A married man lied to me?

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MrSith

pudgy1977 wrote: »

Let the games begin

I suggest ring toss

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urloved33

if he is cheating on her with you. he will cheat on you with someone else.

CaptainFantastic01

denny_mac wrote: »

I kinda wish someone would post something over the top inappropriate so this thread would come to an end.

How's that?

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jaycanchu

If they aren’t married, he can pick up and leave, and support his kids.
But if he’s just seeing you at work, he’s lying about you the relationship status as well

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KickassAmazon76

SimmisJessica wrote: »

lissbuff wrote: »

Your man has been cheating on his partner when she had not long had twins and they were still under 1 years of age. Yup - he's a total keeper!

Go you and your empathy with your fellow sisters!

I can imagine it now - she's stressed and sore and tired and feeding is a chore, getting dressed is something that happened in another life, she manages to get one down to sleep and the other starts crying - relations are the last thing on her mind, she needs support... and instead of giving her that support your man comes to you to be serviced.
To be honest, neither of you are coming out of this looking very good...

You see,I never considered that when he approached me.The reason why I believed him was ,I just couldn't fathom why would anyone do this.Perhaps I was just too trusting and naive with him.Over time it became clear that here was more to the story than he was telling me,based on his availability hence why i now feel bad about it and have to end it

Not trying to make excuses but that's ecxactly how I initially felt

Sadly, and luckily, you likely won't ever be that innocent again. Good luck trusting, it doesn't come easy.

Regardless... You can do this. Find that inner strength. Recognize that you are better than the behaviour you are participating in and end it. Yes, it'll hurt, but the longer you hold on, the worse it hurts.

And then don't let it happen again.

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KeepRunningFatboy

Stupid stuff like this is great to remind me to quit wasting precious moments of my life on the internet.

lessismoreohio

Very sorry to hear about the situation that you're in. Difficult place to be.

He's likely not going to leave the mother of his children, his home, his comfort zone, etc. You would be wise to end the relationship and move on. You'll look back on this in a year or two and realize leaving him was the right decision.

TheWeighsOfLife

I am confused, mostly because this is on myfitnesspal, and I've only ever read about health-related stuff on here... but that said (knowing it could be trolling), technically this is health related - it might be time to lose that extra weight you've got there (aka, that extra weight is HIM weighing on your mind/shoulders/back). Imagine how much lighter you'd feel not having to think about him or his situation at all, at all times. There are many men with young children who are divorced, or not married to their spouse that live in their own place and are still dedicated fathers. Those men are more ready for a committed and honest relationship with someone new. Sounds like this guy is not that person.

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Watching_The_Wheels

Definitely pursue it. It's doubtful that your standards will change at this point. In the event that he doesn't come around, there's always the rabbit in the pot option...

bob108819

smh

bob108819

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JohGniYph-c