Of refeeds and diet breaks
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@Luna3386 - Without you needing to go to deep into the science, I'm going to keep it simple. If you have fat to lose, aim for fat loss with a reasonable deficit and train to support your diet. Have a day or two in the week to have a maintenance day (maintenance based on your weight), and yes you can be on that style of deficit planning for 6 weeks and maintain your new lower weight for about 2 weeks and do it again.
Mind you, your deficit calories do not need to be very low in the first place. Aggressive dieting has its place, but for lifelong sanity and health, you do not need to diet aggressively.
After you've set your calories, you set protein to ~1g/lb of bodyweight. Carbs and fat are going to be pure preference for your food choices. You can either have higher carbs and lower fat, or you can have higher fat and lower carbs, or you can have a little bit of both. No matter what, those macros are going to fit into your calculated deficit.
Everything I've just said is the synopsis of this humorous but accurately written article by Aadam Ali. It's not science deep and it's not written for people in the industry. It's for everyone: http://physiqonomics.com/fat-loss/
Thanks @anubis609
I'm really trying to do this the right way. No more babies for me so I have no reason to gain weight in the future, and I don't plan on it.
I've used that website to calculate my calories and macros: higher carb because too much fat gives me awful digestive issues and stomach pains. I'm assuming refeeds days would still increase calories by increasing carbs even if my fats are at the lowest end (25%). I didn't see where to calculate maintenance so I added ~300 in carbs to those days. And I'm guessing diet breaks will increase all of my macros, not just carbs.
I think I'm at the point where I can't diet aggressively, at least not during this school year where I already feel burnt out. Which leads me to my problem: a lack of patience. And since a higher percentage of body fat is resting right on my midsection it makes me feel larger than I really am. Just have to keep my focus on myself and not focus on others.
Too bad mfp doesn't have an option to easily switch between calorie/macro ranges for these refeeds.
@Luna3386
The rough and easy way to calculate your maintenance is to multiply your current bodyweight x 14-16.. use the lower number if you're more sedentary. To calculate your deficit, subtract 20% of that (alternatively you can just multiply your current bodyweight x 11-12, again use the lower number if you're less active).
That was all taken from Aadam's article + this article: https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/1200-calorie-diet/
Lacking patience is the usual culprit for yo-yo dieting. Are you planning on entering any bikini or physique competitions soon? If so, then more aggressive approaches are applicable and temporary. For lifelong health and comfort, unless you're planning on dying soon, take your time with achieving a healthy weight. I don't mean to sound morbidly blunt, but I'm using extreme examples because nothing is ever *that* extreme or necessary to get done as fast as possible.
I'm also going to refer you to listen to Sohee Lee on the mindset of many people that are starting to approach a diet for long-term goals as opposed to short-term shortcuts that don't really ingrain solid foundations for maintenance.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEa_zUVVhPA1 -
- As counterintuitive as it is: the leaner you are, the less dieting you need to do to continue fat loss with optimal hormone response; therefore, instead of extended periods of refeeds, more frequent, small refeed periods tend to work better.
- Diet breaks are different from refeeds. They are extended periods of maintenance feeding at your new lower weight to practice long-term weight loss habits. No one wants (or should want) to chronically diet forever or be on repetitive bulk/cut cycles. They also have the benefit of providing a psychological reprieve from the deleterious effects of dieting. Again, it's not a free pass to eat all the things, but you do get more wiggle room.
@anubis609
I haven't watched the video yet and haven't read through the rest of this thread yet... But I struggle with listening and reading these things and applying it to myself. For years I lost weight by eating less (while breastfeeding, I've lost weight 4 times in my life: after my original gain and then after each of my 3 kids. I'm back at the weight I seem to always get down to but no further) and exercising (some weights but not compound lifts)- I knew nothing about anything science related haha. Honestly, most of this stuff goes over my head.
