What makes a guy hesitant to show interest ?
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the same reasons youd be hesitant to show interest in him
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JaydedMiss wrote: »the same reasons youd be hesitant to show interest in him
Im not scared to show a guy i want him lol
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Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
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Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.5 -
Women are brutal these days.... Can't show interest without being called thirsty.... But oddly enough.... In real life ( not social media)... You don't even have to be clever.... Because people don't have communication skills anymore.... Much easier to meet people in person ...7
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spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?0 -
Some guys are shy....like me.....;)1
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spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
HOW did he show interest?
I've had guys show interest. Two dates and byebye. It's not unheard of.0 -
spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
he lost interest1 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him
Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.0 -
JaydedMiss wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
he lost interest
Sounds like it
Plus, who cares. Next up?
Life is too short for stupid games, especially in a really new relationship.5 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him
Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.
Despite all my rage...0 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him
Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.
Despite all my rage...
Because of it 1 -
4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »JaydedMiss wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
he lost interest
Sounds like it
Plus, who cares. Next up?
Life is too short for stupid games, especially in a really new relationship.
Yup.
I've learned not to have any expectations when it comes to men and dating. Maybe it's a bad thing. It's definitely a coping mechanism. But I haven't cried about a guy for longer than an hour or so for years. Besides a breakup after two year. I cried for like a day and a half.1 -
Maybe he’s shy, or where you see him, he feels it’s not the right place to bring it up.0
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spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.2 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him
Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.
Despite all my rage...
Because of it
Ah yes! Love it.0 -
activities1 wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.
So this is how you drop 'em in a day or two?!?
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »activities1 wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.
So this is how you drop 'em in a day or two?!?
*Noted
Only if he’s a real winner! Lol 0 -
activities1 wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.
Lol no0 -
A pet peeve of mine is guys who ask me what women want. Every woman is different and we are all very, very human.
Same thing here. How can every guy respond the same way? My guess he has history, something spooked him, and he backed off. But the only way you will know is if you ask him.2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..Maybe because he's just not that into you.
Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.
Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him
Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.
I'm confused. She's only been on two dates with him?
I suppose Im being presumptuous... OP, some context would be helpful.0 -
Was it online dating?0
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He's keeping his options open.0
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1. Shy. He'll get over that.
2. Smart. He's a wise man.3 -
I'm constantly told chemistry is a two way street.
Maybe, for OP's guy, he felt no chemistry and kept it movin'.0 -
Because men are damned if they do damned if they don't. If a man shows interest in a woman and she doesn't reciprocate those feelings he's a creep or a perv. God forbid the interest was in a co-worker, now it's sexual herasment.
Bloody hell it's just easier to stay celibate and play it safe and easy.
Of course, I never do anything safe and easy.
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Because men are damned if they do damned if they don't. If a man shows interest in a woman and she doesn't reciprocate those feelings he's a creep or a perv. God forbid the interest was in a co-worker, now it's sexual herasment.
Bloody hell it's just easier to stay celibate and play it safe and easy.
Of course, I never do anything safe and easy.
Who hurt you?5 -
Ask him.0
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Because men are damned if they do damned if they don't. If a man shows interest in a woman and she doesn't reciprocate those feelings he's a creep or a perv. God forbid the interest was in a co-worker, now it's sexual herasment.
Bloody hell it's just easier to stay celibate and play it safe and easy.
Of course, I never do anything safe and easy.
Who hurt you?
That's a story for another day or should I say another forum.
I've just seen it back fire on too many fellas.
Not to mention too many training sessions. Manly because of the guy in the White House. Oppps he did it again.....4
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