Exercise = earned calories?

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  • Rebecca0224
    Rebecca0224 Posts: 810 Member
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    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.
  • Rebecca0224
    Rebecca0224 Posts: 810 Member
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    Gotta disagree with the majority here. I'm not sure it's a healthy relationship for me to have with food if I associate it with reward. That if I've been "good" I can have some food.

    To me food is both an essential, normal part of life and also a joy. Treating it as something to reward myself with seems wrong somehow.

    But I'm happy to accept that the majority may have a different view.

    I don't see it as a reward I see it as needed to fuel my body. Properly fueling my body is not a treat or reward it's what is healthy.
  • GrumpyHeadmistress
    GrumpyHeadmistress Posts: 666 Member
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    Gotta disagree with the majority here. I'm not sure it's a healthy relationship for me to have with food if I associate it with reward. That if I've been "good" I can have some food.

    To me food is both an essential, normal part of life and also a joy. Treating it as something to reward myself with seems wrong somehow.

    But I'm happy to accept that the majority may have a different view.

    I don't see it as a reward I see it as needed to fuel my body. Properly fueling my body is not a treat or reward it's what is healthy.

    Absolutely agree!
  • princeofmind
    princeofmind Posts: 95 Member
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    Personally I don't eat them back because I hate exercise but if I did a really big work out then I would eat more that day.
  • Panda8ach
    Panda8ach Posts: 518 Member
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    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.

    I am allowed to think of these as I like ☺️ I know I need them. Not sure why you felt the need to point that out but thanks
  • DamieBird
    DamieBird Posts: 651 Member
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    Jruzer wrote: »
    Gotta disagree with the majority here. I'm not sure it's a healthy relationship for me to have with food if I associate it with reward. That if I've been "good" I can have some food.

    To me food is both an essential, normal part of life and also a joy. Treating it as something to reward myself with seems wrong somehow.

    But I'm happy to accept that the majority may have a different view.

    I appreciate your honesty and modesty here. If you have particular issues with food, that's a legitimate concern.

    Instead of looking at is a reward, though, have you thought of it as part of having a healthy relationship with food? Arbitrarily sticking to a preset amount of calories, independent of how much you work or exercise, isn't healthy either. Exercise calories are part of your body's needs. It's not a reward - it's an authentic requirement.

    Maybe it doesn't make a lot of difference if you do small amounts of exercise. But what if you are doing a lot of exercise? I frequently burn 1000 kcal per day - if I didn't eat that back I would be starving myself.

    Thanks. I'm absolutely in agreement that we should eat back (at least a portion) of exercise calories - that's the way MFP is set up to work. I exercise a lot (4 swims, 3 5kms runs and 2 strength sessions with a PT a week) and I eat back 100% of those calories.

    But I don't think of that as rewarding myself, merely replacing what I've burned.

    To me a reward would be "I've done all the ironing so I'll have a candy bar as a reward". It sort of...devalues the food.

    I agree with the point you're making here and I apologize if I misread you earlier. Food = fuel. I think it's okay if food feels like a 'treat' in as much as what you choose to consume is delicious and maybe even decadent from time to time :).

    I appreciate that you feel like rewarding normal activity with food isn't the healthiest relationship; I've fallen into that trap myself in the past. Once I changes how I think of food - even the candy bars- I stopped rewarding myself. Now, if I want the candy, I look at my nutrition for the day and if it fits, I have it. That's easier to do if I've been super active that week. It's still a 'treat', but not a 'reward'.
  • GrumpyHeadmistress
    GrumpyHeadmistress Posts: 666 Member
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    DamieBird wrote: »
    Jruzer wrote: »
    Gotta disagree with the majority here. I'm not sure it's a healthy relationship for me to have with food if I associate it with reward. That if I've been "good" I can have some food.

    To me food is both an essential, normal part of life and also a joy. Treating it as something to reward myself with seems wrong somehow.

    But I'm happy to accept that the majority may have a different view.

