Question for the Ladies, Gents you may learn something from them

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  • finny11122
    finny11122 Posts: 8,436 Member
    edited October 2016
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe they put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    finny11122 wrote: »
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .

    And what does a big nasty feminist, man hater face look like? Cause I'm a feminist and not a man hater, nasty or anything like that.
  • finny11122
    finny11122 Posts: 8,436 Member
    HeyaBerg wrote: »
    finny11122 wrote: »
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .

    And what does a big nasty feminist, man hater face look like? Cause I'm a feminist and not a man hater, nasty or anything like that.

    Like a bulldog chewing a wasp haha
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    finny11122 wrote: »
    HeyaBerg wrote: »
    finny11122 wrote: »
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .

    And what does a big nasty feminist, man hater face look like? Cause I'm a feminist and not a man hater, nasty or anything like that.

    Like a bulldog chewing a wasp haha

    Never met a feminist like that in my life...
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  • finny11122
    finny11122 Posts: 8,436 Member
    finny11122 wrote: »
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe they put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .

    finny lol. Does this mean if they have a lady mustache its a no go?

    Definite no go . Also stay away from hairy legs new age hippies haha
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    guys aren't very good at reading signals. just fix your hair, adjust your tits and go up and talk to him!
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I don't know about all this. I smile all the time. Genuine smiles. Although, this could be why strangers always strike up conversation with me. Not just men. Everyone. Guess I should work on my "signs".

    that's just cuz your so damn sexy, laura
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  • sw33tp3a_1
    sw33tp3a_1 Posts: 795 Member
    Guys like a challenge so I put on my RBF. I also avoid eye contact. That's seems to pull them in.
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    guys aren't very good at reading signals. just fix your hair, adjust your tits and go up and talk to him!

    Is there possibly a video tutorial?? If not do you mind making one? To help the ladies out of course.

    for science? then yes, i will get right on that!
  • ajwilts2016
    ajwilts2016 Posts: 1 Member
    Ooohhh this one depends on one thing. Alcohol! If I've had a drink, I'll happily make the first move. If I'm sober, it would be the "catch his eye, smile and look down" not sure why I look down, but I always do!
  • Keladelphia
    Keladelphia Posts: 820 Member
    I've never been attracted to a complete stranger enough to care to approach them. I think that because I find so many different types of men attractive, I'm usually pulled in more by humor or intelligence than a first glance.

    If it's a guy i've seen a few times but never talked to (like at my gym or in the coffee shop I stop at every morning), i'd just smile and say "hey how's it going" and hope that would spark further interaction. This has tended to work for me in the past but I usually do it after I've creepily watched his interactions with other people to make sure he's not a douche.
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    At a dance club I noticed a really sexy guy who was dancing, so I waited til he looked my way and smiled really big at him. He smiled back and came over to dance with me! We hooked up that night!
  • jenmar222
    jenmar222 Posts: 9,271 Member
    edited October 2016
    HeyaBerg wrote: »
    finny11122 wrote: »
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .

    And what does a big nasty feminist, man hater face look like? Cause I'm a feminist and not a man hater, nasty or anything like that.

    I'm also a feminist, and I feckin love men :love: ....not narrow minded ones who make blanket statements about women though.

    In fact, when I'm in a public place I specifically prowl for men who are into feminism. They're usually more open minded and progressive in bed as well :sunglasses:
  • Starman02
    Starman02 Posts: 181 Member
    Its a look and a smile for me! I wouldn't wait for them to make the first move
    Isn't that how opportunities pass you by?
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    finny11122 wrote: »
    finny11122 wrote: »
    Guys make the first move 95% of the time . Problem most guys make is making the move on the wrong women . Check them out from a distance first and see are they smiling , happy looking , maybe they put themselves in your orbit . ask you a stupid rejection free question , hopeing you continue the conversation . If they have a big nasty feminist , man hater face on them , don't even bother making a move .

    finny lol. Does this mean if they have a lady mustache its a no go?

    Definite no go . Also stay away from hairy legs new age hippies haha

    poor dudes that hit on me thinking i shave my legs cause i dont look like a hippie

    poor dudes what horror :D
  • IndySue13
    IndySue13 Posts: 22 Member
    Villae81 and rugratz2015: Like I said, and several posts on here agree, it's all in the smile and the way you look at someone that should tell them you are interested.
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  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited October 2016
    I just let them approach me. I smile. And I would never meet people online and bypass the natural process of real life attraction.
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  • MJFSH
    MJFSH Posts: 7,252 Member
    I'm going to play hippie. never been that way, will be fun to try
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  • MJFSH
    MJFSH Posts: 7,252 Member
    MJFSH wrote: »
    I'm going to play hippie. never been that way, will be fun to try

    I think you have to not shave your legs and either grow a lady mustache or you can use a fake one ;)

    Well if that's the condition it won't work for me. thanks to laser nothing grows anymore! :smiley:
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  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,034 Member
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