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MILF

CarlaRG
CarlaRG Posts: 264
edited January 28 in Chit-Chat
Let me start this by saying I don't think I'm anything. I don't think I'm butt ugly but I don't think I'm all that either but recently a couple of younger men 25-26 ish have called me a MILF. I told a friend about it and she said she would be offended if she were me-said it objectified me and to her that is offensive. Okay, I can see that to a point, but I thought "Hey, they think I'm attractive!" and I thought it was great. It's not like the said it to get me to jump them or anything like that, right? I was just wanting other opinions. Is being called a MILF offensive or flattering to you?
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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Flattering. But I'm a compliment *kitten* like that.
  • XxYeaIrocxX
    XxYeaIrocxX Posts: 224 Member
    I dont mind it at all. Take it as a compliment and move on =)


    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.

    Sorry, I will stop
  • mrs_mab
    mrs_mab Posts: 1,024 Member
    Doesn't bother me in the least........it's actually one of my fitness goals! :laugh: Several of my daughters guy friends have told her Im a hottie or MILF, which kind of creeps me out since most of them are barely 18 and I see them from time to time when they hang out with her, etc.... :tongue:
  • InForBacon
    InForBacon Posts: 1,508 Member
    This is my goal in life.
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    Its a COMPLIMENT
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    I find it funny when a 30+ says it, not so much when a teen says it. Kind of creeps me out. Then again most peolpe do not believe that I am 30+
  • CarlaRG
    CarlaRG Posts: 264
    I dont mind it at all. Take it as a compliment and move on =)


    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.





    HAHAHAHA
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    I dont mind it at all. Take it as a compliment and move on =)


    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.

    maybe he was just doing the Time Warp?

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  • greenmonstergirl
    greenmonstergirl Posts: 619 Member
    The title says it all....you called? I'm here! LMAO!
  • Grlnxtdr0721
    Grlnxtdr0721 Posts: 597 Member
    I think it's a compliment...just like getting strange looks when people think I am the babysitter and my son calls me "Mommy" :)
  • XxYeaIrocxX
    XxYeaIrocxX Posts: 224 Member
    I dont mind it at all. Take it as a compliment and move on =)


    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.

    maybe he was just doing the Time Warp?

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    DARN! I should have joined in then =)
  • BSdevon
    BSdevon Posts: 77
    100% Compliment.
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I was just wanting other opinions. Is being called a MILF offensive or flattering to you?

    No.
  • 29bubbles
    29bubbles Posts: 126 Member
    I dont mind it at all. Take it as a compliment and move on =)


    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.

    maybe he was just doing the Time Warp?

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    ROFL!!!! :laugh:
  • InForBacon
    InForBacon Posts: 1,508 Member
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  • Greenrun99
    Greenrun99 Posts: 2,065 Member
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    That is my #1 dance floor move.. it brings all the ladies out!

    If a guy says you look hot or calls you a MILF those are the same thing.. just a different way of saying it.. we are always thinking it anyways so.. ya know..
  • celtbell3
    celtbell3 Posts: 738 Member
    Doesn't bother me in the least........it's actually one of my fitness goals! :laugh: Several of my daughters guy friends have told her Im a hottie or MILF, which kind of creeps me out since most of them are barely 18 and I see them from time to time when they hang out with her, etc.... :tongue:

    Yep - this happens to me on occasion with some of my sons older friends. Becomes even more uncanny/weird when your son gets in a fight with his friend after his friend repeats something the friends dad said.
  • Ivey05131980
    Ivey05131980 Posts: 1,118 Member
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    This.
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Doesn't bother me in the least........it's actually one of my fitness goals! :laugh: Several of my daughters guy friends have told her Im a hottie or MILF, which kind of creeps me out since most of them are barely 18 and I see them from time to time when they hang out with her, etc.... :tongue:

    Yep - this happens to me on occasion with some of my sons older friends. Becomes even more uncanny/weird when your son gets in a fight with his friend after his friend repeats something the friends dad said.

    In for what the dad said.

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  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
    Personally I like being objectified...makes me feel alive. But I prefer being called hot as f***

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  • sleepingtodream
    sleepingtodream Posts: 304 Member
    Compliment...but I'd pass on the hip thrust;)
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.
  • NovemberJune
    NovemberJune Posts: 2,525 Member
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    This.

    LOL. I think if someone came up to me and said they'd like to F*** me, I don't know how I'd react. Calling me a MILF would be the same thing. Like, are you asking me to have sex with you? Because the answer is NO. lol :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • RachelX04
    RachelX04 Posts: 1,123 Member
    compliment.
  • InForBacon
    InForBacon Posts: 1,508 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.
    Dang, I was hoping that was the case.
  • Blacklance36
    Blacklance36 Posts: 755 Member
    MILF's are totally hot. Give me a MILF over any other age of woman, but they need to look after themselves, thats part of the hotness.
  • TheRealJigsaw
    TheRealJigsaw Posts: 295 Member
    It beats the alternative. It is a compliment.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    I don't find it offensive, but I was raised in a different generation.
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    Compliment
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