I'm not lean. I'm probably around 30% bf. I lost ~25 pounds earlier this year, then stalled. I believe I was just trying to cut my calories too much and could no longer adhere to it. I did do a maintenance break in September.
Am I supposed to refeeds 2 days a week even though I'm not lean and have no plans on a sub 22-24% body fat or competing? How do I set my deficit up on the other days without dropping too low? What should my macros be? Would 6 weeks of deficit, 2 weeks of maintenance be a good cycle plan?
@Luna3386 - Without you needing to go to deep into the science, I'm going to keep it simple. If you have fat to lose, aim for fat loss with a reasonable deficit and train to support your diet. Have a day or two in the week to have a maintenance day (maintenance based on your weight), and yes you can be on that style of deficit planning for 6 weeks and maintain your new lower weight for about 2 weeks and do it again.
Mind you, your deficit calories do not need to be very low in the first place. Aggressive dieting has its place, but for lifelong sanity and health, you do not need to diet aggressively.
After you've set your calories, you set protein to ~1g/lb of bodyweight. Carbs and fat are going to be pure preference for your food choices. You can either have higher carbs and lower fat, or you can have higher fat and lower carbs, or you can have a little bit of both. No matter what, those macros are going to fit into your calculated deficit.
Everything I've just said is the synopsis of this humorous but accurately written article by Aadam Ali. It's not science deep and it's not written for people in the industry. It's for everyone: http://physiqonomics.com/fat-loss/
Why are you repeating what I keep telling people?
Oh, wait a second... maybe I am repeating what YOU have been saying!
--I quoted your post verbatim on my MFP wall <with attribution>
Ha. Thanks. We all end up saying the same thing in the end since it makes the most sense. Cheers! (☞゚∀゚)☞1 -
I am so ready for refeed weekend. Pity it's still a day away.
TGIF.4 -
Nony_Mouse wrote: »I am so ready for refeed weekend. Pity it's still a day away.
TGIF.
So much yes... lol.0 -
Nony_Mouse wrote: »I am so ready for refeed weekend. Pity it's still a day away.
TGIF.
So much yes... lol.
I either pushed too hard on deficit this week, am dog-tired from increased resistance on training yesterday, am dog-tired from looking at tiny bones in a basement the past two days, or am dog-tired cos ramping up to ovulation. Take your pick. The scale is not my friend today, but water weight, so meh.1 -
I pushed my deficit this week because not hungry. It started off because Monday I had a migraine and just kept going from there.
I had originally planned to do refeeds every two weeks, but I'm noticing that my workouts aren't quite what they should be.
I went shopping today and bought potatoes and cereal. I'm thinking a nice thick chowder with beans and potatoes.
I'm also thinking of taking a rest week next week and eating low calorie. This system of doing weekend refeeds has eliminated my need to exercise to blunt my hunger, so I want to see if resting my body will do me some good in terms of recovering some of my former oomph when it comes to training.
