80 pounds lost! After a setback, it's good to remind myself of the progress I've made!
notakumquat
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I've been struggling lately with feeling like a failure. I've re-gained about 20 pounds from my lowest weight, which puts me 30 from my goal weight. I've struggled with motivation and consistent eating and exercise. I've just gotten back into it within the past few days, and came across this picture while I was searching for motivation for myself and wanted to share!
5'5"
SW: 260
CW: 176.6
GW: 150
I was morbidly obese for most of my life, and was very much in denial. At my highest weight, I met the qualifications for morbid obesity, and also for weight loss surgery.
Here are some of the things that have changed for the better since I lost the weight:
So, pictures! Three comparison collages, then two befores followed by two afters. I'm always looking for new friends, so feel free to add me if you want!
5'5"
SW: 260
CW: 176.6
GW: 150
I was morbidly obese for most of my life, and was very much in denial. At my highest weight, I met the qualifications for morbid obesity, and also for weight loss surgery.
Here are some of the things that have changed for the better since I lost the weight:
- When I bend down to tie my shoes, I don't have to hold my breath.
- I can climb a flight (or 3 or 4) of stairs without being so out of breath that I need to stop and sit before I can have a conversation.
- I can walk short distances (from the couch to the bed) after sitting for a while without my heart racing.
- I don't have to worry about not being able to fit in chairs in places like the movies, auditoriums, planes, restaurants, and those plastic deck chairs with the arms.
- I can sit cross-legged comfortably for the first time in memory.
- I can find clothes more easily (not much, though, since now I have the opposite problem; I wear a small in shirts and a 32 in pants, and those sizes are more difficult to find in thrift stores, which is where I do most of my shopping).
- I no longer look like a potato in the face and have a visible neck!
- I no longer feel like I'm choking or being smothered when I lay on my back at night.
- When I do lay on my back and put my hands on my stomach, I've gone from my fingers barely touching to my hands completely overlapping.
- I regularly have people call me small!
- I also regularly have people who are amazed that I weigh around 180 and that I still have 30 pounds that I would like to lose.
- I'm no longer described as a "larger/bigger guy" when someone is describing me objectively to someone who hasn't met me.
- Even though I haven't been working out as much as I would like lately, I am now able to see my underlying musculature when I "flex."
- My fingers no longer look like sausages.
- I have so much more energy.
- I've significantly decreased my risk of developing Type 2 Diabetes (which runs in my family).
- My shirts don't "gape" like they used to at the stomach when I sit. (This is starting to happen again, which is what really drove home that I'd gained some weight back.)
- My friends and family are proud of me for losing the weight and (mostly) keeping it off for the past 2 years. When I occasionally post an old picture, they are amazed and say that they barely remember me like that.
- I had to adjust my hat smaller (apparently, I had a decent amount of fat on my head)!
So, pictures! Three comparison collages, then two befores followed by two afters. I'm always looking for new friends, so feel free to add me if you want!
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What a great job you've done. Congrats!1
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Would add you based on ownership of CAT BOWTIE!!! great success, and digital motivational cheers to stay on track!2
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Thanks to you both! Jackie_Paper, the cat bow tie is my absolute favorite and is a huge success where I work (Western Carolina University) since our mascot is a Catamount!0
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OMG I am SO proud of you - and you don't even know me. GREAT work!!!! Thank you for sharing.1
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you're killing it! and I was going through your list nodding my head in recognition.1
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DetroitDarin wrote: »OMG I am SO proud of you - and you don't even know me. GREAT work!!!! Thank you for sharing.
