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    It's a situation you can never judge or say what you'll do until you lived it. Plus the dynamics of the incident do come into play.
  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
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    Forgive him and move on.
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
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    No idea. But I likely wouldn't tell you about it.

    ^^^^This. Nor anyone else.

    Well, I'd tell you but only because you aren't real.

    That's true. I'm from the land of the internet, but you wouldn't have to tell me because I would only cheat with you anyway.

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  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
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    Nothing because he never would do that.

    Even if he did I wouldn't come on to a public message board and ask complete strangers who know nothing about me or my life what to do about it.

    OP didn't even say this happened to them. I took it as a hypothetical question.
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
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    I'd feel a lot less guilt when I'm out with the boyfriend....

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