Bear in mind that when I say low calorie, it's not necessarily huge deficit, it's just that I create my deficit with a lot of movement/exercise. I'm thinking scaling back for a week is needed because I haven't really taken a recovery day (relative to my needs) in forever.4 -
I am definitely doing rest day today. My recent calorie burn alone tells me I haven't had a decent one for awhile. This will be helped by the crappy weather. So, enough steps not to starve/still be able to hit protein, yoga, yoga, yoga after work.2
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I don’t know if it is because I am in a healthy weight range from start to finish but both times I’ve ended up in the “oh bah my pants are too tight “ realm and needed to count calories to lose 15 pounds, the weight comes off exactly as expected on the calories I eat, for the entirety of the journey. I don’t feel starving (a bit hungry some days). I don’t stop losing (yes it fluctuates but the trend is down). I haven’t had to refeed or take a diet break and I think it would slow down the process when I’m already losing in a healthy fashion. I don’t work out all that often other than my yoga classes, but when I do go to a body combat class or take a 4 hour hike I find that my performance has much more to do with what I have eaten that day then how my deficit is as a whole. I can certainly see from a mental stand point how you would want to if you start to feel miserable. But from personal experience it isn’t an absolute for every person. Am I wrong in this? Or do you just all firmly believe it because it has worked for you? Or is it simply because I’m not over or under weight? ~not science just my opinion~1
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maggibailey wrote: »I don’t know if it is because I am in a healthy weight range from start to finish but both times I’ve ended up in the “oh bah my pants are too tight “ realm and needed to count calories to lose 15 pounds, the weight comes off exactly as expected on the calories I eat, for the entirety of the journey. I don’t feel starving (a bit hungry some days). I don’t stop losing (yes it fluctuates but the trend is down). I haven’t had to refeed or take a diet break and I think it would slow down the process when I’m already losing in a healthy fashion. I don’t work out all that often other than my yoga classes, but when I do go to a body combat class or take a 4 hour hike I find that my performance has much more to do with what I have eaten that day then how my deficit is as a whole. I can certainly see from a mental stand point how you would want to if you start to feel miserable. But from personal experience it isn’t an absolute for every person. Am I wrong in this? Or do you just all firmly believe it because it has worked for you? Or is it simply because I’m not over or under weight? ~not science just my opinion~
I suspect it's because you really didn't have a lot to lose, and presumably did it at a sensible deficit. If your weight loss is consistent, you're not getting raging hunger issues, and your performance isn't affected, then no, you probably don't need to worry about diet breaks.
Earlier this year I needed to drop about 6 kg to get back to goal after several months of slow gain. Sailed through. Then winter and a knee injury combined to regain a few kg of that. For whatever reason, way tougher starting at a lower weight to get that off again.7 -
Good to know. I’d hate to complicate things further than they need to be! So f it’s working I’ll just keep doing it till it doesn’t2
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maggibailey wrote: »I don’t know if it is because I am in a healthy weight range from start to finish but both times I’ve ended up in the “oh bah my pants are too tight “ realm and needed to count calories to lose 15 pounds, the weight comes off exactly as expected on the calories I eat, for the entirety of the journey. I don’t feel starving (a bit hungry some days). I don’t stop losing (yes it fluctuates but the trend is down). I haven’t had to refeed or take a diet break and I think it would slow down the process when I’m already losing in a healthy fashion. I don’t work out all that often other than my yoga classes, but when I do go to a body combat class or take a 4 hour hike I find that my performance has much more to do with what I have eaten that day then how my deficit is as a whole. I can certainly see from a mental stand point how you would want to if you start to feel miserable. But from personal experience it isn’t an absolute for every person. Am I wrong in this? Or do you just all firmly believe it because it has worked for you? Or is it simply because I’m not over or under weight? ~not science just my opinion~
I mean this with as much positivity as possible when I say that you are part of the metabolic spectrum most people envy with fervid spite. Lol. In other words, you are the "ideal" in terms of hunger and satiety signaling, tracking calories and energy works to your favor in all aspects of thermodynamic and mathematical balance.
Truly, none of this would or should apply to you in the sense that you are absolutely a representation of the end result we're all attaining to be. The concept of refeeds/diet breaks/frequent maintenance is more designed to be implemented in the chronic/long-term/stringent dieter that has either a long way to go in terms of body fat or has such a concise plan to achieve their "perfect" body composition.
