How to approach girls in the gym???
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bring them big piece of cake1
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Gently remove one of her earbuds and, with your best morning radio voice, say, "Hey there, you wanna go out for fries and shakes?"3
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I put on my RBF and purposely don't make eye contact when I'm at the gym. I don't want some dude up in my face when I'm all sweaty and funky. That *kitten* ain't sexy.9
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Avocado_AS5 wrote: »I put on my RBF and purposely don't make eye contact when I'm at the gym. I don't want some dude up in my face when I'm all sweaty and funky. That *kitten* ain't sexy.
Haha yeah I noticed when girls have a hat on and ear buds that means it a no go3 -
gym is a place for people like me to shed the access fat...not watch people chew the fat0
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Motorsheen wrote: »in the gym... no.
instead
just wait for them in the parking lot
inside their car
in the backseat.
Remember when I said...be cool? Yeah, well this is super not cool....
wait.
okay, now I'm confused ( you know, more than normal).
anyway, is it still considered stalking if you don't get caught?
.... I'm asking for a friend.6 -
Avocado_AS5 wrote: »I put on my RBF and purposely don't make eye contact when I'm at the gym. I don't want some dude up in my face when I'm all sweaty and funky. That *kitten* ain't sexy.
Haha yeah I noticed when girls have a hat on and ear buds that means it a no go they're just playing 'hard to get' and you really, really need to up your game.
fyp
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Fatmansyndrome wrote: »gym is a place for people like me to shed the access fat...not watch people chew the fat
I dunno, I train hard (real hard)... but when it's over, it's good to move out of the way and socialize a lil' too.
The key here is: It's fine to socialize, just don't bother others who are training.4 -
With candy and an old van with blacked out windows6
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Don’t.
Aside from the fact that I look like a sweaty bum, I’m there to work out.
If you’re really that interested, hang around til the person is done and shoot your shot then.2 -
I'm siding with the minority. Even if I'm not interested in the guy, I take it as a compliment that they say something (provided it's not creepy).
Probably is best to wait till they're done their workout though, like others said. Nothing more annoying than being in the zone and someone interrupts! If my headphones are in, don't talk to me...unless you're dying or something.1 -
So, say you flirt with a chick at the gym. Things go well and you go on a few dates or hook up. Eventually, things fizzle or end badly. Then one of you has to quit the gym as to avoid seeing the other. That would be sad to quit your happy place.
Make sure she's worth it bro.18 -
Motorsheen wrote: »in the gym... no.
instead
just wait for them in the parking lot
inside their car
in the backseat.
Remember when I said...be cool? Yeah, well this is super not cool....
Well.... if you don't ask, the answer is "no".0 -
laprimaJenny wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »in the gym... no.
instead
just wait for them in the parking lot
inside their car
in the backseat.
I’ve had a strange man approach me once outside a Tim Hortons. I was on the phone with my mother and he knocked on my window. He said “your gorgeous, can I have your number?” Obviously, since I was freaked out I declined and drove away quickly.
Point is, it could happen.
that poor, strange guy was a fool.
did he really think that he could compete with Tim Horton?3 -
Smile and say hi.
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Do not and ha ha.
To that I'll add Dumb *kitten*.1 -
I'm going to add to my previous comment ... after seeing how many people are telling you not to do it. (I find that kinda depressing actually).
Life is way too short. Take risks and take chances. Talk to the girl with resting *kitten* face if you really want to, because hey, maybe she's wishing you would. Maybe she's had her eye on you for the past month. On the other hand...maybe she hasn't, and she'll laugh in your face...but who the hell cares? You won't know unless you try...you don't get anywhere in life unless you try. I think most people on these forums are well aware of that.17 -
I'm confused.... most of you haven't even said a good way to approach girls in the gym. OP asked a question.
For example:
You could say... “Well, since we keep running into each other by accident, why don’t we run into each other on purpose for once over a cup of coffee?”
I'm sure that's something...
If that doesn't work try these:
Do you have any tape? Because I'm totally ripped.
This elliptical isn't the only thing getting my heart rate up.
I got stopped by a police officer on the way here. He told me it was illegal to carry these guns in public.
Do you have a band-aid? Because I'm cut!17 -
Usually the answer is absolutely not.
I'm married at this point- but I have a hard and fast "don't date people at the gym" because when it goes south- then the gym is weird- and I don't want my gym to be weird- ever.
Being said- I have had some great conversations- and just chilling and chatting- that starts with the head nod. Just start slow.5
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