How bad would someone's form need to be for you to say something?
deluxmary2000
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Just curious, because man... there is a guy at my gym every morning that just scares the heck out of me with his form for kettlebell swings (and pretty much everything else he does).
I haven't said anything, and don't really plan to.
I haven't said anything, and don't really plan to.
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Oh yeah, and before anyone starts with how I should just "do me" and not worry about other people... I'll be the first to admit that I'm a people-watcher while I rest between sets. I'm not judging him negatively, I'm just concerned he's going to get injured.5
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Nevermind, joke taken wrong!0
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not to be too snarky, but if you're a man and the person is a woman, experience has taught me that any time is a good time to comment on form, remind her to breathe, or suggest a different exercise altogether.8
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I would never. I mind my business. Life is easier that way.3
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ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
That's pretty messed up.8 -
If I think someone is going to seriously hurt themselves, then I'd either say something or point it out to one of my gym's trainers so they could say something. I probably wouldn't have to, though - my gym's trainers have been known to give 'friendly advice' in those circumstances before. They'd probably take care of it before I said anything.9
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If I think someone is going to seriously hurt themselves, then I'd either say something or point it out to one of my gym's trainers so they could say something. I probably wouldn't have to, though - my gym's trainers have been known to give 'friendly advice' in those circumstances before. They'd probably take care of it before I said anything.
I actually never thought about telling a trainer. It might be more acceptable coming from a trainer than a randome concerned stranger.10 -
ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
Really wrong of you.9 -
Chef_Barbell wrote: »ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
That's pretty messed up.
right? lol0 -
I mean, "say something"? I think it depends on what you say and how you say it. You'll want to be well relieved. I would hit the Go-Go Gadget good manners button and proceed with as little arrogance and condescension as possible. People tend to get offended when advice or criticism is offered rather than asked for. I think the person will thank you once they see the light. If they are at risk of injuring them self you should not wait another day.2
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ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
Probably wrong? Did you not learn anything from the woman who took the photo in the change room and shared with snap chat? It's not probably wrong... it is wrong.13 -
If I pay for the person's health insurance I will say something. Otherwise, I will not say anything.4
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Ehhh I generally keep my mouth shut in a regular gym but if I saw him everyday and his form was so bad it was very likely to cause injury I'd say something. I'd probably strike up a casual conversation and then add something along the lines of, "wow it's so awesome to see you in here doing KB swings everyday, they're one of my favorite exercises to do. Once my trainer showed my how to explosively hinge at the hip and actively pull the bell down it's made such a difference in how much strength i'm gaining in my glutes and hamstrings" or something along the lines of whatever his flaw might be. I definitely wouldn't press too hard though.2
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For the record, I didn't actually video her. I'm being sarcastic. Hard to tell over text I guess....and if I thought she was seriously going to hurt herself I would have said something.1
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sensitive crowd0
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Chef_Barbell wrote: »ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
That's pretty messed up.
EXTREMELY messed up. Just because we "can" video people out in public that does NOT mean we should. Also making a video instead of showing her the safe way is horrid.5 -
ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
:huh:
Karma will sort this out, I'm sure.11 -
I said something once when I couple of young guys were standing on a box and doing deadlifts. They were arcing their backs like scared cats. I had just read an article about the dangers of that. No one else was in the gym so as I was leaving I said "would you mind if I shared something I read with you?" And then explained that I was worried they'd injure themselves. They didn't seem overly receptive but they didn't tell me to get lost either. I don't know if they took my advice or not. I think I would have felt worse if I didn't say anything to them at all. At least my conscience is clean. I see a lot of poor form but nothing as bad as that as far as potential injuries.4
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ArmsandCharms wrote: »sensitive crowd
Not really, there are plenty of people here who are really afraid to go to the gym for that exact type of judgment. And yes it is hard to tell over text.14 -
ArmsandCharms wrote: »LOL. I often wonder this. There was a lady yesterday that was doing something crazy on the leg press and I thought she was going to kill herself. i didn't say anything. I just videoed it. lol. Probably wrong of me, but it was funny.
No probably about it. Very, very wrong. Unethical. No wonder some people are shy to go to a gym. I hope you delete it and never do it again.9 -
I'll just put this out there--but if it was me, I would appreciate knowing (but in a kind, gentle manner).6
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Holy cow. Read all the way through people...Should have put a giant haha/JK on the end.4
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ArmsandCharms wrote: »Holy cow. Read all the way through people...Should have put a giant haha/JK on the end.
I read through it a few times and nowhere at all does it sound like a joke.18 -
I know that I look creepy so I don't approach strangers without invitation for my own safety.5
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I only offer advice at the gym when people ask me for it, which almost never happens so I mainly keep my opinions about their form or lack thereof to myself.0
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ArmsandCharms wrote: »sensitive crowd
Don't let it bother you. These are the same people that will watch a "Gym Fails" video and laugh their tails off at gym-goers' misfortunes.3 -
When I got back to the gym another member corrected my squatting form in a helpful and constructive way and I appreciated it.
I think it's all in how you approach it, if you're not comfortable giving advice mention it to a staff member at the gym. It's good business to prevent customers from hurting themselves.
It's funny that this is an issue in gym culture, runners help each other all the time and it's the norm.2 -
I would love to hear if I have bad form, but I understand many people have softer feelings.3
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deluxmary2000 wrote: »If I think someone is going to seriously hurt themselves, then I'd either say something or point it out to one of my gym's trainers so they could say something. I probably wouldn't have to, though - my gym's trainers have been known to give 'friendly advice' in those circumstances before. They'd probably take care of it before I said anything.
I actually never thought about telling a trainer. It might be more acceptable coming from a trainer than a randome concerned stranger.
Yeah, this is pretty much what I would do...it would be better received coming from gym staff I think. I've said things to people before, but it's always been after they've inquired...like they see me doing something and they realize they aren't doing it right...so they ask what to do.1 -
There's nothing worse than unsolicited advice at the gym. That said, even I would probably say something if it looks like he's going to end up hurting himself or others.0
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