How do you make someone notice you?
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Stalk them..... (joking of course! Having spent time on twitter I feel the need to label sarcasm as such.)0
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just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.
Yeah, I'll stick to online.
Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out
im all set with online dating
Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.
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asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
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Capt_Apollo wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
Trust me you don't wanna know lol0 -
asianfashionista86 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
Trust me you don't wanna know lol
In now I'm curious?0 -
tracyannk28 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.
Yeah, I'll stick to online.
Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out im all set with online dating
OT:
I think we went on a date with the same guy!! LOLOLOL
I met up with one who told me about the craigslist prostitute his friends hired for him the previous weekend lololol
Back on topic: I'm not a shy person but when it comes to a guy I find attractive I turn into a 14 year old. It's pretty bad
Craigslist prostitute omg hell never get laid again if he tells that story
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Make one.asianfashionista86 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
Trust me you don't wanna know lol0 -
lislisa123 wrote: »
just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.
Yeah, I'll stick to online.
Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out im all set with online dating
Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.
Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up
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Make one.asianfashionista86 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
Trust me you don't wanna know lol
No I'll just say one word gifs0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
Trust me you don't wanna know lol
In now I'm curious?
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asianfashionista86 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol
how would it have been different?
Trust me you don't wanna know lol
yeah, you're probably right.0 -
asianfashionista86 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »
Me neither, regular guys im my goofy self...guys I like, i clam up, look at the ground and say "Oh *kitten* are they looking over here????"
I always have a feeling they're looking at something behind me or above me lol
I admit I've looked at something behind or above girls I like because I'm afraid I'll get labeled for being a perv and staring. Basically, I used to try to look as unaware or uninterested as possible; however, just starting some conversation (guy or girl) if you really want to give it a shot is the way to go.0 -
I hide in the darkest corner and keep to myself. I don't get noticed much. Ha0
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »
just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.
Yeah, I'll stick to online.
Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out im all set with online dating
Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.
Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up
Lol. Maybe you should try Match.com? That's supposed to be a good dating site but you have to pay for it.
It's hard to tell sometimes though because my sister tried Eharmony on a free trail before, which is supposed to be a good site but the guy she met up with and had a date with, she later found out on Facebook that he already had a girlfriend. There are some real pigs/jerks out there. I think that's the scary part, wether online or in person, you never really know who your going to meet and what type of person they are until you actually know them. It's all a risk.
And my sister ended meeting her husband in the place people say never to go, a club. Go figure.0 -
lislisa123 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »
just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.
Yeah, I'll stick to online.
Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out im all set with online dating
Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.
Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up
Lol. Maybe you should try Match.com? That's supposed to be a good dating site but you have to pay for it.
It's hard to tell sometimes though because my sister tried Eharmony on a free trail before, which is supposed to be a good site but the guy she met up with and had a date with, she later found out on Facebook that he already had a girlfriend. There are some real pigs/jerks out there. I think that's the scary part, wether online or in person, you never really know who your going to meet and what type of person they are until you actually know them. It's all a risk.
And my sister ended meeting her husband in the place people say never to go, a club. Go figure.
Lol i know it works for some but its just not for me glad it worked out for you though.
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »
just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.soldiergrl_101 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.
Yeah, I'll stick to online.
Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out im all set with online dating
Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.
Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up
Lol. Maybe you should try Match.com? That's supposed to be a good dating site but you have to pay for it.
It's hard to tell sometimes though because my sister tried Eharmony on a free trail before, which is supposed to be a good site but the guy she met up with and had a date with, she later found out on Facebook that he already had a girlfriend. There are some real pigs/jerks out there. I think that's the scary part, wether online or in person, you never really know who your going to meet and what type of person they are until you actually know them. It's all a risk.
And my sister ended meeting her husband in the place people say never to go, a club. Go figure.
Lol i know it works for some but its just not for me glad it worked out for you though.
Well, that's still to be determined. I've been with my boyfriend two years now and we have had our issues. More than I care for, he is very immature and can be more of a taker rather than giver which are both a turn off but we are trying to work through our issues and improve and if not, it will suck but that's life.0 -
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