Life’s lessons/rules and helpful hints

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  • Unfairman
    Unfairman Posts: 16 Member
    "Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you've got a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies-"God damn it, you've got to be kind."

    - Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    Don't trust anyone. Everyone is always willing to give up your secrets.

    You tell me this now that I'm letting people climb over my wall. There has to be good people out there right? Right?!!!! :/
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
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    i feel inspired to go make some really bad decisions

    good evening!
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    Don't trust anyone. Everyone is always willing to give up your secrets.

    Sadly true. Most people are out for themselves.
    Key word is "most". Some of us take care of the people we let in.
  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    be the experiential consumer.
  • optionsguy88
    optionsguy88 Posts: 325 Member
    "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take"

    I read this as "You'll get missed by 100% of the shots you don't take", which is also true. No one deserves to be treated like a verbal or physical punching bag and when you stop taking that kind of treatment, you stop receiving that kind of treatment
  • Lisa8823168
    Lisa8823168 Posts: 139 Member
    My parents were farmers who went to war in WWII. I am a baby boomer who had children later in life...Not yet a grandma but with a middle school and high school child at home. The lessons taught to me by that disappearing generation of my parents have been so rewarding to my life that I instill them into my children:

    You are who you choose to be...responsibility is not an option...nothing in life is free and a work ethic will get you through everything. In today's society that means I teach my children that there are NO ENTITLEMENTS.

    They may not seem all cum-bi-ah but neither is life. Living with these principals prepare you for anything, give you the confidence to achieve anything and the peace of mind to enjoy life. It is sort of like math...you cant multiply and divide if you never embrace the fundamentals of adding and subtracting.
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  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Don't trust anyone. Everyone is always willing to give up your secrets.

    Not everyone. B)
  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    happimess1 wrote: »
    practice self compassion every day. Learn to laugh at your shortcomings. Dream big but at the same time set realistic short time goals. Face your fears every now and then.

    ^^ this and eat your vegetables
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  • Westschmeis
    Westschmeis Posts: 350 Member
    We don't do, unless we can overdo!
    (Family motto)

    Operate on the principal of "one free bite" assuming that everyone is positive and working with you when first meeting them. After the first bite never give that person an opportunity to get in a second bite. Never
    Applies to both dogs and humans.
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  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
    Learn to love without expectation.
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Learn to love without expectation.

    That is truly the only way.