Treated differently after weightloss

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  • yweight2020
    yweight2020 Posts: 591 Member
    edited April 2018
    Men definitely treat me different when I'm bigger than a size 16 and not in A good way, even though a few men were interested in me at my biggest size 20 Not many and for the wrong reasons, like thinking big women love to cook and want to feed them or were insecure because of oir size so we'll except any treatment.

    And women well to many of us arent nice to each other especially when we're dealing with smaller or pretty women .I've been much smaller perceived as a threat not many nice or be friendingg. As long as I'm big women are nice, befriending its really sad and ashamed behavior because my insides are the same regardless to my size. :/:neutral:

  • SalinitySally
    SalinitySally Posts: 258 Member
    ek0513 wrote: »
    utahjulia wrote: »
    lacrosby03 wrote: »
    I truly believe that the way we are viewed and treated has a direct correlation to the way we view ourselves. When we don't like who we are on the inside or on the outside others are able to perceive this. If you are confident in who you are, no matter your size, than shame on those who are judging you. It is unfortunate that we live in a society where looks matter more than anything else. How you treat yourself is how you will also be treated. Whether you are overweight underweight or somewhere in between, we all struggle with something. The unfortunate thing about dealing with excess weight is that others see our weight and view it as a conditional or psychological problem. Oftentimes we believe that if we lose weight all of those problems will go away. Unfortunately it is how we are feeling on the inside that matters. No amount of weight loss can help us from our eyes looking outward at oirselves. We all must learn to love ourselves for who we are, no matter what our size or our weight. Sure we should all work towards bettering ourselves health wise, but not just so we can please others and fit in to a societal view of what is appropriate. Go forth with confidence and a positive view of who you are and others will see you in the same light.

    Not true for me. I’ve always been very outgoing and confident and aware of my worth (and educated and competent) but when I’m heavier SOME other people treat me like they need me to acknowledge my lesser (fatty) worth by piping down. Or I’ve been treated like I’m invisible. When I’m closer to goal weight, I get more respect and acceptance.

    I’m with you as well. I feel like my personality has been the same throughout this whole process, but people use to just never give me the chance to get to know me because I wasn’t their idea of attractive. I feel like I’m being treated as if my presence is a lot more accepted and desired now that I lost weight.

    Exactly what I meant, but more succinctly stated.
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