5'4 F 128 ...weight gain tips

Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin
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  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Eat more food.
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    Eat more food.

    Thats so much easier said than done. I have a really hard time putting on weight, and eating alot.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Peanut butter...

    What do you currently eat?
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    naj1991 wrote: »
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    Eat more food.

    Thats so much easier said than done. I have a really hard time putting on weight, and eating alot.

    eat calorie dense foods = ice cream, oreos, mass gainer shakes, bagels, etc,etc..just make sure you are still getting proper nutrition and meeting macros.
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    Peanut butter...

    What do you currently eat?

    Lately, because of some dental work, i have just been focusing on eating 3 full meals with dessert. But before this (only a week ago) I am/was taking Maca root supplements and eating high calorie foods. 2 breaskfast meals, lunch, before dinner meal and dinner.
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Why exactly do you want to gain more weight (if it's not in muscle), when you're in a perfectly healthy weight range. I mean 140 is still in a healthy weight range, but I'm curious as to why you'd want to just add more body fat.

    because the kardashians....

    Def. not because of them, ive wanted to be thicker long before we knew who they were and fake butts.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Peanut butter...

    What do you currently eat?

    Lately, because of some dental work, i have just been focusing on eating 3 full meals with dessert. But before this (only a week ago) I am/was taking Maca root supplements and eating high calorie foods. 2 breaskfast meals, lunch, before dinner meal and dinner.

    I meant what actual food....?
  • comptonelizabeth
    comptonelizabeth Posts: 1,701 Member
    Fa
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Why exactly do you want to gain more weight (if it's not in muscle), when you're in a perfectly healthy weight range. I mean 140 is still in a healthy weight range, but I'm curious as to why you'd want to just add more body fat.

    Ive always felt uncomfortable with my size. Ill post pics soon. Yes, 128 sounds normal,but im tired of wearing xs and size 3 pants. before this weight i was 105 for a long time. I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin.

    Fair enough, but gaining weight without gaining muscle mass is kind of pointless in my opinion. I'm just afraid you will be disappointed when you gain 10 lbs and don't have the curves you envisioned. Look into getting on a structured lifting program. As someone who has been extra small everything growing up, I finally got curves when I started lifting heavy and put on a few pounds.

    It's obviously not pointless to her,though. I agree she sounds an ideal weight - I'm 5'3 and 128 lbs is what I'm aiming for. But we're all different.
  • Okohme
    Okohme Posts: 152 Member
    Well, what kinds of foods do you like?
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Peanut butter...

    What do you currently eat?

    Lately, because of some dental work, i have just been focusing on eating 3 full meals with dessert. But before this (only a week ago) I am/was taking Maca root supplements and eating high calorie foods. 2 breaskfast meals, lunch, before dinner meal and dinner.

    I meant what actual food....?

    Oh lol I knew that! Umm chicken, veggies, potatos, heavy cream shakes, cereal, milk , dairy in general, cakes, ice cream, pies, red meat...etc in no order. just depends on what i cook that day.
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    Fa
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Why exactly do you want to gain more weight (if it's not in muscle), when you're in a perfectly healthy weight range. I mean 140 is still in a healthy weight range, but I'm curious as to why you'd want to just add more body fat.

    Ive always felt uncomfortable with my size. Ill post pics soon. Yes, 128 sounds normal,but im tired of wearing xs and size 3 pants. before this weight i was 105 for a long time. I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin.

    Fair enough, but gaining weight without gaining muscle mass is kind of pointless in my opinion. I'm just afraid you will be disappointed when you gain 10 lbs and don't have the curves you envisioned. Look into getting on a structured lifting program. As someone who has been extra small everything growing up, I finally got curves when I started lifting heavy and put on a few pounds.

    I lift...I have been for the past 3 years (and from 115 to 128 of my weight gain journey) I just think I would feel better with more fat on me at this point...i still appear small because i have alot of muscle...
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    Fa
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Why exactly do you want to gain more weight (if it's not in muscle), when you're in a perfectly healthy weight range. I mean 140 is still in a healthy weight range, but I'm curious as to why you'd want to just add more body fat.

    Ive always felt uncomfortable with my size. Ill post pics soon. Yes, 128 sounds normal,but im tired of wearing xs and size 3 pants. before this weight i was 105 for a long time. I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin.

    Fair enough, but gaining weight without gaining muscle mass is kind of pointless in my opinion. I'm just afraid you will be disappointed when you gain 10 lbs and don't have the curves you envisioned. Look into getting on a structured lifting program. As someone who has been extra small everything growing up, I finally got curves when I started lifting heavy and put on a few pounds.

