True Confessions - Don't Judge
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I have a big lists of things I want to do:
Take a self defense class
Go on vacation, maybe a cruise?
Plant a garden
Get my hunting license & kill a deer
Decorate my house they way I want
Just to name a few.
If you don't mind me asking, why didn't you do these things before? None of them seem outrageous.
Not like uprooting a family with two small children, giving up two careers, nearby family, an support system and a community to start over in a new city 500 miles away to go to graduate school.
Sorry, I'm projecting...1 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I have a big list of things I want to do:
Take a self defense class
Go on vacation, maybe a cruise?
Plant a garden
Get my hunting license & kill a deer
Decorate my house they way I want
Enjoy being single for a year before trying to date.
Just to name a few.
If it's available in your area, I'd suggest Krav Maga as far as self defense. I took it for a year while living in Kentucky.
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I have a big list of things I want to do:
Take a self defense class
Go on vacation, maybe a cruise?
Plant a garden
Get my hunting license & kill a deer
Decorate my house they way I want
Enjoy being single for a year before trying to date.
Just to name a few.
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Kasner1975 wrote: »I confess that it seems very likely I'll get to go back home to see the kids this weekend. I don't want to get my hopes up, but the thought of it brings tears to my eyes.... I've missed them so very much.
I really hope you get to see your kiddos!!0 -
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Kasner1975 wrote: »I confess that when I was in my teens, I had sex on top of a fire truck during a Canada day fireworks show surrounded by 1000 people.... now I can barely have sex with the lights on... something broke in me between then and now.
Were you alone at the time?
Besides the other 1000 people....1 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »My husband and I are waiting to meet with an attorney about getting a divorce. I feel like I'm going to puke I'm so nervous.
Remember, this too shall pass.
You're young, beautiful and kind.
Both you and your soon to be ex will both find someone else to make you happy.
.... maybe not right away, but in good time.2 -
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Kasner1975 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »I confess that when I was in my teens, I had sex on top of a fire truck during a Canada day fireworks show surrounded by 1000 people.... now I can barely have sex with the lights on... something broke in me between then and now.
Were you alone at the time?
Besides the other 1000 people....
There was another participant
That makes me a lil' jealous.0 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I have a big lists of things I want to do:
Take a self defense class
Go on vacation, maybe a cruise?
Plant a garden
Get my hunting license & kill a deer
Decorate my house they way I want
Just to name a few.
If you don't mind me asking, why didn't you do these things before? None of them seem outrageous.
Not like uprooting a family with two small children, giving up two careers, nearby family, an support system and a community to start over in a new city 500 miles away to go to graduate school.
Sorry, I'm projecting...
I don't want to be one of those people who bad mouths their spouse during a divorce, so I'm going to try to be tackful.
My husband has the "you don't know how to do this because you're a woman" mind set. A couple of months ago, the toilet wouldn't stop running so I went to Lowes and bought the kit to replace the internal stuff. He knew I had never replaced one before and instead of being supportive he kept telling me I would screw it up. I showed him my middle finger and told him to watch me. 30 minutes later it was working like a charm. He didn't talk to me for two days. So growing a garden and killing my own meat is both a way to provide for myself and a metaphorical flipping him the bird.
Since I paid all of the bills and I rarely had help from him financially, I wasn't able to travel like I wanted to. So I want to take a well deserved trip to somewhere on my bucket list.
The self defence class is kind of self explanatory. I wanna be able to kick a dude's @ss if they give me trouble when I start dating again.9 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I have a big lists of things I want to do:
Take a self defense class
Go on vacation, maybe a cruise?
Plant a garden
Get my hunting license & kill a deer
Decorate my house they way I want
Just to name a few.
If you don't mind me asking, why didn't you do these things before? None of them seem outrageous.
Not like uprooting a family with two small children, giving up two careers, nearby family, an support system and a community to start over in a new city 500 miles away to go to graduate school.
Sorry, I'm projecting...
I don't want to be one of those people who bad mouths their spouse during a divorce, so I'm going to try to be tackful.
My husband has the "you don't know how to do this because you're a woman" mind set. A couple of months ago, the toilet wouldn't stop running so I went to Lowes and bought the kit to replace the internal stuff. He knew I had never replaced one before and instead of being supportive he kept telling me I would screw it up. I showed him my middle finger and told him to watch me. 30 minutes later it was working like a charm. He didn't talk to me for two days. So growing a garden and killing my own meat is both a way to provide for myself and a metaphorical flipping him the bird.
Since I paid all of the bills and I rarely had help from him financially, I wasn't able to travel like I wanted to. So I want to take a well deserved trip to somewhere on my bucket list.
The self defence class is kind of self explanatory. I wanna be able to kick a dude's @ss if they give me trouble when I start dating again.
