married chit-chatters?
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Married 2 years!
But totally OK with having hot guys and girls as friends 
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DarleneReid577 wrote: »It's sort of like phone sex, but on a fitness site. Do you think I might be a hot skinny chick that can rock your world. Think about it. Duh
I've seen many women upset here because "he told me he'd leave his wife for me". Ya I'm sure it happens sometimes but some on. that's just my two cents worth. Most people just want a spot and someone to vent to about their spouse. Someone who might in a small way get it
This lol
haha amazing you understood what I wrote hahah
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Cutaway_Collar wrote: »^
Will husband be okay with the hotnesses?
you talking to me?
I figure skate, he's used to be being scantily clad in front of an audience and sharing a changer with men. My speciality for skating is ice dance and I basically teach which requires me to skate in very close proximity with men. He also refers to me as a trophy wife...so....1 -
Guns_N_Buns wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »Singles are like children. They do not understand married people problems
One guy told me he cannot imagine not having sex for a week if he were married. Sometimes life happens and sex is the last thing that week.
Oh my goodness, sex never changed in my relationship
. I swear, I think my hubby keeps tabs on what I "owe him" for putting a ring on it or something. 
Sorry for the TMI, but it's at least once a day.
Seriously? Do you have children? What about during Tom and you're feeling cramped, bloated, and irritable
. I started out hard to get and stayed that way. He wants it more than I do, and that seems like a good way to keep it. Married 20 years, some happily. (For some reason I cannot type a question mark. It is insisting I use an emoji instead. Emoji equals question mark.) 0 -
Cutaway_Collar wrote: »I don't know but it's not happening in my marriage. And the best sex of my life was with my wife. However, we don't do it every day right now. When we were dating, it used to be 7 to 10 times for just the weekend.
Glad to hear it. For a second, I doubted my awesome wifeness.1 -
it just depends what works for you and your partner...having more gap in your sex days in a marriage is normal...kids, chores, priority...wifes mood etc....lol
but i think i can make my man feel like a teenager again when i click my fingers...;)...its better to spice up your life then fall in a midlife crisis in a marriage3 -
RunRachelleRun wrote: »Guns_N_Buns wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »Singles are like children. They do not understand married people problems
One guy told me he cannot imagine not having sex for a week if he were married. Sometimes life happens and sex is the last thing that week.
Oh my goodness, sex never changed in my relationship . I swear, I think my hubby keeps tabs on what I "owe him" for putting a ring on it or something.
Sorry for the TMI, but it's at least once a day.
Seriously? Do you have children? What about during Tom and you're feeling cramped, bloated, and irritable . I started out hard to get and stayed that way. He wants it more than I do, and that seems like a good way to keep it. Married 20 years, some happily. (For some reason I cannot type a question mark. It is insisting I use an emoji instead. Emoji equals question mark.)
He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.1 -
Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.0
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We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.1
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TannedTiger wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »I'm just expressing my thoughts. I'm sorry if I accidentally say something that is odd, offensive, or leads to misunderstanding. Because this seems like a topic open to lots of misunderstanding. I don't see how online chatting could ever be as good or better than real life. I like the physical interaction of real life for sex and for everything. But, I guess online is "safer" because people can have that flirty feeling with much less risk of it going further than what they would actually want. Online chatting is just imagination/illusion. But, it seems some people use it as an interactive type of porn. So, I guess that's the appeal. But, I am not interested. Seems it would get boring really fast. Also my husband adores everything about me. I can't imagine finding anyone that adores me to that degree. Online being an illusion means that a person would be liking an imaginary version of me. Not the real me with all my various quirks that make me a flawed human with positives and negatives. And you don't know, the person could smell bad. That said, I have been in a relationship with my husband for 18 years. It often seems that people that haven't been in a long happy relationship get more freaked out (and judgemental) by the idea of married people looking, flirting, etc. But, we are happy and human. I don't mind if I am out dancing with my husband and we are flirting together with others. I know he loves me and adores me. And can still have fun interacting harmlessly with others. It's not a big deal to me. Just being open to admiring and being admired with men and women. I don't want to be with anyone but my husband. But, it's still fun to interact in an open way with other humans dancing.