Be proud of where you are and no need to question it. I can only speak for myself, and to restate, I've come from morbid obesity to a level of leanness and athletic fitness that's now along the lines of chasing a highly unattainable goal. I'm very well aware of this and cognizant of what appears to be futility, but is actually a constant drive to remain active and mindfully healthy. Basically, I use my problems in a positive way10 -
maggibailey wrote: »I don’t know if it is because I am in a healthy weight range from start to finish but both times I’ve ended up in the “oh bah my pants are too tight “ realm and needed to count calories to lose 15 pounds, the weight comes off exactly as expected on the calories I eat, for the entirety of the journey. I don’t feel starving (a bit hungry some days). I don’t stop losing (yes it fluctuates but the trend is down). I haven’t had to refeed or take a diet break and I think it would slow down the process when I’m already losing in a healthy fashion. I don’t work out all that often other than my yoga classes, but when I do go to a body combat class or take a 4 hour hike I find that my performance has much more to do with what I have eaten that day then how my deficit is as a whole. I can certainly see from a mental stand point how you would want to if you start to feel miserable. But from personal experience it isn’t an absolute for every person. Am I wrong in this? Or do you just all firmly believe it because it has worked for you? Or is it simply because I’m not over or under weight? ~not science just my opinion~
I mean this with as much positivity as possible when I say that you are part of the metabolic spectrum most people envy with fervid spite. Lol. In other words, you are the "ideal" in terms of hunger and satiety signaling, tracking calories and energy works to your favor in all aspects of thermodynamic and mathematical balance.
Truly, none of this would or should apply to you in the sense that you are absolutely a representation of the end result we're all attaining to be. The concept of refeeds/diet breaks/frequent maintenance is more designed to be implemented in the chronic/long-term/stringent dieter that has either a long way to go in terms of body fat or has such a concise plan to achieve their "perfect" body composition.
Be proud of where you are and no need to question it. I can only speak for myself, and to restate, I've come from morbid obesity to a level of leanness and athletic fitness that's now along the lines of chasing a highly unattainable goal. I'm very well aware of this and cognizant of what appears to be futility, but is actually a constant drive to remain active and mindfully healthy. Basically, I use my problems in a positive way
Yeah, like with anything else everybody reacts differently to stressors. There may be something else that throws you for a loop but maintaining a deficit isn't one, mentally or physically. So yeah, you're one of the lucky ones, enjoy it!0 -
I too am looking forward to refeed, my first proper one on the new 5/2 schedule (can I just say, this version of 5:2 is much more fun than that other one). I have 500 calories to find to complete my deficit which is totally achievable tomorrow then into the weekend with a slight overfeed logged on both days, though I may tweak the menu, I just wanted to ballpark all of my numbers. If I get in more exercise and decent steps (on my stepper because screw going anywhere at the weekend, no danke for this social recluse) on my mini stepper I can have even more eats over the weekend, yahoo!5
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maggibailey wrote: »Good to know. I’d hate to complicate things further than they need to be! So f it’s working I’ll just keep doing it till it doesn’t
Yep, carry on as you are
Interestingly, that period where I lost easily back to goal I was, for the most part, not particularly active. I had a couple of weeks late in the piece where I was hella active and hella stressed because I was moving house. So, packing, moving boxes every night (loading my car up to take them to work, which was closer to my new house to store until move day), busy, busy, busy and plain forgetting to eat (tis what I do when I'm really stressed). I deliberately did a week at maintenance once I'd moved, because I knew I'd been undereating, and also because that's my ED danger territory. Once I'm in a cycle of undereating, it's way too easy to stay there, so I hauled my butt out of it.6 -
Nony_Mouse wrote: »maggibailey wrote: »Good to know. I’d hate to complicate things further than they need to be! So f it’s working I’ll just keep doing it till it doesn’t
Yep, carry on as you are
Interestingly, that period where I lost easily back to goal I was, for the most part, not particularly active. I had a couple of weeks late in the piece where I was hella active and hella stressed because I was moving house. So, packing, moving boxes every night (loading my car up to take them to work, which was closer to my new house to store until move day), busy, busy, busy and plain forgetting to eat (tis what I do when I'm really stressed). I deliberately did a week at maintenance once I'd moved, because I knew I'd been undereating, and also because that's my ED danger territory. Once I'm in a cycle of undereating, it's way too easy to stay there, so I hauled my butt out of it.
