MILF

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

Dang, I was hoping that was the case.

:laugh:

CaffeinatedGlitter

It's what I am aiming for HAHAHA, the next duty station we go to I want people shocked that I married my hubby and have had a kid LOL ^_^

phatguerilla

ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

rml_16

Let me start this by saying I don't think I'm anything. I don't think I'm butt ugly but I don't think I'm all that either but recently a couple of younger men 25-26 ish have called me a MILF. I told a friend about it and she said she would be offended if she were me-said it objectified me and to her that is offensive. Okay, I can see that to a point, but I thought "Hey, they think I'm attractive!" and I thought it was great. It's not like the said it to get me to jump them or anything like that, right? I was just wanting other opinions. Is being called a MILF offensive or flattering to you?

Men are visual. I wouldn't be offended by that unless they thought is somehow gave them a right to have sex with me without my consent.

I like to be desired. Men finding a woman attractive does not mean they don't also respect her as a person.

TheRoadDog

Men are visual. I wouldn't be offended by that unless they thought is somehow gave them a right to have sex with me without my consent.

I like to be desired. Men finding a woman attractive does not mean they don't also respect her as a person.

Good call. And accurate.

Im_NotPerfect

Hell yes! I'd LOVE to be a MILF!! If I overheard that, those 25 year olds wouldn't know what hit them! :laugh:

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

I don't think they think they are going to bed every single woman they call hot. They might fantasize, but I don't think they expect it. Or, maybe I'm just not easily offended...

EmilyJackCO

Only because I'm not a mom. I've had a couple of the younger guys I know say that, and my response is always - do I LOOK like I have kids!? Especially since I don't look anywhere near my age. 0_o What gives?

ETA: The one that does get me and has caused me to get really riled - Cougar. Yeah, no.

AfricaLatina

Definitely a compliment!!

I agree with another post that it is just like saying you're hot or 'fit' as they say here in the U.K. Just like in the 'inbetweeners' you may actually be 'assisting' your childs social progression, just by being a MILF!! :huh:

they probably don't expect you to jump into bed with them, even though they're probably thinking about it or even fantasizing about it (!)

tbh if a lad did say they would like to 'f' me I would be horrified (but secretly flattered) :blushing:

Michelleh118

I would take that as a compliment!! ????

JenAndSome

I would be flattered, but I find the term a little annoying. Do I really need a qualifier to be desirable just because I have had children?

JustJennie1

I would be flattered, but I find the term a little annoying. Do I really need a qualifier to be desirable just because I have had children?

I'll be honest.

Yes because it's very rare to see a mom who is fit and attractive. At least around here any way.

And for the record I think it's a compliment. If I had kids I'd want to be considered a MILF.

Show_Stopper

I would like to be called a MILF so I would say it's a good thing smile about it and move on

CarlaRG

Personally I like being objectified...makes me feel alive. But I prefer being called hot as f***

I was called that once....Didn't offend me lol

atb0821

Total compliment.

Miz_Sparklez

Anyone that says they wouldn't want to be called a MILF is crazy!!

After two babies and the toll it takes on a body... I take being called a MILF as a huge COMPLIMENT. Take it and smile sweetie!!!

momofJandA

its my goal :blushing:

phatguerilla

ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

I don't think they think they are going to bed every single woman they call hot. They might fantasize, but I don't think they expect it. Or, maybe I'm just not easily offended...

Like I said I don't think they expect it, but they might hope for it. If a 25 year old guy says something like that to a woman he isn't going to say 'oh sorry ma'am that was a platonic compliment' if she turned around and asked if he wanted to bang.

juliemouse83

After three kids (all of whom are now grown), I would take it as a major compliment! When I was the skinny mom on the block, 12 or so years ago when the oldest was in high school, he'd come home all wigged out cuz his friends said I was hot. Then I gained, like, 60 pounds, and was no longer a milf, LOL. I consider it a goal, LOL...And no, I don't count it if my husband calls me that. He thought I was hot when I was round. *face palm* :laugh:

sam308lbs

This.

this. whats wrong with "Hey you look hot!" ? Next thing you know
you've a great rack becomes Boobs i'd like to motorboat
you have a great *kitten* becomes AILF
You have a beautiful face becomes FILF
:laugh:

laserturkey

It's crass but it's intended as a compliment. I would be amused more than anything else if someone called me a MILF.

Madmadz77

Crude but deffinately a compliement... Hell, we all want one of those and a couple of ladies are this thread are good examples.

Salt_Sand_Sun

Some people are a little too sensitive and really over think things. While I can (very slightly) see how someone can be offended - I really think its the tone, mannerism and the person who says these things that can make it offensive or flattery.

More times than not - I'd take being called a MILF as flattery. I've worked very hard to 'not' look my age and get my body back after 2 kids and I'd appreciate someone taking notice of that!!

WalkingMermaid_

I have a 13 year old son and fair few of his friends tell him I'm a 'MILF' which I find a little disturbing! :noway:

Shananigans_

<~~~ proud MILF

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

I don't think they think they are going to bed every single woman they call hot. They might fantasize, but I don't think they expect it. Or, maybe I'm just not easily offended...

Like I said I don't think they expect it, but they might hope for it. If a 25 year old guy says something like that to a woman he isn't going to say 'oh sorry ma'am that was a platonic compliment' if she turned around and asked if he wanted to bang.

I'm going to test this theory over the weekend.... I kid! :laugh:

LibertyBelle89

i would be flattered..... when im a mom, i hope i get called a MILF lol!!!!

catrinaHwechanged

I take it as a compliment. After all, I really would only say that about someone I find attractive. Of course, I don't read much into things and don't find much offensive.

jenbit

You rang?...... I take it as a total compliment but then again it takes quite a bit to offend me...... Personally anyone telling me I'm hot is good lol.........

Sekxy49

MILF...GILF
All the same to me!! Take it as a compliment & move on. Enjoy it for the moment!!