Men: would you date a married woman?

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  • happywithme12
    happywithme12 Posts: 477 Member
    Your saying you would take the time to get to know someone, meet their family, invest in a house and such, fall in love, put a ring on their finger, and vow to her that you will stay married for as long as you both shall live and then if she comes to you and tells you she wants to bang some rando, you'd be ok with it?

    Wow, I think if you fell into TRUE love, this would not be the case.
    Not like a one night sand, and I would need the other guy to know that I knew about him, but if it’s just safe sex then that’s cool.

    When im out with a girl I don’t expect other men not to look at her, if she’s good looking, and IMHO they have been, then shes going to get lookd up an down.

    Don’t get me worng dude, it’s not a requirement, I jus don’t see why SHE can’t use someone else for sex. If she’s told me about it it’s not being dishonest is it?

    I would have a problem if she fell in love with someone else but love and sex are not the same thing.

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    Now this is funny the girl that thinks flirting is cheating, i almost died when i saw this
  • SlimJanette
    SlimJanette Posts: 597 Member
    everyones says no but in a heat of a moment things could easily change :)

    ^^^ I agree with this.
  • SlimJanette
    SlimJanette Posts: 597 Member
    maybe I have no morals, maybe it's not important but date as in go on dates...probably not but I can't say that I absolutely wouldn't...and have relations...yeah no doubt...i'm not the one who's married....and of course that changes if the husband was mob or something

    ^^^Honest answer
  • BigBo63
    BigBo63 Posts: 37 Member
    it depends on if Im bigger than the woman husband.
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    I dated someone who spent his life specifically trying to get with married/attached women. When I met him I was attached and stupid shortly after leaving my relationship I realized he just liked women that were unavailable. I do not think he even saw what was wrong with his attitude and a few years later when I ran into him he was actually avoiding a few guys at the local club because as he admitted to me he slept with their wives so he couldn't blame them. It was just the way he was. He was also charming and believe able so it didn't surprise women fell for him. It isn't entirely his fault after all the wives and GFs he chased had to give him the time of day and they were attached and he was not. In my opinion it is worse for GF/BF spouse to give in to the nature of this person then said persons nature. Myself included.
  • epicrockstar24
    epicrockstar24 Posts: 86
    Does it matter if the woman is in the process of divorce?

    Because when I was going through my divorce, it was about 6 months from the time we separated until the time I actually filed for divorce, there were several reasons why we waited to file our paperwork, but we were in agreement that divorce was our intention. during that time I started dating someone as did my ex husband. It was another 8 months after the paperwork was filed before we were officially divorced, so we were still considered married for about 14 months even though we thought our ourselves as separate and were in new relationships. my ex got married two months after the official divorce, and i got married 5 months after.

    So I wonder to every guy who said no, would it still would your answer no if the woman was in a situation like mine?
  • StrongAndHealthyMommy
    StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
    maybe most guys say no because they don't want to date the married woman... They would probably bang and then bye bye....

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