Thanks so much!!2 -
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Congratulations and great job!! You look amazing!1
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You are so inspirational! I've had the same struggle lately myself. I appreciate your honesty. Best wishes to you for continued success!1
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Be proud... i say this with humor .. now you're just working on "vanity"weight.0
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when we are on track is awesome, but what is most impressive is when we fall off this crazy wagon and actually get back on! Good for you!2
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Great job!!! That's so awesome and you look so happy too. I can totally relate to that list and just helps me put it into perspective too, I'm on a 1400 calorie and high protein diet ND belviq, doing six months of medical and nutritionAL weight loss program prior to electing to have the sleeve. Did you have wls to assist in the loss?? Thanks. Keep up the good work and don't feel like a failure, it's life and a lifestyle so there are forwards and backwards and now you realize you will set yourself up to go forwards again. xoxo0
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You are doing so good! Keep up the awesome work! You look great!0
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You are doing great! You can and will overcome this setback, no problem!0
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you look great! you are an inspiration! Don't give up, you can do this0
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Great job!!! That's so awesome and you look so happy too. I can totally relate to that list and just helps me put it into perspective too, I'm on a 1400 calorie and high protein diet ND belviq, doing six months of medical and nutritionAL weight loss program prior to electing to have the sleeve. Did you have wls to assist in the loss?? Thanks. Keep up the good work and don't feel like a failure, it's life and a lifestyle so there are forwards and backwards and now you realize you will set yourself up to go forwards again. xoxo
I did not have WLS, but I seriously considered it. I lost 30 pounds just from removing dairy from my diet once I found out I was allergic. The rest was mostly due to the fact that I was pain-free for the first time in my adult life (my dairy allergy manifested in fibromyalgia-type symptoms including chronic debilitating pain, stiffness, and chronic fatigue) and was less depressed and had more energy than I knew what to do with. That said, I would never call it easy, but I know I was lucky.
Good luck in your efforts, and you've got this!!2 -
Scorpio8402 wrote: »Congratulations and great job!! You look amazing!
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elisa123gal wrote: »Be proud... i say this with humor .. now you're just working on "vanity"weight.
Thanks so much! I suppose it is technically vanity weight at this point; I hadn't thought of it that way, but I like it!0 -
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You are doing so good! Keep up the awesome work! You look great!
Thanks!juliegilburd wrote: »You are doing great! You can and will overcome this setback, no problem!
Thanks so much!elleelle03 wrote: »you look great! you are an inspiration! Don't give up, you can do this
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Boy oh boy do we have a lot in common! You must feel amazing and you look phenomenal congrats!!!0
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Awesome,
I can totally relate to the list of changes.
I am 5'3" and was morbidly obese too.
I still have a long way to go, but just by loosing the 66 pounds I lost makes a HUGE difference in my day to day.
Keep up the good job, You look great!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
Awesome,
I can totally relate to the list of changes.
I am 5'3" and was morbidly obese too.
I still have a long way to go, but just by loosing the 66 pounds I lost makes a HUGE difference in my day to day.
Keep up the good job, You look great!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks, and congratulations on your own loss!!!!1 -
Fantastic results!! You look great!!0
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Congratulations! You look great!0
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You look so happy!
What were your symptoms that led you to discover the dairy allergy? Just curious.0 -
FitRoberta wrote: »Congratulations! You look great!
Thanks so much!You look so happy!
What were your symptoms that led you to discover the dairy allergy? Just curious.
I had been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, but none of the meds even touched the pain. I also had unexplained inflammation (the rheumatologist told me "sometimes people just have inflammation and we don't know why") that was helped with anti-inflammatories. Steroids made the pain go away completely (in a larger dose to accommodate my weight as the standard dose is based on an adult that weighs 150), but no doctor wanted to prescribe them on a semi-permanent or permanent basis due to the brain damage that can result. My rheumatologist had pretty much given up and so had I. I was walking with a cane at that point and was at a 7 on the pain scale (1-10 with 10 being the worst) on most days, with spikes up to a 9. I could barely function, and even my desk job was too much for me and I was looking into the process to claim disability.
I randomly came across an article of someone who had a dairy allergy that manifested in Fibromyalgia-type symptoms, so I decided "why not?" and made a plan to cut out all dairy for 2 weeks and see how I felt. I had nothing to lose. TWO DAYS later, my pain was completely gone. It was absolutely magical. I was so emotional and, honestly, angry at that point, since I had lived 30 years of my life in incredible amounts of pain because of something so simple.
To this day, I still have leftover cognitive issues, due to the fact that I literally poisoned myself for 30 years of my life. I'll regularly forget things, especially words, and occasionally how to do something that I've been doing my entire life. One time my brain shut down and I forgot how to sit down. I stood in my office, just looking at my chair, trying to figure out how to get from a standing position into a sitting one. I think I stood there for a solid 2 minutes until it cleared. I don't notice it most days, since I'm so used to it, but it's further proof of how serious the issue actually was.
That said, I consider myself incredibly lucky that I figured it out on my own. If I hadn't come across that random article on the internet, I would still be in the same boat I was before and my life would be completely different.3
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