    I appreciate your honesty and modesty here. If you have particular issues with food, that's a legitimate concern.

    Instead of looking at is a reward, though, have you thought of it as part of having a healthy relationship with food? Arbitrarily sticking to a preset amount of calories, independent of how much you work or exercise, isn't healthy either. Exercise calories are part of your body's needs. It's not a reward - it's an authentic requirement.

    Maybe it doesn't make a lot of difference if you do small amounts of exercise. But what if you are doing a lot of exercise? I frequently burn 1000 kcal per day - if I didn't eat that back I would be starving myself.

    Thanks. I'm absolutely in agreement that we should eat back (at least a portion) of exercise calories - that's the way MFP is set up to work. I exercise a lot (4 swims, 3 5kms runs and 2 strength sessions with a PT a week) and I eat back 100% of those calories.

    But I don't think of that as rewarding myself, merely replacing what I've burned.

    To me a reward would be "I've done all the ironing so I'll have a candy bar as a reward". It sort of...devalues the food.

    I agree with the point you're making here and I apologize if I misread you earlier. Food = fuel. I think it's okay if food feels like a 'treat' in as much as what you choose to consume is delicious and maybe even decadent from time to time :).

    I appreciate that you feel like rewarding normal activity with food isn't the healthiest relationship; I've fallen into that trap myself in the past. Once I changes how I think of food - even the candy bars- I stopped rewarding myself. Now, if I want the candy, I look at my nutrition for the day and if it fits, I have it. That's easier to do if I've been super active that week. It's still a 'treat', but not a 'reward'.

    Absolutely! Makes sense to me.
  • Rebecca0224
    Rebecca0224 Posts: 810 Member
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    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.

    I am allowed to think of these as I like ☺️ I know I need them. Not sure why you felt the need to point that out but thanks

    Some people might view the "worked hard" statement as it being a reward for working hard.
  • estherdragonbat
    estherdragonbat Posts: 5,283 Member
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    I started by ignoring my exercise calories. After a few months I started eating a few of my exercise calories. Then I started eating most of my exercise calories. Then I started exercising more after overeating. I keep losing weight in any mode because I stay in a calorie deficit most of the time.

    (I've only bought a box of Klondike bars once. My wife ate all of it in one day.)

    I didn't eat my exercise calories when I started. But when I started I was a sedentary, 254-lb woman, standing 5'3". And my main exercise was a once-a-week 2-hour walk with a bundle buggy to do the grocery shopping. MFP started me at 1710 calories to lose 1lb/week. I decided to step up my activity by walking 25 minutes minimum every day. Which gave me about 150-175 exercise calories. I didn't eat those back. I used them as a buffer. Back then, I was still doing most of my portioning with measuring cups. My kitchen scale wasn't digital; it was an old one like this: http://room-design-ideas.com/best-kitchen-scale and its calibration was starting to fail. I figured it was better to use my exercise calories to offset any logging inaccuracies.

    And then...
    • As I lost weight, MFP cut my daily calories
    • As I got used to exercising, I increased the time, added other types of exercise, and increased intensity

    So now I'm on 1380 before exercise. I typically walk 1-2 hours daily or do an hour on a fitness glider or do a cardio-dumbbells interval workout that takes about 50 minutes. And I do a full-body strength training workout (primarily dumbbells and body-weight exercises) three times a week.

    I... can't fuel that sort of activity on 1380. I typically eat back about 50%. It's not rewarding myself. It's not being 'good'. It's recognizing that if I want to stay active and not be constantly hungry and tired (and almost definitely shedding muscle), then I need to take in more energy.
  • GrumpyHeadmistress
    GrumpyHeadmistress Posts: 666 Member
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    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.

    I am allowed to think of these as I like ☺️ I know I need them. Not sure why you felt the need to point that out but thanks

    Some people might view the "worked hard" statement as it being a reward for working hard.

