My friend constantly vents to me about his girl ... at this point what do I say to him?

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  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
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    He wants to have you on the side
  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
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    Or he is waiting for you to show interest before he leaves the other
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
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    trytpbme1 wrote: »
    tsortsor wrote: »
    Your guy friend wants to get with you

    Well why would he complain about his gf and not leave her I doubt it lol

    just because he wants to bang you doesn't mean he wants to leave his girlfriend. He wants your you know...sympathy.
  • trytpbme1
    trytpbme1 Posts: 107 Member
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    tsortsor wrote: »
    He wants to have you on the side
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    trytpbme1 wrote: »
    tsortsor wrote: »
    Your guy friend wants to get with you

    Well why would he complain about his gf and not leave her I doubt it lol

    just because he wants to bang you doesn't mean he wants to leave his girlfriend. He wants your you know...sympathy.


    Oh wow thanks guys for answering
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
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    Some ppl like to piss and moan about everything. I'd follow @abitoftrouble advice here but you know him better than us. Go in direct and hard and tell him to stop complaining if he isn't going to do anything about it or go softy softy and try talk him round.
  • amtyrell
    amtyrell Posts: 1,449 Member
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    Tell him you are sick of him complaining about his girl and he can dump her or not but you are done listening to it. Then when he starts complaing make one conversation topic change. "How about the cubs this year? " if continues to complain stand up say you will see him later and walk away.
  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
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    I think you knew that.. you just wanted justification/ confirmation before u jumped in
  • trytpbme1
    trytpbme1 Posts: 107 Member
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    tsortsor wrote: »
    I think you knew that.. you just wanted justification/ confirmation before u jumped in


    Actually no because he hasn't gave me a sign of interest
  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
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    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    tsortsor wrote: »
    I think you knew that.. you just wanted justification/ confirmation before u jumped in

    Would you stop acting like you don't know how to use the quote function. No one knows who you are ever talking to.

    Sure
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    tsortsor wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    tsortsor wrote: »
    I think you knew that.. you just wanted justification/ confirmation before u jumped in

    Would you stop acting like you don't know how to use the quote function. No one knows who you are ever talking to.

    Sure

    Well now that's better, isn't it. Nice PP

    It was clear, which is good, right?
  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
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    I thought you all could figure it out
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    @MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks wrote: »
    @abitoftrouble wrote: »
    trytpbme1 wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    Let him live his life. Nothing you say to him is going to make him change his mind.

    I am letting him live his life but he vents like .. what am I supposed to do ?

    Honestly, I would simply say I'm not going to listen to you complain about a problem that you're not willing to fix.

    You stole that from my conversation with you yesterday.

    I believe you have me mistaken for some other mentally challenged middle aged dude

    My name is MeeseeksAndDestroy...

    I did not tag you

    I did not tag you

    I did not tag you
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
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    If you tell him to shut up about it, will he find something else to b**** about?
  • trytpbme1
    trytpbme1 Posts: 107 Member
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    Ironandwine69 wrote: »
    If you tell him to shut up about it, will he find something else to b**** about?
    Ironandwine69 wrote: »
    If you tell him to shut up about it, will he find something else to b**** about?



    Lol :|
  • trytpbme1
    trytpbme1 Posts: 107 Member
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    TannedTiger wrote: »
    sleep with him, already.


    Not interested
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks wrote: »
    @MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks wrote: »
    @abitoftrouble wrote: »
    trytpbme1 wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    Let him live his life. Nothing you say to him is going to make him change his mind.

    I am letting him live his life but he vents like .. what am I supposed to do ?

    Honestly, I would simply say I'm not going to listen to you complain about a problem that you're not willing to fix.

    You stole that from my conversation with you yesterday.

    I believe you have me mistaken for some other mentally challenged middle aged dude

    My name is MeeseeksAndDestroy...

    I did not tag you

    I did not tag you

    I did not tag you

    You've shown impressive restraint :lol:

    You have NO idea!
  • trytpbme1
    trytpbme1 Posts: 107 Member
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    TannedTiger wrote: »
    trytpbme1 wrote: »
    TannedTiger wrote: »
    sleep with him, already.


    Not interested

    Be generous and do it for him.


    No thanku
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
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    TannedTiger wrote: »
    trytpbme1 wrote: »
    TannedTiger wrote: »
    sleep with him, already.


    Not interested

    Be generous and do it for him.

    He's got a good point.
    That's what good friends do.

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