How to handle spouse/s.o who distracts you from dieting or going to the gym
jcstevens86
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Basically to sum it up how do you handle a spouse who gets mad when you say you cant or wont eat what they have fixed to eat when they know you have a diet to stick to or when they get mad when you wanna leave to go ro the gym
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You show her who is the man. Women love that.2
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Step 1 - find your testicles
Step 2 - reattach your testicles
Step 3 - Leave her8 -
On a serious note, have you told her how important this is to you?2
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Stop blaming others and just go2
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Invite her to go to the gym with you? Suggest cooking healthy meals together? B!tches love being included
have to talked to her about what you are doing and why you are doing it? I hope she accepts it because I would imagine your situation must be frustrating 5 -
Understand they won't understand and don't hold it against them, sometimes we walk alone.2
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I'd ask if you know any Tiffany's to smash on the side, but it sounds like you're married to one.2
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smut_muffin wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »I'd ask if you know any Tiffany's to smash on the side, but it sounds like you're married to one.
It’s all about the Becky’s anyway
Even I dont fux with the Beckys.3 -
I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk0
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »On a serious note, have you told her how important this is to you?
^ this
Talk to her, explain how much it means to you. Ask her to support you while you progress toward your goals. Find a compromise. Just don't let her dictate to you what you can and can't do
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My situation exactly. My ex boyfriend (just recently ex) hated that I was going to the gym every time I went it was an argument. He didn't want me to lose weight to start because his preference has always been heavy girls now that I'm down 95 lbs he hates it, he wouldn't look at much touch me or anything. So we have recently broken up but unfortunately still living together until one of us is able to move out. He still is upset but I really don't care anymore this is about me & my life and I wont let anyone get in the way of being healthy and happy. It's hard to let go of 7 years and the father of my child but my health is most important. Do what you need to do for YOURSELF! Someone who loves and care for you will not hold you back, they should be building you up.11
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I would kick mine to the curb if he was like this.0
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*kitten* is beginning to affect me...i dont work out alone....so i basically dont go if my gym partner dont go0
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smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
Had a feeling we’re suddenly be talking about “someone else”
Lmao you sure do like my posts dont you....you wanna be my friend huh0 -
It does get lonely in the shower when my bro doesn't show up for our workouts.8
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jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
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jcstevens86 wrote: »*kitten* is beginning to affect me...i dont work out alone....so i basically dont go if my gym partner dont go
You're a big boy... you can go on your own...1 -
Just stop being needy and thinking others must understand your motives, motivate yourself and kick your *kitten* man.1
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jcstevens86 wrote: »*kitten* is beginning to affect me...i dont work out alone....so i basically dont go if my gym partner dont go
Maybe learning to work out alone might be a good idea. If your wife doesn't want to go with you, can you find another partner? Or does that bother her?
As far as meals, make a list of things you can eat and hopefully she can adapt meals to suit both of you. Otherwise, you may need to be more flexible: eat smaller portions of what she makes sometimes and cook for yourself (and for her) other times.
Honest communication is important in every aspect of a relationship so keep discussing this until you can both find a happy medium.1 -
This is really a tough situation! Have you tried to sit her down and really explain to her why this is important to you and tell her exactly what you need/plan to do to make it happen? If you have, and she chooses not to be supportive, unfortunately your only choice is to just do what you gotta do and let her be mad. Hopefully she will get tired of the sulking at one point. In a previous relationship, I let myself get manipulated and guilted into breaking a diet again and again and again, and it was f*ing annoying, and wasted me a lot of time. So I know how you feel. Sorry.0
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smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
Had a feeling we’re suddenly be talking about “someone else”
Lmao you sure do like my posts dont you....you wanna be my friend huh
Do I get free whoppers & a mix tape if I say yes
Asking for a friend
Free whoppers sure ill buy you 1 and a mixtape sure why not ill make you 1 of those 2 give me a list of songs you want....hooe you aint rhinking i make music cuz i sound like a dyin goat when i sing and if your thinking i work at burger king nope wrong there 2 i dont like ppl enough to work fast food1 -
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I'll go to the gym with you. What do you say? Planet Fitness. 4 am tonight. We'll stroll the treadmills together at a relaxing pace while holding hands and watching Fox on TV. Then we'll recline on the hydromassage beds. Afterwards, some purple Tootsie Rolls, a peck on the cheek, and we'll go our separate ways.
Negative im not with the homo stuff if you are cool not me tho0 -
jcstevens86 wrote: »smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
Had a feeling we’re suddenly be talking about “someone else”
Lmao you sure do like my posts dont you....you wanna be my friend huh
Do I get free whoppers & a mix tape if I say yes
Asking for a friend
Free whoppers sure ill buy you 1 and a mixtape sure why not ill make you 1 of those 2 give me a list of songs you want....hooe you aint rhinking i make music cuz i sound like a dyin goat when i sing and if your thinking i work at burger king nope wrong there 2 i dont like ppl enough to work fast food
Will your partner allow you to buy a whopper for someone else though?
Also, how come you went from first to third person in your post?
Was as if you posted then your spouse posted
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