After a bad break up he wants to talk face to face

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  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    If you love him and miss him why would you not meet him?

    Idkfol i thin he won’t have anything good to say
  • aeloine
    aeloine Posts: 2,163 Member
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    Did he cheat tho?
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    Did things change after you bought tickets to go to the amusement park on V- day ?

    They changed a week after
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    aeloine wrote: »
    Did he cheat tho?

    I don’t think so but he was being distant for a week so i called him out
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Yeah but why does he need to see me to say that lol

    Why do you keep apologizing to him? He broke up with you?! Are you Canadian?

    Because i accused him of cheating and i was clingy

    And he broke up with you because of that? Instead of talking and try to fix things? When you truly love someone you try to work on things instead of throwing it out. That's just my opinion...

    Well this wasn’t my first time and i broke up with him for going a day without talking to me
  • aeloine
    aeloine Posts: 2,163 Member
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    dniania wrote: »
    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Yeah but why does he need to see me to say that lol

    Why do you keep apologizing to him? He broke up with you?! Are you Canadian?

    Because i accused him of cheating and i was clingy

    And he broke up with you because of that? Instead of talking and try to fix things? When you truly love someone you try to work on things instead of throwing it out. That's just my opinion...

    Well this wasn’t my first time and i broke up with him for going a day without talking to me

    You need to chill, girl friend. Be a little less available.

    If he wants to be with you, he'll reach out. Just cool your jets and focus on yourself. Let him see what he's missing.
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    aeloine wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Yeah but why does he need to see me to say that lol

    Why do you keep apologizing to him? He broke up with you?! Are you Canadian?

    Because i accused him of cheating and i was clingy

    And he broke up with you because of that? Instead of talking and try to fix things? When you truly love someone you try to work on things instead of throwing it out. That's just my opinion...

    Well this wasn’t my first time and i broke up with him for going a day without talking to me

    You need to chill, girl friend. Be a little less available.

    If he wants to be with you, he'll reach out. Just cool your jets and focus on yourself. Let him see what he's missing.

    Well he doesn’t normally go a day without speaking to him and i told him about doing that
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Maid_of_Mischief1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    Yeah but why does he need to see me to say that lol

    Why do you keep apologizing to him? He broke up with you?! Are you Canadian?

    Because i accused him of cheating and i was clingy

    ok .. now we can understand what the problem is ...

    Why do you feel he was cheating on you ?
    Something most of sparked some doubts on him for you to question him .

    He got distant a few days so i thought something was up
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    You need to work on yourself and not be so needy .
    That is a huge turn off on people .
    You need to become more secure with yourself that you don't need to talk to him everyday and be ok with that .
    It's emotionally draining to always feel like you have to " babysit" you're partners feeling .

    Insecurity will always destroy anything you have good with someone .

    I’m trying i really am!!
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    kam26001 wrote: »
    He called out of work because he woke up late? lol. Gurl, move on to the next one. He'll never make assistant manager at the Blockbuster Video.


    Lol :#

  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    marissafit06 wrote: »
    MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    If you love him and miss him why would you not meet him?

    He could be stringing her along or want some *kitten*.

    OP - no advice, but wanted to say you have beautiful hair.

    But how would we know that?

    Oh, I see your point. Fair and wise.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    OP might also be dating the wrong types of people who behave in ways that make it hard to feel secure.
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    SuperOrganism2 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    You need to work on yourself and not be so needy .
    That is a huge turn off on people .
    You need to become more secure with yourself that you don't need to talk to him everyday and be ok with that .
    It's emotionally draining to always feel like you have to " babysit" you're partners feeling .

    Insecurity will always destroy anything you have good with someone .

    I understand this.

    What if your partner is the one making you insecure?

    Give up? What if you don't want to give up?

    Then don't I guess.

    Every relationship is different. I don't blame people for riding their various roller coasters...I have my own.

    At least it's exciting. But, once you're *actually broken up*.

    Meh. Screw them.

    From what I gather in this case as every case is different .
    OP has insecurity issues way before her relationship with her now ex b/f .

    Op also admitted she is clingy and that can drive people away as well .

    Thanks for summing it up ! Lol

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