True Confessions - Don't Judge
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@mustacheU2Lift
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JustKeepTryin wrote: »I confess i've spent all day trying not to cry. Faking the funk and using you guys as an added distraction. I'm reaching my breaking point.
Xoxo for you, hang in there!1 -
IC: I've never read any Harry Potter books or Lord of the Rings, movies, etc..1
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@mustacheU2Lift
Cheez-its STAT!
Oh man! How did i miss this! Can i make it up to you?0 -
BlowPopKisses wrote: »IC .... I wasn't sure we'd make it outside of here, but your nerdy, my bratty and our D&T ways keep us bound.
IC, I kinda wish you looked like that profile picture.4 -
BlowPopKisses wrote: »IC .... I wasn't sure we'd make it outside of here, but your nerdy, my bratty and our D&T ways keep us bound.
IC, I kinda wish you looked like that profile picture.
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mustacheU2Lift wrote: »BlowPopKisses wrote: »IC .... I wasn't sure we'd make it outside of here, but your nerdy, my bratty and our D&T ways keep us bound.
IC, I kinda wish you looked like that profile picture.
Maybe she does
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I confess that a lot of the people I hang out with treat me as expendable and do not value me, yet I continue to hang out with them because despite my best efforts I have no one else.4
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I completely had a sweet tooth and ate 3 little debbies brownies last night. It was so horribly good. But, today I am back on track. It was just one of those days..1
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »I confess that a lot of the people I hang out with treat me as expendable and do not value me, yet I continue to hang out with them because despite my best efforts I have no one else.
We teach people how to treat us. If you don’t think you’re worth better, it you don’t stand up for yourself then you’re letting them get away with it. Say something, and watch how quickly their attitude shifts.
Second to that, it is better to be alone than be in a room with people who make us feel alone. Your friends are jerks.
I do agree with what you have written. Making new friends in middle age is difficult. I thought I had made some good friends but discovered after some time invested with them that they don't really value me and now I'm back at the drawing board. The whole process is so discouraging that I don't think I can start all over again.0 -
I ate 12 pieces of bread today.0
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I am probably to open and honest at times.0
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Clever_User_Name wrote: »
Me. Total strangers? People I’ve known forever? Doesn’t matter. Depending on the moment, either my mind and soul are a wide open book or completely locked down tight. Never in between, and I’m finding I can’t be bothered to lock them up much anymore.2 -
skctilidie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
Me. Total strangers? People I’ve known forever? Doesn’t matter. Depending on the moment, either my mind and soul are a wide open book or completely locked down tight. Never in between, and I’m finding I can’t be bothered to lock them up much anymore.
Me either. I'm just open, probably too open. I've often regretted it and sometimes it blew up in my face but I dunno, that's just me I guess. Stupid feelings ...0 -
skctilidie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
Me. Total strangers? People I’ve known forever? Doesn’t matter. Depending on the moment, either my mind and soul are a wide open book or completely locked down tight. Never in between, and I’m finding I can’t be bothered to lock them up much anymore.
yup... throw it all out there so everyone knows how screwed up i am ...
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skctilidie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
Me. Total strangers? People I’ve known forever? Doesn’t matter. Depending on the moment, either my mind and soul are a wide open book or completely locked down tight. Never in between, and I’m finding I can’t be bothered to lock them up much anymore.
Me either. I'm just open, probably too open. I've often regretted it and sometimes it blew up in my face but I dunno, that's just me I guess. Stupid feelings ...JustKeepTryin wrote: »skctilidie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
Me. Total strangers? People I’ve known forever? Doesn’t matter. Depending on the moment, either my mind and soul are a wide open book or completely locked down tight. Never in between, and I’m finding I can’t be bothered to lock them up much anymore.
yup... throw it all out there so everyone knows how screwed up i am ...
I love you both so much, just so you know.2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
It’s easier for me to be open with total strangers than it is with people I actually know.
...so broken. I’m so so broken.
sweetie I think we all are in our own ways. but I also think that it's easier to find people you can connect with when they don't have predetermined ideas of what you should be. not to mention the fact that most of us will never have the opportunity to meet said strangers.Clever_User_Name wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
It’s easier for me to be open with total strangers than it is with people I actually know.
...so broken. I’m so so broken.
I have some people in my family (not immediate) that are some of the most judgy people I've ever come across. Venting to strangers and online friends is better for me, because it's truly venting and it usually doesn't come back to you.
true also..1 -
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
It’s easier for me to be open with total strangers than it is with people I actually know.
...so broken. I’m so so broken.
Hugs. I think we’re all broken in our own ways. I agree that it’s easier to open up to people you don’t really know than to the people you have to see all the time, too.2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
It’s easier for me to be open with total strangers than it is with people I actually know.
...so broken. I’m so so broken.
Its more normal that you think though!1 -
4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
It’s easier for me to be open with total strangers than it is with people I actually know.
...so broken. I’m so so broken.
Its more normal that you think though!
This. After seeing my family members gossip about one another for years I don't say much of anything to them that pertains to my personal life. I've been trying to trick them into subconsciously thinking my my name is something different too, so they don't even know that much about me.5 -
This is where I meant to post.0
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »JustKeepTryin wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »
It’s easier for me to be open with total strangers than it is with people I actually know.
...so broken. I’m so so broken.
sweetie I think we all are in our own ways. but I also think that it's easier to find people you can connect with when they don't have predetermined ideas of what you should be. not to mention the fact that most of us will never have the opportunity to meet said strangers.
There does come a time though when even online those people aren’t strangers anymore. I’ve made a couple relationships here where they truly know me. But generally I am guarded and closed off so even so I barely allow people in when they try or it takes a while to build that kind of trust. But the ones that did stick around and took the patience to get to know me, they mean the world to me and if I ever get the change to meet them I’d do so in a heart beat
So very very true. I completely agree and am thankful to know you!!0 -
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