A married man lied to me?

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  • XxQueenMxX
    XxQueenMxX Posts: 683 Member
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    XxQueenMxX wrote: »
    Is this real? Are u bored and just playing a jokes on us???
    Ok, if not. Then yes girl... you're the side chick *insert eye roll here*. If he really wanted a real relationship with u he would do all those things you mentioned he doesn't do, but most importantly HE WOULDN'T BE LIVING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.

    Sadly it is real...I want to end it but idk.I have fallen for him which makes it hard to walk away.If I could take it back I wouldn't have gotten involved in the first place.I hate what I've done to myself

    Cut him off stat!
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
    _Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    Technically not married? Well he's still technically an *kitten* and you'd be dumb to stick around, technically.

    What I meant was they are not married.They live together and their 2 kids

    Just stop.

    The only advice necessary here.

    K.I.S.S
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    Why don't you just show up to his house and ask him? They're just roommates he won't mind, maybe dress like an old lady and apply to be the nanny.

    lol
  • DomesticKat
    DomesticKat Posts: 565 Member
    He's married and cheating on his wife and a liar. Guys with a clean conscience don't sneak around with another woman on their lunch break. Also, think about yourself. Do you really think so lowly of yourself that the only man you think you can get is one like him? Why do you think you don't deserve more than that? He's nothing. Face the facts and move on. Don't dig yourself a deeper hole than you're already in.
  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,034 Member
    You do realize you’re not a helpless victim, right?

    HOMEWRECKER!

    Also really like the Mrs. Doubtfire idea.

    Seriously: Guy is a jerk and he’s making you a fool, doormat, hoor, and HOMEWRECKER. Seems like your best case scenario is ruining the lives of his kids and their mother so he can do the same to you eventually.

    Is that really what you want? I sense you’re a truly kind, caring, and intelligent person, so...

    jk

    But seriously, you can do better! I can tell you’re really a great person with a lot going for you. Don’t sell yourself short. You deserve the best! :)
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    Hey @TeacupsAndToning is this the lady with the sick kid?
  • DifferentView
    DifferentView Posts: 17,416 Member
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    ilfaith wrote: »
    He's not leaving her for you.
    They almost never do.
    And when they do,
    they turn around and do
    the exact same thing to you.

    'Almost' never do.

    ..... so you're telling her there's a chance?
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    ilfaith wrote: »
    He's not leaving her for you.
    They almost never do.
    And when they do,
    they turn around and do
    the exact same thing to you.

    'Almost' never do.

    ..... so you're telling her there's a chance?

    Stick it out OP, you got this
  • DifferentView
    DifferentView Posts: 17,416 Member
    SabotageinStilettos wrote: »
    I dunno. My husband left his wife for me and were pretty happy. Stick with him kid, you’ve got this.

    I would venture to say that you are the one in a million .
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    DifferentView wrote: »
    SabotageinStilettos wrote: »
    I dunno. My husband left his wife for me and were pretty happy. Stick with him kid, you’ve got this.

    I would venture to say that you are the one in a million .

    Stop being so negative

    https://youtu.be/VKbWF1jwMhE
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    SabotageinStilettos wrote: »
    DifferentView wrote: »
    SabotageinStilettos wrote: »
    I dunno. My husband left his wife for me and were pretty happy. Stick with him kid, you’ve got this.

    I would venture to say that you are the one in a million .

    I would venture to say that you don’t even know how accurate this statement is.

    Boy Howdy.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    Well he isn't technically married but he lives with the mother of his children and 2 kids.When we met he told me that he is the process of separating but is just trying to figure out what's best of their children.I believed him .

    We've been seeing each other for year and he still lives with her.He only see me during his work hours,he hasn't spend a night with me.He ignored valentine's day and he has never bought me any presents.He claims that he would want to spend more time with me it's hard because his kids are very young and require all his attention

    Lately I've been feeling bad about the situation I'm in.I wonder if they are still intimate and it's constantly in back of mind...wondering if they are still together.Did he lie to me?Why do I feel so bad

    Why not find some single guy who isn't a liar.

    They're out there, right?
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    Well he isn't technically married but he lives with the mother of his children and 2 kids.When we met he told me that he is the process of separating but is just trying to figure out what's best of their children.I believed him .

    We've been seeing each other for year and he still lives with her.He only see me during his work hours,he hasn't spend a night with me.He ignored valentine's day and he has never bought me any presents.He claims that he would want to spend more time with me it's hard because his kids are very young and require all his attention

    Lately I've been feeling bad about the situation I'm in.I wonder if they are still intimate and it's constantly in back of mind...wondering if they are still together.Did he lie to me?Why do I feel so bad

    Why not find some single guy who isn't a liar.

    They're out there, right?

    Nah, all men are lying trash
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    marissafit06 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    Well he isn't technically married but he lives with the mother of his children and 2 kids.When we met he told me that he is the process of separating but is just trying to figure out what's best of their children.I believed him .

    We've been seeing each other for year and he still lives with her.He only see me during his work hours,he hasn't spend a night with me.He ignored valentine's day and he has never bought me any presents.He claims that he would want to spend more time with me it's hard because his kids are very young and require all his attention

    Lately I've been feeling bad about the situation I'm in.I wonder if they are still intimate and it's constantly in back of mind...wondering if they are still together.Did he lie to me?Why do I feel so bad

    Why not find some single guy who isn't a liar.

    They're out there, right?

    Nah, all men are lying trash

    Wait.

    You say trash like it's a bad thing.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Sweetheart - he doesn't care enough about you to make time for you on a regular basis. I work 70+ hour weeks and still make time to see my kids and go to the gym. I wanted to slot in some rando peen I would find a way and could give him a night every now and then. Even if they aren't still together, he is treating you like *kitten* and you deserve more.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    marissafit06 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    Well he isn't technically married but he lives with the mother of his children and 2 kids.When we met he told me that he is the process of separating but is just trying to figure out what's best of their children.I believed him .

    We've been seeing each other for year and he still lives with her.He only see me during his work hours,he hasn't spend a night with me.He ignored valentine's day and he has never bought me any presents.He claims that he would want to spend more time with me it's hard because his kids are very young and require all his attention

    Lately I've been feeling bad about the situation I'm in.I wonder if they are still intimate and it's constantly in back of mind...wondering if they are still together.Did he lie to me?Why do I feel so bad

    Why not find some single guy who isn't a liar.

    They're out there, right?

    Nah, all men are lying trash

    Wait.

    You say trash like it's a bad thing.

    :wink:
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    SimmisJessica wrote: »
    marissafit06 wrote: »
    Sweetheart - he doesn't care enough about you to make time for you on a regular basis. I work 70+ hour weeks and still make time to see my kids and go to the gym. I wanted to slot in some rando peen I would find a way and could give him a night every now and then. Even if they aren't still together, he is treating you like *kitten* and you deserve more.

    Thinking back,he hasn't spend any real time with me.He claims it is hard because of his kids as they are under 2 years old

    Sounds like you know what needs to happen here, and yes it’s hard and sucks when you have feelings for someone. Even when you know it’s wrong. But listen to that voice in you’re head before you waste 14 years of your life w a man that will never change.

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