Wow...I am impressed..
Are you single? lol
She is not. I have been trying to steal her husband away from her for a while now, you know, for science. 0 -
Today I have logged into mfp everyday for four years!10
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honesty71108 wrote: »it just depends what works for you and your partner...having more gap in your sex days in a marriage is normal...kids, chores, priority...wifes mood etc....lol
but i think i can make my man feel like a teenager again when i click my fingers...;)...its better to spice up your life then fall in a midlife crisis in a marriage
True. Ha, wife's mood - I suppose most men never say no. It's good to have powers.1 -
Guns_N_Buns wrote: »He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.Guns_N_Buns wrote: »Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.
Ah, I took you literally. Having a child definitely changed our sex life. Our son is 19 now. I guess I'll let him stay home until he finishes college. I def think our intimacy will improve when he moves out or isn't at home as much.
Nope, I don't catch that drift. If I feel crappy, I don't need to make him feel good. If he feels crappy, I try to help him with the laundry or the dishes
. It equals out. 0 -
BinaryPulsar wrote: »We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.
Exactly. And happy four-year MFP anniversary!1 -
BinaryPulsar wrote: »We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.
I've mentioned this to him about giving me a break so I can want it again. That lasts for maybe a day or two. It's weird; when he goes away on business, all of a sudden I want it and have to break out the BOB.1 -
RunRachelleRun wrote: »Guns_N_Buns wrote: »He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.Guns_N_Buns wrote: »Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.
Ah, I took you literally. Having a child definitely changed our sex life. Our son is 19 now. I guess I'll let him stay home until he finishes college. I def think our intimacy will improve when he moves out or isn't at home as much.
Nope, I don't catch that drift. If I feel crappy, I don't need to make him feel good. If he feels crappy, I try to help him with the laundry or the dishes . It equals out.
I thought the same thing about the intimacy in our home after our children left until my wife served me with divorce papers the 2nd year after the last one was gone. The lesson I learned was be careful what you assume.4 -
Lonestar5715 wrote: »RunRachelleRun wrote: »Guns_N_Buns wrote: »He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.Guns_N_Buns wrote: »Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.
Ah, I took you literally. Having a child definitely changed our sex life. Our son is 19 now. I guess I'll let him stay home until he finishes college. I def think our intimacy will improve when he moves out or isn't at home as much.
Nope, I don't catch that drift. If I feel crappy, I don't need to make him feel good. If he feels crappy, I try to help him with the laundry or the dishes . It equals out.
I thought the same thing about the intimacy in our home after our children left until my wife served me with divorce papers the 2nd year after the last one was gone. The lesson I learned was be careful what you assume.
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I won't tell about our sex life we don't have one
Hysterectomy at 50 now 70
He has tried everything but he has problems also
I am OK with it2 -
Guns_N_Buns wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.
I've mentioned this to him about giving me a break so I can want it again. That lasts for maybe a day or two. It's weird; when he goes away on business, all of a sudden I want it and have to break out the BOB.
I know I'm wired differently. I am often in the mood in the mornings, but at night, I'm spent. Holidays are wonderful. I can't imagine every day for twenty years; there was a time in the beginning, but then life got in the way. I think the expectation would piss me off more than the action.Lonestar5715 wrote: »I thought the same thing about the intimacy in our home after our children left until my wife served me with divorce papers the 2nd year after the last one was gone. The lesson I learned was be careful what you assume.
Sad. Sorry to hear that. I can see how there might be some struggles with an empty nest. Have you remarried and it is a happy ending since you're chitting and chatting here?
I am trying to get more into fitness to keep up with hubsters and be able to do sporting activities together. We both work full-time and our son is not the center of our universe as he was when he was younger, so we should be okay. We are just starting to travel on our own, leaving the boy at home alone, which has been wonderful. We talk about these things often; I don't think I'm assuming anything. Though, if he were to discover there are young wives out there having sex daily, I very well might be the one served with divorce papers . . . let's just keep this little tidbit in the vault.2 -
RunRachelleRun wrote: »Guns_N_Buns wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.
