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  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
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    @cdubks88 Happy Birthday Chris!! ❤ I hope you're having a fantastic day. Thanks for being such a wonderful friend 🤗

    Thanks, T! 😊🤗
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    cdubks88 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    @cdubks88

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    Happy birthday my friend. One of the nicest people I’ve ever “met”. Hope you have a great day and year ahead. You deserve it!❤️🥳
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    @cdubks88

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    Happy birthday my friend. One of the nicest people I’ve ever “met”. Hope you have a great day and year ahead. You deserve it!❤️🥳

    Happy Birthday Bro!

    I would have believed somewhere in your 30s man, I hope I look as young as you when I get there! 💕

    Sorry to you both....just saw this.

    Thanks so much!

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10764826/the-happy-birthday-thread#latest

    Birthday wishes here too 🤗
  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
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    cdubks88 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    @cdubks88

    b03h9tp0jaud.gif


    Happy birthday my friend. One of the nicest people I’ve ever “met”. Hope you have a great day and year ahead. You deserve it!❤️🥳
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    @cdubks88

    b03h9tp0jaud.gif


    Happy birthday my friend. One of the nicest people I’ve ever “met”. Hope you have a great day and year ahead. You deserve it!❤️🥳

    Happy Birthday Bro!

    I would have believed somewhere in your 30s man, I hope I look as young as you when I get there! 💕

    Sorry to you both....just saw this.

    Thanks so much!

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10764826/the-happy-birthday-thread#latest

    Birthday wishes here too 🤗

    Thanks so much, Jo. 😊🤗
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    cdubks88 wrote: »
    cdubks88 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    @cdubks88

    b03h9tp0jaud.gif


    Happy birthday my friend. One of the nicest people I’ve ever “met”. Hope you have a great day and year ahead. You deserve it!❤️🥳
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    @cdubks88

    b03h9tp0jaud.gif


    Happy birthday my friend. One of the nicest people I’ve ever “met”. Hope you have a great day and year ahead. You deserve it!❤️🥳

    Happy Birthday Bro!

    I would have believed somewhere in your 30s man, I hope I look as young as you when I get there! 💕

    Sorry to you both....just saw this.

    Thanks so much!

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10764826/the-happy-birthday-thread#latest

    Birthday wishes here too 🤗

    Thanks so much, Jo. 😊🤗

    You're welcome, hoping it was a great day. 🤗
  • Cat0703a
    Cat0703a Posts: 17,423 Member
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    KickTheSky wrote: »
    I think I might post 16 selfies, three gifs and some audio of me reading a shampoo bottle.

    That sounds like a lot of fun. Please do.
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
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    Why are some people so mean spirited?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
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    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »


    ...but the long ramble of gushiness I sent to @Yoshiboobs - phew, they didnt get that one!

    👀 a message for meeee!?

    Did you for real not get my gushy, somewhat cringey in retrospect message?!

    Dang...Im gonna have to re-send then!
  • fstrickl
    fstrickl Posts: 883 Member
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why are some people so mean spirited?


    Right?
    At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
    ...wait, was that mean-spirited?!

    Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem

    This is a great approach - so often I think I did something to make another person be mean to me. but THEY are the ones choosing to be dicks not me!
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why are some people so mean spirited?


    Right?
    At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
    ...wait, was that mean-spirited?!

    Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem

    I often wonder how he lays his head down at night... it's most def a him problem, but I have to deal with it on the regular... and as much as I let it roll off my back, I will still never understand why he simply cannot turn the *kitten* off!!! K... I'm all done now...lol! That's for the pep talk sweetheart :)
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why are some people so mean spirited?


    Right?
    At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
    ...wait, was that mean-spirited?!

    Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem

    I often wonder how he lays his head down at night... it's most def a him problem, but I have to deal with it on the regular... and as much as I let it roll off my back, I will still never understand why he simply cannot turn the *kitten* off!!! K... I'm all done now...lol! That's for the pep talk sweetheart :)

    I've been super happy and gushing lately about some people being back, you are one of them! Am super happy to "see you" again!
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
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    fstrickl wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why are some people so mean spirited?


    Right?
    At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
    ...wait, was that mean-spirited?!

    Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem

    This is a great approach - so often I think I did something to make another person be mean to me. but THEY are the ones choosing to be dicks not me!

    Know what - I got this perspective from a 13 year old girl years ago. And it really sank in and helps me.

    She said to me after I got offended by a client "Its not about you" - and that idea has been prolific to me - mind opening and was a total paradigm shift for me

    Like if people are being an *kitten* to you, who knows what is going on in their life? In their day? Not a "you" problem. Being upset and offended and mad is a fair reaction.
    Once you cool down, think about the big picture - and that you did no wrong.

  • brustmannzwei
    brustmannzwei Posts: 1,124 Member
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    I gotta stop procrastinating and do work. :(
  • Yoshiboobs
    Yoshiboobs Posts: 1,090 Member
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »


    ...but the long ramble of gushiness I sent to @Yoshiboobs - phew, they didnt get that one!

    👀 a message for meeee!?

    Did you for real not get my gushy, somewhat cringey in retrospect message?!

    Dang...Im gonna have to re-send then!

    I didn't receive any connected to freind request messages. 😔
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why are some people so mean spirited?


    Right?
    At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
    ...wait, was that mean-spirited?!

    Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem

    I often wonder how he lays his head down at night... it's most def a him problem, but I have to deal with it on the regular... and as much as I let it roll off my back, I will still never understand why he simply cannot turn the *kitten* off!!! K... I'm all done now...lol! That's for the pep talk sweetheart :)

    I've been super happy and gushing lately about some people being back, you are one of them! Am super happy to "see you" again!

    🖤💗🖤 such a sweet thing for you to say! Xoxo
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
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    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »


    ...but the long ramble of gushiness I sent to @Yoshiboobs - phew, they didnt get that one!

    👀 a message for meeee!?

    Did you for real not get my gushy, somewhat cringey in retrospect message?!

    Dang...Im gonna have to re-send then!

    I didn't receive any connected to freind request messages. 😔

    mmK
    ...incoming

    Lets see if the message "feature" works!
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
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    oh crap I forgot melatonin I'm gonna be up til the inception of Skynet
  • fstrickl
    fstrickl Posts: 883 Member
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    fstrickl wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why are some people so mean spirited?


    Right?
    At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
    ...wait, was that mean-spirited?!

    Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem

    This is a great approach - so often I think I did something to make another person be mean to me. but THEY are the ones choosing to be dicks not me!

    Know what - I got this perspective from a 13 year old girl years ago. And it really sank in and helps me.

    She said to me after I got offended by a client "Its not about you" - and that idea has been prolific to me - mind opening and was a total paradigm shift for me

    Like if people are being an *kitten* to you, who knows what is going on in their life? In their day? Not a "you" problem. Being upset and offended and mad is a fair reaction.
    Once you cool down, think about the big picture - and that you did no wrong.

    Oh wow, if that teen can take that attitude with her throughout her teenage years (and life really) she will be set up for some positive thinking! That's a cool story! Something I've slowly been learning is that how people react is their decision and not mine, it also reminds me that the way I react to people is totally MY own decision. Seems obvious but something worth thinking of.