My experience too. I got lazy at the start of the year and it was the most I've lost in a three month period in over a year. But my NEAT tanked so the losses weren't actually as large as they should have been. Pick your battles really.2 -
@anubis609 oh I don’t know about all that lol! From my calculations I maintain at a lower level than most people and that does mean I’m always saying no to some delicious baked good I’d rather be eating (or even not so delicious I’m not too picky I just love baked goods!). I have been giving some thought to trying for the “unattainable “ body type. I just haven’t signed up for what I know from the past is a very time consuming project. So I will definitely reread this thread it I start down that path! And my ease at maintenance might be enviable but I am in awe of people like you1
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maggibailey wrote: »I don’t know if it is because I am in a healthy weight range from start to finish but both times I’ve ended up in the “oh bah my pants are too tight “ realm and needed to count calories to lose 15 pounds, the weight comes off exactly as expected on the calories I eat, for the entirety of the journey. I don’t feel starving (a bit hungry some days). I don’t stop losing (yes it fluctuates but the trend is down). I haven’t had to refeed or take a diet break and I think it would slow down the process when I’m already losing in a healthy fashion. I don’t work out all that often other than my yoga classes, but when I do go to a body combat class or take a 4 hour hike I find that my performance has much more to do with what I have eaten that day then how my deficit is as a whole. I can certainly see from a mental stand point how you would want to if you start to feel miserable. But from personal experience it isn’t an absolute for every person. Am I wrong in this? Or do you just all firmly believe it because it has worked for you? Or is it simply because I’m not over or under weight? ~not science just my opinion~
You can be an outlier such that the research study results don't apply as much to you.
I'll also say that a deficit based on what amounts to a great amount of fat burn only doesn't seem as stressful to the body when it's reasonable, which it sounds like yours is when done.
And the odd intense workout is just balanced out through other days.
Deficit effects recovery from an exercise standpoint, as you've noticed you can always time eating to have a good workout if recovered - if not doing anything that requires much recovery though - then it's not going to be noticed or negative that much at all, to accomplish the same workout tomorrow or next day.
So less stress there.
The reasonable deficit, and genetically not being the same as what the research study points out, are likely reasons not as effected.
But it's one of those things - no one knows except through experience - and since you likely wouldn't know while having the negative effects, except to compare when not having them - it would be better to be on the safe side, not attempt to find that line and cross over it into negative territory.
Unless a pro making money off their body, and assistance with their training/diet - just not worth it.2 -
@heybales I would totally agree, like I tell new moms all the time “you don’t even know you are sleep deprived until you stop being sleep deprived”. I feel better and more energized right now 10 pounds below my start weight than I did before. But that may be just due to less calorie dense low nutrient foods and better sleep. Imagine how fabulous I’d be feeling if I tried a refeed? . I am headed to California for the weekend maybe I’ll just eat at maintenance for the two days and see.4
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maggibailey wrote: »I don’t know if it is because I am in a healthy weight range from start to finish but both times I’ve ended up in the “oh bah my pants are too tight “ realm and needed to count calories to lose 15 pounds, the weight comes off exactly as expected on the calories I eat, for the entirety of the journey. I don’t feel starving (a bit hungry some days). I don’t stop losing (yes it fluctuates but the trend is down). I haven’t had to refeed or take a diet break and I think it would slow down the process when I’m already losing in a healthy fashion. I don’t work out all that often other than my yoga classes, but when I do go to a body combat class or take a 4 hour hike I find that my performance has much more to do with what I have eaten that day then how my deficit is as a whole. I can certainly see from a mental stand point how you would want to if you start to feel miserable. But from personal experience it isn’t an absolute for every person. Am I wrong in this? Or do you just all firmly believe it because it has worked for you? Or is it simply because I’m not over or under weight? ~not science just my opinion~
Totally agree with what the others have said. If it's working for you, don't change anything!!