Mad Re5pext
You're going to be just fine.0 -
I confess that I deal with anxiety. I seem to have a fear of death and it makes me worry unnecessarily.1
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kassierodriguez1 wrote: »I confess that I deal with anxiety. I seem to have a fear of death and it makes me worry unnecessarily.
I fell ya0 -
kassierodriguez1 wrote: »I confess that I deal with anxiety. I seem to have a fear of death and it makes me worry unnecessarily.
I fell ya
Curious. Is your anxiety what you were referring to that can keep you from progressing?0 -
kassierodriguez1 wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »I confess that I deal with anxiety. I seem to have a fear of death and it makes me worry unnecessarily.
I fell ya
Curious. Is your anxiety what you were referring to that can keep you from progressing?
At times, yes. I continue to detach from the chemical reaction inside -the panic, tension - and go through the motions to keep moving forward. Mine is just from trying to adjust to getting older and the inevitability of it all.
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I think I do the same thing to myself. Seems more so recently. I'm not sure if it's me over worrying or some vitamin deficiency that is actually causing anxietykassierodriguez1 wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »I confess that I deal with anxiety. I seem to have a fear of death and it makes me worry unnecessarily.
I fell ya
Curious. Is your anxiety what you were referring to that can keep you from progressing?
At times, yes. I continue to detach from the chemical reaction inside -the panic, tension - and go through the motions to keep moving forward. Mine is just from trying to adjust to getting older and the inevitability of it all.
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kassierodriguez1 wrote: »I think I do the same thing to myself. Seems more so recently. I'm not sure if it's me over worrying or some vitamin deficiency that is actually causing anxiety
My biggest thing is exercise. Helps so much.
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Exercise always makes me feel goodkassierodriguez1 wrote: »I think I do the same thing to myself. Seems more so recently. I'm not sure if it's me over worrying or some vitamin deficiency that is actually causing anxiety
My biggest thing is exercise. Helps so much.
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kassierodriguez1 wrote: »I confess that I deal with anxiety. I seem to have a fear of death and it makes me worry unnecessarily.
I confess that i cannot wrap my mind around anxiety. I don't look down on folks with it, just never have been blessed to experience it in the manner of a panic attack0 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I have a big lists of things I want to do:
Take a self defense class
Go on vacation, maybe a cruise?
Plant a garden
Get my hunting license & kill a deer
Decorate my house they way I want
Just to name a few.
If you don't mind me asking, why didn't you do these things before? None of them seem outrageous.
Not like uprooting a family with two small children, giving up two careers, nearby family, an support system and a community to start over in a new city 500 miles away to go to graduate school.
Sorry, I'm projecting...
I don't want to be one of those people who bad mouths their spouse during a divorce, so I'm going to try to be tackful.
My husband has the "you don't know how to do this because you're a woman" mind set. A couple of months ago, the toilet wouldn't stop running so I went to Lowes and bought the kit to replace the internal stuff. He knew I had never replaced one before and instead of being supportive he kept telling me I would screw it up. I showed him my middle finger and told him to watch me. 30 minutes later it was working like a charm. He didn't talk to me for two days. So growing a garden and killing my own meat is both a way to provide for myself and a metaphorical flipping him the bird.
Since I paid all of the bills and I rarely had help from him financially, I wasn't able to travel like I wanted to. So I want to take a well deserved trip to somewhere on my bucket list.
The self defence class is kind of self explanatory. I wanna be able to kick a dude's @ss if they give me trouble when I start dating again.
I understand not wanting to air the dirty laundry, and I deeply respect that. Sounds like fundamental incompatibility.
You are an accomplished professional woman! You can't do what you do without ability and know how.
You are gonna rock the world!
On the other hand, you are way too young to have a bucket list yet. Where do you want to go? Go fill up that passport!1 -
I confess I don't understand at all why you'd wink and send someone a message on a dating site, but never respond to their reply. Smh...
(I'm taking y'all's advice, even though I don't agree with it, I just paid a lot for this rip-off site so I might as well try and get my money's worth)0 -
I confess I just sent a friend request without making sure they're a coffee drinker first.4
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I confess I've 50 million things I need to do today. I wonder if I'll get any of them done1
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FairhavenDS wrote: »I confess I just sent a friend request without making sure they're a coffee drinker first.
I am glad you do that sometimes or you and I would have never known each other.
I'm still hoping to convert you. It's not looking good though.1 -
FairhavenDS wrote: »FairhavenDS wrote: »I confess I just sent a friend request without making sure they're a coffee drinker first.
I am glad you do that sometimes or you and I would have never known each other.
I'm still hoping to convert you. It's not looking good though.
Can we be friends? I'm just getting into cold brew!1 -
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FairhavenDS wrote: »FairhavenDS wrote: »I confess I just sent a friend request without making sure they're a coffee drinker first.
I am glad you do that sometimes or you and I would have never known each other.
I'm still hoping to convert you. It's not looking good though.
Can we be friends? I'm just getting into cold brew!
Of course!0
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