Question for the Ladies, Gents you may learn something from them
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Back in the day, when I was single (ridiculously happily married now ), I was pretty direct. A direct stare across the room, and then typically just walking up and saying hello. Close.1
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GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »The classiest of girls give near to zero indication. You have to find out, as a guy. They operate by intrigue and flair. It's like playing zork grand inquisitor without cheat codes. The only option is to go forward, fall into the trap or surmount it.
You have the other kind that's all flashy, noisy, shows a lot of attitude and demands attention....... these are to be avoided. This is a painstakingly crafted persona which will unhinge in due time and the question is... do you want to witness it when it goes unhinged.
I bet those guys get all the girls!!
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I am very well aware of this...thank you!
Sincerely,
Buff Tattooed Engineer
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When I was Single and I like a guy , I just went to him and said hi my name is Diane ,what is yours
We start to talk then date, then after a few dates I realize he wasn't for me ,1 -
I smile at them. If they're close enough, I'll find a way to jump into the conversation. I find ways to put my hands on their arms or shoulders while talking.1
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I make eye contact and see how he responds.1
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Cutaway_Collar wrote: »The classiest of girls give near to zero indication. You have to find out, as a guy. They operate by intrigue and flair. It's like playing zork grand inquisitor without cheat codes. The only option is to go forward, fall into the trap or surmount it.
You have the other kind that's all flashy, noisy, shows a lot of attitude and demands attention....... these are to be avoided. This is a painstakingly crafted persona which will unhinge in due time and the question is... do you want to witness it when it goes unhinged.
This I gotta agree with.. Not in all cases of course, but it's definitely true for me.
I'm very shy... And very good at hiding my emotions from people, so if I were to find a man attractive I'd probably glance at him constantly when he wasn't looking perhaps. But I'd be to nervous to make and hold eye contact.
It's sad... I wish I had more courage.3 -
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Lady_Spartan15 wrote: »Depends - How many alcoholic beverages have I had??
Totally this.0 -
Catch his eye and smile.
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I'm shy as heck and I've never ever approached a guy that I liked so I would probably just mind my own business.0
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I just look away or down and assume he wouldn't want to bother with me anyway.0
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You had me at "petend to be single"...
Forget the guy. I'm off to do my thing *kitten*!0 -
Holly *kitten*!!!!! I was just asked out by a personal trainer, get this 28 years younger than me!
That's not me bringing it, that's how daring he was!
now, excuse me, while I'm collecting my jaw from the floor!
correction, 23 years younger!3 -
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PlaydohPants wrote: »
isn't that sweet of you to assume I'm 30!!!! haha now, that's another NSV!!!! haha1 -
Cutaway_Collar wrote: »The classiest of girls give near to zero indication. You have to find out, as a guy. They operate by intrigue and flair. It's like playing zork grand inquisitor without cheat codes. The only option is to go forward, fall into the trap or surmount it.
You have the other kind that's all flashy, noisy, shows a lot of attitude and demands attention....... these are to be avoided. This is a painstakingly crafted persona which will unhinge in due time and the question is... do you want to witness it when it goes unhinged.
You're putting all women into these two categories. Way to paint a broad brush there.
So according to you I'm not "classy" because I would give indication of interest. *eyeroll*
My thing is, life is short. I don't like to play games and if I want something, I go for it.
I'm also not "flashy, noisy, or demand attention". Although I do have a pretty loud laugh and I don't give a crap who it annoys.
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I'm super shy and have never approached a guy! If i was feeling brave I'd maybe try and make eye contact and smile, but chances are I'd keep my head down.0
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Yeah I never knew maybe cuz I was to shy or always thought they were lookin at some one else. Or I'm just missin it how do you know if a guys is?0
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I never approach but definitely give repeated eye contact and a very shy like smile. You would most certainly know I was interested without question0
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Eye contact and a smile. Not like the pursed lip "polite smile" that people do when they accidentally make eye contact with someone but a genuine smile0
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