I'm similar in many ways to you. I've never been overweight in my entire life (except pregnancy), always around 125 -130 pounds (BMI 20-ish) since I was a teen. I don't have a small frame and am not petite (just your medium frame, average Joe really) but I wanted to be 10-12 pounds lighter for a sport I'm keen in. I've always managed to lose that weight in the past within 2 months by cutting calories and intensifying training (the classic under-feeding and over-training type of regime). When it's over, my weight drifts back up and I've always been fine with that because I'm seriously a lazy bum and do not have any desire to eat less and do intense training 12 months of the year to maintain below 115.
Well... nothing worked this year! Stress was probably a huge factor as my job was simply awful... and I just wasn't able to succeed in anything so this thread came at a very ideal time for me because it's given me other options to try. (I would say though I was close to goal already when I did the refeed, if not, I would have continued pushing on).4 -
maggibailey wrote: »@anubis609 oh I don’t know about all that lol! From my calculations I maintain at a lower level than most people and that does mean I’m always saying no to some delicious baked good I’d rather be eating (or even not so delicious I’m not too picky I just love baked goods!). I have been giving some thought to trying for the “unattainable “ body type. I just haven’t signed up for what I know from the past is a very time consuming project. So I will definitely reread this thread it I start down that path! And my ease at maintenance might be enviable but I am in awe of people like you
Lol thank you. You might maintain at a lower level in relation to your activity level, but considering you actually are willing to say no to your favorite types of food, as opposed to being openly accepting to a level of detriment, I would attribute it to having an innate awareness that some of us may have lost somewhere along the way. Of course, you could very well be going through a series of mental checks and balances that result in turning food away, but the overarching end result is that you've successfully maintained yourself without going through extremes.
I'm not sure what your experience level is with training, but I would venture to guess that you may actually be able to attain the unattainable body type given your circumstances, and it may not even need to take much time. In my case, without skin removal surgery, I couldn't naturally attain the level of visual aesthetics I'm actually pushing for haha.2 -
@maybyn yeah I am thinking it’s like weigh and measure all your food. If your weight loss stops maybe it’s time to tighten up! So I’ll just keep plowing forward as I’m doing now. I am jealous of having a sport you love that makes you want to sport!0
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maggibailey wrote: »@anubis609 oh I don’t know about all that lol! From my calculations I maintain at a lower level than most people and that does mean I’m always saying no to some delicious baked good I’d rather be eating (or even not so delicious I’m not too picky I just love baked goods!). I have been giving some thought to trying for the “unattainable “ body type. I just haven’t signed up for what I know from the past is a very time consuming project. So I will definitely reread this thread it I start down that path! And my ease at maintenance might be enviable but I am in awe of people like you
Im assuming you mean competing with this statement? I apologise if not! But, if so, I would honestly say that achieving the "unattainable" is not all that great, and comes with many negatives..
If I could go back in time, I would tell myself to not start competing in bodybuilding, and to just enjoy being happy with the physique I had (which I was proud of, and had confidence in, after losing 25kgs and getting in to weight training).
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@Luna3386
The rough and easy way to calculate your maintenance is to multiply your current bodyweight x 14-16.. use the lower number if you're more sedentary. To calculate your deficit, subtract 20% of that (alternatively you can just multiply your current bodyweight x 11-12, again use the lower number if you're less active).
That was all taken from Aadam's article + this article: https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/1200-calorie-diet/
Lacking patience is the usual culprit for yo-yo dieting. Are you planning on entering any bikini or physique competitions soon? If so, then more aggressive approaches are applicable and temporary. For lifelong health and comfort, unless you're planning on dying soon, take your time with achieving a healthy weight. I don't mean to sound morbidly blunt, but I'm using extreme examples because nothing is ever *that* extreme or necessary to get done as fast as possible.
