What makes a guy hesitant to show interest ?

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dniania
dniania Posts: 251 Member
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Why does he hesitate showing he likes you
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  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    the same reasons youd be hesitant to show interest in him :/

    Im not scared to show a guy i want him lol B)
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?
  • bojack3
    bojack3 Posts: 1,483 Member
    edited April 2018
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    Some guys are shy....like me.....;)
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,572 Member
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    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    HOW did he show interest?

    I've had guys show interest. Two dates and byebye. It's not unheard of.
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
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    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    he lost interest
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him ;)

    Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,572 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him ;)

    Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.

    Despite all my rage...
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him ;)

    Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.

    Despite all my rage...

    Because of it ;)
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,572 Member
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    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    he lost interest

    Sounds like it

    Plus, who cares. Next up?
    Life is too short for stupid games, especially in a really new relationship.

    Yup.

    I've learned not to have any expectations when it comes to men and dating. Maybe it's a bad thing. It's definitely a coping mechanism. But I haven't cried about a guy for longer than an hour or so for years. Besides a breakup after two year. I cried for like a day and a half.
  • jaycanchu
    jaycanchu Posts: 265 Member
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    Maybe he’s shy, or where you see him, he feels it’s not the right place to bring it up.
  • activities1
    activities1 Posts: 3,475 Member
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    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,572 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    perhaps he was interested and is no longer. this would be a good questions to ask him ;)

    Only been on a date or two? Do not ask him.

    Despite all my rage...

    Because of it ;)

    Ah yes! Love it.
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    activities1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.

    So this is how you drop 'em in a day or two?!?
    *Noted
  • activities1
    activities1 Posts: 3,475 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    activities1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.

    So this is how you drop 'em in a day or two?!?
    *Noted

    Only if he’s a real winner! Lol ;)
  • dniania
    dniania Posts: 251 Member
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    activities1 wrote: »
    dniania wrote: »
    spanish_liza wrote: »
    Cause he don’t like you Plain and simple
    If a guy likes you he’s making it known ..
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    Maybe because he's just not that into you.

    Guys who want me try to get in there. Guys who don't, don't call back.
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    if he's interested in you, he'll show he's interested in you.

    Okay but he showed interest and then backed off ?

    Well depends.. I’m not trying to be rude but did you have sex with him or show him the goods in pics? If so.. he got what he wanted and moved along.

    Lol no

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