Looking for my fellow LGBT members

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  • mellyboobear
    mellyboobear Posts: 117 Member
    [deff joining !
  • latincoffee
    latincoffee Posts: 187 Member
    Good Morning all!
  • kenestrick1
    kenestrick1 Posts: 15 Member
    Looking to add some lgbt friends on here. My friends list is starting to get overrun by testosterone so some of the advice I'm getting doesn't work as well for me :) guys, feel free to add me because I can never get enough help. Ladies, i could use motivation and support from more people with my similar fitness goals and troubles so also feel free to add me.
  • hdatres
    hdatres Posts: 635 Member
    I dated men and women. I've been married to my husband for three years now. But I've been getting the craving and I've been dreaming about women lately, I guess I'm just confused
  • jmule24
    jmule24 Posts: 1,382 Member
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?
  • Wetterdew
    Wetterdew Posts: 142 Member
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    Yes
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    Well, yes. But, the individual people have a sexual orientation beyond the relationship that also still stands. So, they can be straight, bisexual, or gay but love their partner and stay in the heterosexual relationship.
  • robingmurphy
    robingmurphy Posts: 349 Member
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    Some may identify as heterosexual after that point, but many would identify as "queer."
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    I always found it odd that people in committed relationships define themselves as bisexual. Doesn't matter about your past. Once you have your partner, you are either gay or hetro in your relationship. Bisexual is what you do when you are dating or non-committed, or just screwing around in an open relationship I suppose.

    Anyway...any change in sex of either partner just changes the from gay to hetro or vice versa.

    Just a thought.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    I always found it odd that people in committed relationships define themselves as bisexual. Doesn't matter about your past. Once you have your partner, you are either gay or hetro in your relationship. Bisexual is what you do when you are dating or non-committed, or just screwing around in an open relationship I suppose.

    Anyway...any change in sex of either partner just changes the from gay to hetro or vice versa.

    Just a thought.

    I'm not even going to try to explain it because this post doesn't seem very open to understanding. It is a pretty personal subject. I wonder what reason you have for wanting to be the one that defines people's orientation or relationships.
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    I always found it odd that people in committed relationships define themselves as bisexual. Doesn't matter about your past. Once you have your partner, you are either gay or hetro in your relationship. Bisexual is what you do when you are dating or non-committed, or just screwing around in an open relationship I suppose.

    Anyway...any change in sex of either partner just changes the from gay to hetro or vice versa.

    Just a thought.

    I'm not even going to try to explain it because this post doesn't seem very open to understanding. It is a pretty personal subject. I wonder what reason you have for wanting to be the one that defines people's orientation or relationships.

    Yeah he's not , he was being facetious
  • oojah82
    oojah82 Posts: 16 Member
    ....so back on track of the original post!
    I'm gay! Hellooooooo room and all in it
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited April 2016
    pie_eyes wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    jmule24 wrote: »
    So if one individual in a gay/lesbian relationship decides they don't "identify" with their sex anymore. By going transgender and them staying together, does that make them a heterosexual couple?

    I always found it odd that people in committed relationships define themselves as bisexual. Doesn't matter about your past. Once you have your partner, you are either gay or hetro in your relationship. Bisexual is what you do when you are dating or non-committed, or just screwing around in an open relationship I suppose.

    Anyway...any change in sex of either partner just changes the from gay to hetro or vice versa.

    Just a thought.

    I'm not even going to try to explain it because this post doesn't seem very open to understanding. It is a pretty personal subject. I wonder what reason you have for wanting to be the one that defines people's orientation or relationships.

    Yeah he's not , he was being facetious

    Oh. Haha. I didn't pick up on that. That makes a lot more sense. Thanks. Sorry for misunderstanding.
  • kenestrick1
    kenestrick1 Posts: 15 Member
    oojah82 wrote: »
    ....so back on track of the original post!
    I'm gay! Hellooooooo room and all in it

    Lol I love the timing of this :smiley:
  • johnlockjamie
    johnlockjamie Posts: 12 Member
    T and A here. Technically biromantic but still asexual.
  • firecrackrbaby
    firecrackrbaby Posts: 43 Member
    I'm the B in LGBT. Sup, e'erybody.
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    Sup
  • YukiAnu
    YukiAnu Posts: 10 Member
    T and B hey everyone.
  • RickAQ
    RickAQ Posts: 5 Member
    B)
  • Tamaralee89
    Tamaralee89 Posts: 31 Member
    Just the L here looking for friends
  • lydiayoung90281
    lydiayoung90281 Posts: 20 Member
    Me me me! And proud of it!
  • Susannahwlj
    Susannahwlj Posts: 4,468 Member
    Hey:)
  • meganclairewiseman
    meganclairewiseman Posts: 4 Member
    Hi all :) I'm Megan from Merseyside.. How is everyone?
  • Wicked_Seraph
    Wicked_Seraph Posts: 388 Member
    A fellow B checking in! :grin:
  • aalixandruh
    aalixandruh Posts: 58 Member
    I'm a very proud supporter! ❤️
  • Tamaralee89
    Tamaralee89 Posts: 31 Member
    Has anyone had such a good workout you dreamed about it later? I think I'm in love with my squat set
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I'm bisexual

    Yes, but as I told you a long time ago, I want your husband to be bi so that I can have stirring conversations about physics with him. ;)
  • Wicked_Seraph
    Wicked_Seraph Posts: 388 Member
    Tamaralee89 wrote: »
    Has anyone had such a good workout you dreamed about it later? I think I'm in love with my squat set

    Does running count? I'm still a n00b working towards 5K and I ended up dreaming about running in the park (something I've been wanting to do) :grin:
  • Tamaralee89
    Tamaralee89 Posts: 31 Member
    Wicked_Seraph wrote: »
    Tamaralee89 wrote: »
    Has anyone had such a good workout you dreamed about it later? I think I'm in love with my squat set

    Does running count? I'm still a n00b working towards 5K and I ended up dreaming about running in the park (something I've been wanting to do) :grin:

    Counts I'm a baby noob when it comes to running but I've falling in love with it. I dreamt about conquering this hill I've been eyeing in my neck of the woods.
  • Wicked_Seraph
    Wicked_Seraph Posts: 388 Member
    Tamaralee89 wrote: »
    Wicked_Seraph wrote: »
    Tamaralee89 wrote: »
    Has anyone had such a good workout you dreamed about it later? I think I'm in love with my squat set

    Does running count? I'm still a n00b working towards 5K and I ended up dreaming about running in the park (something I've been wanting to do) :grin:

    Counts I'm a baby noob when it comes to running but I've falling in love with it. I dreamt about conquering this hill I've been eyeing in my neck of the woods.

    Kinda jealous... I live in flat Florida and the only hills we have are up near Tally lol.

    Dream it and do it! :smile:

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