I'm also going to refer you to listen to Sohee Lee on the mindset of many people that are starting to approach a diet for long-term goals as opposed to short-term shortcuts that don't really ingrain solid foundations for maintenance.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEa_zUVVhPA
Thanks. I had missed the maintenance part of that article.
I've basically done this whole thing backwards. When I could have made the most progress I didn't because of my lack of knowledge and patience... Which has kind of led to more impatience. Ahh. Well, I suppose it's never too late to change my mindset but I'm just going to have to be patient on the physique goals. I've got no plans to compete so the extra slow but permanent route for me.2 -
maggibailey wrote: »@maybyn yeah I am thinking it’s like weigh and measure all your food. If your weight loss stops maybe it’s time to tighten up! So I’ll just keep plowing forward as I’m doing now. I am jealous of having a sport you love that makes you want to sport!
Yep, whatever works for weight management in a healthy way and try not to be impatient. Like what @anubis609 mentioned earlier.
The risk of changing things up is if what you're trying doesn't work as expected, you might become anxious and start looking at more aggressive or different diets which may then lead you down a very slippery slope of getting into extremes and developing an unhealthy relationship with food. (A general 'you', not saying you in particular).3 -
@Luna3386
The rough and easy way to calculate your maintenance is to multiply your current bodyweight x 14-16.. use the lower number if you're more sedentary. To calculate your deficit, subtract 20% of that (alternatively you can just multiply your current bodyweight x 11-12, again use the lower number if you're less active).
That was all taken from Aadam's article + this article: https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/1200-calorie-diet/
Lacking patience is the usual culprit for yo-yo dieting. Are you planning on entering any bikini or physique competitions soon? If so, then more aggressive approaches are applicable and temporary. For lifelong health and comfort, unless you're planning on dying soon, take your time with achieving a healthy weight. I don't mean to sound morbidly blunt, but I'm using extreme examples because nothing is ever *that* extreme or necessary to get done as fast as possible.
I'm also going to refer you to listen to Sohee Lee on the mindset of many people that are starting to approach a diet for long-term goals as opposed to short-term shortcuts that don't really ingrain solid foundations for maintenance.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEa_zUVVhPA
Thanks. I had missed the maintenance part of that article.
I've basically done this whole thing backwards. When I could have made the most progress I didn't because of my lack of knowledge and patience... Which has kind of led to more impatience. Ahh. Well, I suppose it's never too late to change my mindset but I'm just going to have to be patient on the physique goals. I've got no plans to compete so the extra slow but permanent route for me.
Many of us have done it backwards as well. You're definitely not alone.. in fact, that's why this thread exists. Regardless if you've been at the literal grindstone of dieting down to the point you're tanking your hormone response, are currently in the throes of being hangry, just [re]starting your weight loss, or anywhere in between trying to seek sanity, the links and responses in this thread hopefully provide evidence that not a single person here needs to be so restrictive/aggressive/obsessed/stressed about their approach.
I've been up and down that entire spectrum, and while I can't say it's been completely effortless, it has been productive in learning many things about my own body as fitness professionals describe it within their podcast interviews, psychologically and physiologically. The body will adapt to almost anything you throw at it, but it will also react in kind somewhere down the line; so throw good things at it, give yourself attainable and realistic goals, and ease into it step by step instead of jumping down a flight of metaphorical stairs9 -
@Luna3386
The rough and easy way to calculate your maintenance is to multiply your current bodyweight x 14-16.. use the lower number if you're more sedentary. To calculate your deficit, subtract 20% of that (alternatively you can just multiply your current bodyweight x 11-12, again use the lower number if you're less active).
That was all taken from Aadam's article + this article: https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/1200-calorie-diet/
Lacking patience is the usual culprit for yo-yo dieting. Are you planning on entering any bikini or physique competitions soon? If so, then more aggressive approaches are applicable and temporary. For lifelong health and comfort, unless you're planning on dying soon, take your time with achieving a healthy weight. I don't mean to sound morbidly blunt, but I'm using extreme examples because nothing is ever *that* extreme or necessary to get done as fast as possible.
