Srsly this site is being used for...

Sicnic5150

....hitting on women and trying to hook up? Come on ppl! When I think of MFP sure like minded ppl come to mind but not to use it as a tinder or other dating site forum. Ugh!!!

I'm here to to be supported and make friends who have living healthy on the mind, in hopes that I might be able to get advice when I need it and learn something new perhaps.

That is all....I'm flattered but I don't wanna flirt with you, sext or exchange pix with you and Def don't wanna "hook" up with you.

I'm leary adding ppl who friend request me now. I think I should change my pic to something totally inocuous like a shoe. Lol

wolverine66

good job. i think all of it will stop now.

melmelw03

Sicnic5150 wrote: »

....hitting on women and trying to hook up? Come on ppl! When I think of MFP sure like minded ppl come to mind but not to use it as a tinder or other dating site forum. Ugh!!!

I'm here to to be supported and make friends who have living healthy on the mind, in hopes that I might be able to get advice when I need it and learn something new perhaps.

That is all....I'm flattered but I don't wanna flirt with you, sext or exchange pix with you and Def don't wanna "hook" up with you.

I'm leary adding ppl who friend request me now. I think I should change my pic to something totally inocuous like a shoe. Lol

Be careful. I'm sure there's someone on here with a shoe fetish.

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randomtai

Lolz.

_Waffle_

Sicnic5150 wrote: »

....hitting on women and trying to hook up? Come on ppl! When I think of MFP sure like minded ppl come to mind but not to use it as a tinder or other dating site forum. Ugh!!!

I'm here to to be supported and make friends who have living healthy on the mind, in hopes that I might be able to get advice when I need it and learn something new perhaps.

That is all....I'm flattered but I don't wanna flirt with you, sext or exchange pix with you and Def don't wanna "hook" up with you.

I'm leary adding ppl who friend request me now. I think I should change my pic to something totally inocuous like a shoe. Lol

Hold on. Sending you a few pictures.

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Thisnameischosen

It's just the way it is. Yeah it's unpleasant but if you find a way to laugh about it and take it in your stride (also block and unfriend as needed) your time on here will be much more enjoyable.

wolverine66

Sicnic5150 wrote: »

....hitting on women and trying to hook up? Come on ppl! When I think of MFP sure like minded ppl come to mind but not to use it as a tinder or other dating site forum. Ugh!!!

I'm here to to be supported and make friends who have living healthy on the mind, in hopes that I might be able to get advice when I need it and learn something new perhaps.

That is all....I'm flattered but I don't wanna flirt with you, sext or exchange pix with you and Def don't wanna "hook" up with you.

I'm leary adding ppl who friend request me now. I think I should change my pic to something totally inocuous like a shoe. Lol

Let me expound a bit. In the "real world" people will try to find a connection with people anywhere. The grocery store, the library, the park, the gym. And that's fine. Yes, those aren't designated "mackin'" areas (do the kids still use the term "mackin'?"), but when someone sees an opportunity, some feel they need to take it. then take that thinking and multiply it exponentially to the users on this site.

you should be leery of adding people. but even better, don't be afraid to cut people off your FL if they do something like that. Because while you can't totally stop people reaching out to talk to an attractive person, you certainly can control your FL and surround yourself with people who will not do that. Thus creating your own supportive environment.

Trust me - you will have greater success doing it that way than publicly posting a cease and desist request on the forums.

_John_

I'm just waiting for someone attractive to post so I can creep...

_Waffle_

_John_ wrote: »

I'm just waiting for someone attractive to post so I can creep...

Same.

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wolverine66

_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »

wolverine66 wrote: »

Sicnic5150 wrote: »

....hitting on women and trying to hook up? Come on ppl! When I think of MFP sure like minded ppl come to mind but not to use it as a tinder or other dating site forum. Ugh!!!

I'm here to to be supported and make friends who have living healthy on the mind, in hopes that I might be able to get advice when I need it and learn something new perhaps.

That is all....I'm flattered but I don't wanna flirt with you, sext or exchange pix with you and Def don't wanna "hook" up with you.

I'm leary adding ppl who friend request me now. I think I should change my pic to something totally inocuous like a shoe. Lol

Let me expound a bit. In the "real world" people will try to find a connection with people anywhere. The grocery store, the library, the park, the gym. And that's fine. Yes, those aren't designated "mackin'" areas (do the kids still use the term "mackin'?"), but when someone sees an opportunity, some feel they need to take it. then take that thinking and multiply it exponentially to the users on this site.

you should be leery of adding people. but even better, don't be afraid to cut people off your FL if they do something like that. Because while you can't totally stop people reaching out to talk to an attractive person, you certainly can control your FL and surround yourself with people who will not do that. Thus creating your own supportive environment.

Trust me - you will have greater success doing it that way than publicly posting a cease and desist request on the forums.

can confirm- mack on fly honeys at the mall on the reg.

nailed it.

JKI19

I usually only add people if they send me a PM with their request, it's a good way to decipher things. But with females I'm sure the incoming requests are on another level lol.

ew_david

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bennettinfinity

I see through your clever ruse... and no - you can't have any pics...

P.S. Way to call out the entire MFP community - generalize much?

Smile72

Just ignore them. Or simply let them know you are not on this site looking to hook up.

Shadyhuero805

I agree.. Still dont get would you with person above..just dumb.

wilsoncl6

I flirt with myself all of the time, you don't see me complaining.

beagletracks

So true! Ha ha. Even if your profile picture weren't so stunningly gorgeous, you'd probably still still get people mackin' on you. It all comes down to fate or karma or destiny or kitten illuminati or hormones or Crocs or hot dogs or whatever you believe in, really.

Antd420

Sicnic5150 wrote: »

....hitting on women and trying to hook up? Come on ppl! When I think of MFP sure like minded ppl come to mind but not to use it as a tinder or other dating site forum. Ugh!!!

I'm here to to be supported and make friends who have living healthy on the mind, in hopes that I might be able to get advice when I need it and learn something new perhaps.

That is all....I'm flattered but I don't wanna flirt with you, sext or exchange pix with you and Def don't wanna "hook" up with you.

I'm leary adding ppl who friend request me now. I think I should change my pic o something totally inocuous like a shoe. Lol

Get over yourself, nobody wants you. LMAO

LiftingRiot

Do you really think I'm will ferrel? There are creepers out there, men and women. This is the place that creepers can sneak in undercover at times. It's a perfect format for them.

yusaku02

LiftingRiot wrote: »

Do you really think I'm will ferrel? There are creepers out there, men and women. This is the place that creepers can sneak in undercover at times. It's a perfect format for them.

salembambi

_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »

been that way for a very long time now. so is every other site online though. people always complain about it on MFP but it makes a lot of sense I'd say, most people are feeling sexy for the first time in forever and they want to show off, or try to get what they never had before. Chit Chat/Fun n Games isn't serious prob 90% of the time so it seems a lot worse here is all.
The private hookup groups is where the real work happens at.

oh dear sweet blanche devereaux there are private hook up groups?

Dannigreen31

Some of these gifs crack me up

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imraanaly

Hi

Guns_N_Buns

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