    And if that's what I'm doing then so be it.... I reward myself for working hard! It doesn't make my relationship with food an unhealthy one, it doesn't make me a dog, it makes being on a diet a little easier for ME :)

    It's awesome that you can have that relationship with food. Something for me to aspire to!
  • Rebecca0224
    Rebecca0224 Posts: 810 Member
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    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.

    I am allowed to think of these as I like ☺️ I know I need them. Not sure why you felt the need to point that out but thanks

    Some people might view the "worked hard" statement as it being a reward for working hard.

    And if that's what I'm doing then so be it.... I reward myself for working hard! It doesn't make my relationship with food an unhealthy one, it doesn't make me a dog, it makes being on a diet a little easier for ME :)

    I eleaborated on your statement it wasn't meant as anything negative. Good luck with your goals
  • Panda8ach
    Panda8ach Posts: 518 Member
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    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.

    I am allowed to think of these as I like ☺️ I know I need them. Not sure why you felt the need to point that out but thanks

    Some people might view the "worked hard" statement as it being a reward for working hard.

    And if that's what I'm doing then so be it.... I reward myself for working hard! It doesn't make my relationship with food an unhealthy one, it doesn't make me a dog, it makes being on a diet a little easier for ME :)

    It's awesome that you can have that relationship with food. Something for me to aspire to!
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    Panda8ach wrote: »
    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    a) Tell that to a 4'11 sedentary female who would have to cut daily intake to something ridiculous like 800-1000 if she didn't eat any exercise calories back.
    b) Yes it absolutely does.

    As a 4'11" woman I support this. My activity varies daily and my activity is set to sedentary but because of activity I need an extra 200 to 800 calories a day and if I don't eat those calories I feel weak and can't preform activities properly.

    I'm the same... I'm a 5ft 2" female who has 1200 calories per day... I've only not eaten back exercise calories a few times. If I don't have them I'm grumpy and sluggish :( A diet shouldn't feel like a punishment and although those calories are not a 'treat' as such... I get them because I worked hard for them! :#

    You get them because you need them because you worked hard.

    I am allowed to think of these as I like ☺️ I know I need them. Not sure why you felt the need to point that out but thanks

    Some people might view the "worked hard" statement as it being a reward for working hard.

    And if that's what I'm doing then so be it.... I reward myself for working hard! It doesn't make my relationship with food an unhealthy one, it doesn't make me a dog, it makes being on a diet a little easier for ME :)

    I eleaborated on your statement it wasn't meant as anything negative. Good luck with your goals

    Good luck and thanks :)
  • MommaGem2017
    MommaGem2017 Posts: 405 Member
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    The biggest realization I've had since starting my weight loss journey (WW before starting MFP) is that I'm NOT actually sedentary even though I have a desk job and don't go to the gym. 10,000+ steps is not sedentary and I need to account for that with my CICO equation. Eating exercise calories for me is not a reward - it's necessary. If I do not eat back my exercise calories I guarantee the next day I'll feel fatigue and headaches. Making sure my deficit is appropriate for me is necessary to my journey and it's sustainability.

    If I chose to ignore all my exercise calories (as I did on WW), then everyday I would feel like keeling over and crawling back to bed. Pay attention to how your body feels and fuel it as needed.
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
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    joeboland wrote: »
    I ignore it for two reasons:

    a) I'm not a dog. I don't "earn" calories like treats.
    b) MFP's calculations are frequently inaccurate at best. I can guarantee a 30-minute 5K does not burn 400 calories.

    Dogs need to breathe air or they'll die. You need to breathe air or you'll die. Maybe "this happens to dogs so it doesn't apply to me" it's bad logic.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
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    Gotta disagree with the majority here. I'm not sure it's a healthy relationship for me to have with food if I associate it with reward. That if I've been "good" I can have some food.

    To me food is both an essential, normal part of life and also a joy. Treating it as something to reward myself with seems wrong somehow.

    But I'm happy to accept that the majority may have a different view.

    I look at it as refueling and repairing my body. I have no interest in losing lean muscle mass by underfeeding. If I work out, I need to give back.