I'm also going to refer you to listen to Sohee Lee on the mindset of many people that are starting to approach a diet for long-term goals as opposed to short-term shortcuts that don't really ingrain solid foundations for maintenance.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEa_zUVVhPA
Thanks. I had missed the maintenance part of that article.
I've basically done this whole thing backwards. When I could have made the most progress I didn't because of my lack of knowledge and patience... Which has kind of led to more impatience. Ahh. Well, I suppose it's never too late to change my mindset but I'm just going to have to be patient on the physique goals. I've got no plans to compete so the extra slow but permanent route for me.
Many of us have done it backwards as well. You're definitely not alone.. in fact, that's why this thread exists. Regardless if you've been at the literal grindstone of dieting down to the point you're tanking your hormone response, are currently in the throes of being hangry, just [re]starting your weight loss, or anywhere in between trying to seek sanity, the links and responses in this thread hopefully provide evidence that not a single person here needs to be so restrictive/aggressive/obsessed/stressed about their approach.
I've been up and down that entire spectrum, and while I can't say it's been completely effortless, it has been productive in learning many things about my own body as fitness professionals describe it within their podcast interviews, psychologically and physiologically. The body will adapt to almost anything you throw at it, but it will also react in kind somewhere down the line; so throw good things at it, give yourself attainable and realistic goals, and ease into it step by step instead of jumping down a flight of metaphorical stairs
To add from my own experience. I lot of what we see in success stories here and all over the place is people who have lost down to goal in short spaces of time (relative to goal). My first year wasn't a struggle at all, I lost my goal of 1lb per week on average by the end of the year.
And then..........I'm 18 months later and have "only" lost 20lbs with a few regains, nothing major, just Christmas and holidays when I expected it. There are a lot of people who would have thrown in the towel because it's just taken so long and is disheartening. Going weeks on end with no scale movement, if you don't know the why's and what fors, is stress inducing in itself which just further compounds the problem.
Of course I want to get there in as short a space of time as is sensible but sometimes it's just not as simple as that. The bonus is that I have recomped by accident along the way so I'm hoping that my hoped for hanging out at the upper end of healthy BMI is totally going to be in line with my aesthetic goals. I am tantalisingly close to start seeing what lies beneath. And I am just basically on an adventure of weight loss psychology!
It's also interesting how we move the goalposts. I was saying this elsewhere, if I hadn't got so into strength training/exercise in general I would probably happily stay where I am now. I am within a healthy body fat range for a female and my waist is way within healthy range but now? I want to get leaner and meaner! Which means being smarter at this stage with less than 20lbs (hopefully) to lose.7 -
That was wordier than I planned!3
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I'm really good at jumping down stairs tho lol.
As much as I ate to say it these past few years haven't been a waste. I've learned so much. I am more patient than I used to be, believe it or not.
And it summarizes life well: we can't go back. We do the best we can until we know better. I hope I can use what I've learned to help others, even if it's just my children. My parents couldn't because they didn't know and they are still in their lifelong yo yo dieting and food fads phase. I can do better now.
Also, @anubis609 thanks for the sohee video. Excellent! I'm going to share with my feed. I used to follow her on Instagram until I got fed up and unfollowed all fitness accounts (probably need that living in shades of grey advice she gave )3 -
Nony_Mouse wrote: »I am so ready for refeed weekend. Pity it's still a day away.
TGIF.
I know the feeling. Just finished week one of PHAT and man do i need a rest.. now i can see why they suggest not doing this program in a deficit.2 -
Just home from my day in the city, stuck in a basement looking at tiny bits of broken bone, and dear glob I'm hungry! Just scoffed a protein nut bar, because it was that or have dinner at 4.30 in the afternoon . So I will be going for a lovely walk in the misty rain, because I refuse to give up my evening milkshake. Priorities.4
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