I've mentioned this to him about giving me a break so I can want it again. That lasts for maybe a day or two. It's weird; when he goes away on business, all of a sudden I want it and have to break out the BOB.
I know I'm wired differently. I am often in the mood in the mornings, but at night, I'm spent. Holidays are wonderful. I can't imagine every day for twenty years; there was a time in the beginning, but then life got in the way. I think the expectation would piss me off more than the action.
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Yes, this is annoying at times. It's also annoying when I fall asleep before he gets to bed and I wake up with an obvious attempt at him trying to pull my pants off (I hate waking up with my pants at my knees) or wake up to the bed shaking from him...handling it himself. haha. So, I just figure what the hell..I'll give him 5 minutes to not be awoken in an annoying matter.1 -
RunRachelleRun wrote: »Guns_N_Buns wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.
I've mentioned this to him about giving me a break so I can want it again. That lasts for maybe a day or two. It's weird; when he goes away on business, all of a sudden I want it and have to break out the BOB.
I know I'm wired differently. I am often in the mood in the mornings, but at night, I'm spent. Holidays are wonderful. I can't imagine every day for twenty years; there was a time in the beginning, but then life got in the way. I think the expectation would piss me off more than the action.Lonestar5715 wrote: »I thought the same thing about the intimacy in our home after our children left until my wife served me with divorce papers the 2nd year after the last one was gone. The lesson I learned was be careful what you assume.
Sad. Sorry to hear that. I can see how there might be some struggles with an empty nest. Have you remarried and it is a happy ending since you're chitting and chatting here?
I am trying to get more into fitness to keep up with hubsters and be able to do sporting activities together. We both work full-time and our son is not the center of our universe as he was when he was younger, so we should be okay. We are just starting to travel on our own, leaving the boy at home alone, which has been wonderful. We talk about these things often; I don't think I'm assuming anything. Though, if he were to discover there are young wives out there having sex daily, I very well might be the one served with divorce papers . . . let's just keep this little tidbit in the vault.
Not remarried but separated (so technically married) as the details of the divorce are finalized. We did tons of activities together including marriage retreats, grocery shopping, household chores, deeply involved in church and raised our two children. I felt after 32 years the hardest struggles were well past but there's those assumptions again. It's all good, life is about change; some we can affect and some we cannot. I try to focus on the things I can change.3 -
BinaryPulsar wrote: »*kitten* *kitten* *kitten*
Hey! Meow's it going?2 -
Wow, lonestar. That must have been a shock. I think of my husband as my best friend; getting served with papers would be a big surprise for me too. Sounds like there wasn't much you could have done about it; she must have keeping her true feelings hidden. You have a good attitude. I hope you find much happiness in your new adventures.2
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Lonestar5715 wrote: »RunRachelleRun wrote: »Guns_N_Buns wrote: »He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.Guns_N_Buns wrote: »Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.
Ah, I took you literally. Having a child definitely changed our sex life. Our son is 19 now. I guess I'll let him stay home until he finishes college. I def think our intimacy will improve when he moves out or isn't at home as much.
Nope, I don't catch that drift. If I feel crappy, I don't need to make him feel good. If he feels crappy, I try to help him with the laundry or the dishes . It equals out.
I thought the same thing about the intimacy in our home after our children left until my wife served me with divorce papers the 2nd year after the last one was gone. The lesson I learned was be careful what you assume.
I'm sorry you're going through that.2 -
Thanks Rachelle and Noelani. But enough about this, I hope I have not de-railed the conversation threads that had already been started here. Carry on people!2
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Lonestar5715 wrote: »Thanks Rachelle and Noelani. But enough about this, I hope I have not de-railed the conversation threads that had already been started here. Carry on people!
You haven't derailed anything. It's an important conversation. Sorry you went through that. Wishing you a happy future with new surprises ahead for you.1 -
your_pal_crusher wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »*kitten* *kitten* *kitten*
Hey! Meow's it going?
It's going good right meow!0 -
I got here late.0
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whats this 'kitten' you guys write? i dont get it!!
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honesty71108 wrote: »whats this 'kitten' you guys write? i dont get it!!
We don't write it. If we type a swear word it gets converted to kitten.0
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