    It's obviously not pointless to her,though. I agree she sounds an ideal weight - I'm 5'3 and 128 lbs is what I'm aiming for. But we're all different.

    thank you, I thought I'd be ok at 130...almost there..but I still feel too thin. I think 10-12 more pounds should put me where I want to be.
  • brizzlar
    brizzlar Posts: 86 Member
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.
  • trigden1991
    trigden1991 Posts: 4,658 Member
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Any foods that put you in a calorie surplus work.
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,426 MFP Moderator
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    And they are definitely not high calories.
  • brizzlar
    brizzlar Posts: 86 Member
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    So try getting them in powder form
    Bulk Nutrients have a protein/powdered oat option you can buy for ectomorph body types. I've found it helpful.
  • brizzlar
    brizzlar Posts: 86 Member
    psulemon wrote: »
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    And they are definitely not high calories.

    Really? I get 700 cals a morning from them... Should research them- I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    brizzlar wrote: »
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    So try getting them in powder form
    Bulk Nutrients have a protein/powdered oat option you can buy for ectomorph body types. I've found it helpful.

    I would imagine it wouldn't be as filling as a powder. Though I much prefer pasta and veggies to get my carbs and fibre in. To each their own I guess!

  • comptonelizabeth
    comptonelizabeth Posts: 1,701 Member
    psulemon wrote: »
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    And they are definitely not high calories.

    Agreed! I make my morning porridge with full fat milk and add flaxseed and pumpkin seeds and it's still only 400 calories. It also fills me up so much that often I don't want lunch.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,426 MFP Moderator
    brizzlar wrote: »
    psulemon wrote: »
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    And they are definitely not high calories.

    Really? I get 700 cals a morning from them... Should research them- I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.

    Its not the oats that are high in calories but all the other stuff you put in it. 1 serving or 40g is about 130 calories. So the rest if other fillers. What do you put in yours?
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,426 MFP Moderator
    psulemon wrote: »
    sardelsa wrote: »
    brizzlar wrote: »
    naj1991 wrote: »
    Im 5'4 female, weighing 128 I would like to be 140. I don't want to gain much muscle, but I have been having a hard time gaining. I use maca root and considering adding apedamin

    Get into eating oats . Cheap, healthy and great for weight gain.

    Oats are fine but keep in mind some people (like myself) may find them very filling.. so not so good for weight gain

    And they are definitely not high calories.

    Agreed! I make my morning porridge with full fat milk and add flaxseed and pumpkin seeds and it's still only 400 calories. It also fills me up so much that often I don't want lunch.

    Check out www.theproteinchef.co he has some good and higher calorie protein oatmeal options. Mine average around 500 to 600.
  • naj1991
    naj1991 Posts: 93 Member
    I'm going t9 buy boot vhc and heavy cream
  • Mini_Medic
    Mini_Medic Posts: 343 Member
    I'm sorry but I guess your build must be loads different than mine. I was very unhappy at 140 and I'm now 128, only one inch shorter. The other poster was correct though if thickness and curves is what your after, lift, train and move that body! Just gaining weight will likely not give you the desired look your after. You'll end up chunky if your not building a body and just adding to it with extra calories. To each their own though.
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
    edited March 2017
    Why exactly do you want to gain more weight (if it's not in muscle), when you're in a perfectly healthy weight range. I mean 140 is still in a healthy weight range, but I'm curious as to why you'd want to just add more body fat.

    Some body types look better at a higher weight. I look really good at 140 and I'm also 5'4". I look thin and curvy. I'm not sure how I look at 128 and although my goal is actually 127lbs (so basically her weight lol) I'm not quite sure if I will like how I look so I might stop sooner or try to re-gain after I get there. To be honest, some people are here for vain reasons, not just health (and I'm one of those people).
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
    edited March 2017
    Mini_Medic wrote: »
    I'm sorry but I guess your build must be loads different than mine. I was very unhappy at 140 and I'm now 128, only one inch shorter. The other poster was correct though if thickness and curves is what your after, lift, train and move that body! Just gaining weight will likely not give you the desired look your after. You'll end up chunky if your not building a body and just adding to it with extra calories. To each their own though.

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    ^ I'm 5'4" and I was over 140lbs there maybe over 150lbs and I felt really good. I needed more muscle definition, but I definitely felt "thin" despite my big thighs (which I actually liked). I was wearing 2 layers in that photo. Definitely frames can differ a lot. My goal right now is 127lbs but IDK how I'll look or feel. It might be too small for me. I was 135 when I was 13 years old and I was thin enough that I felt comfortable in shirts that showed my torso lol