Question for the Ladies, Gents you may learn something from them

PowerMan40
PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
hypothetical: Pretend your single

You in a public place, you see a nice guy, how do you let him know that you like him. Is it a look, a smile, eye contact, do you play with your hair? Do you just go up and talk to them.?

or do you just look at the ground shy as mouse and hope he notices you.

Gents what have you noticed the ladies do to get your attention. ?

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  • Raynne413
    Raynne413 Posts: 1,527 Member
    Honestly, I just wait for him to make a first move. I just think if he is interested enough, he will. If not, oh well. But I tend to be a little shy when it comes to that kind of stuff.
  • MTgal477
    MTgal477 Posts: 829 Member
    I'm definitely shy as a mouse....I might be into him, but what if he isn't in to me?? I wouldn't just go up to him....I'd wait until he said something to me.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I'm old and it's been awhile so I have no idea anymore!
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  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    They are either staring me down or grabbing various body parts...some woman can be creeps.
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  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    How do I know he's a nice guy?

    He is attractive to you. He may be an Ahole, but nice looking
    Probably best to just not approach. I may be hostile

    Thats what I would be afraid of. lol

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  • km8907
    km8907 Posts: 3,861 Member
    I tend to smile to anyone I make eye contact with. Reflex. Interest would be repeated eye contact. I don't approach.
  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    PowerMan40 wrote: »
    How do I know he's a nice guy?

    He is attractive to you. He may be an Ahole, but nice looking
    Probably best to just not approach. I may be hostile

    Thats what I would be afraid of. lol

    In that case I'd probably try to use the force to choke him a little and if he's into it he's a winner

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    Yea baby...

  • KevinYoukillus
    KevinYoukillus Posts: 206 Member
    The correct answer is the phrase: "How you doing?"
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
    I think eye contact and a smile would work assuming he is into me. It's just enough to get him to come over and say hi.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
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    Yeah, my flirting needs help and my geeky gets all in the way...

    Me, all, How you doin'?
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  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    I think eye contact and a smile would work assuming he is into me. It's just enough to get him to come over and say hi.

    This seems to be a popular tactic used by the Urban Female predators. :D