How many guys are on here Looking to hook up?

fannrod1974
fannrod1974 Posts: 10 Member
edited November 26 in Introduce Yourself
Wow really I've been on here just about a week and I've gotten several messages with guys hitting on me. One I got last night was wanting me to do sexual pics. Like really? Wow. Just blows my mind. I don't maybe it doesn't bother other people but it really bothers me. I.am not on here for that. This isn't Tender or whatever. I'm on here to keep track of my calories not to look for a hook up. I've been with the same man for 12 year's and I'm happy. Would that bother anyone else? Or am I just taking it to serious??
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  • daniellewhiteliving
    daniellewhiteliving Posts: 67 Member
    Don't blame you..how inappropriate. I'm here just for advice and support.
  • fannrod1974
    fannrod1974 Posts: 10 Member
    It's kinda ridiculous. Just don't understand some people. There is all kinds of app's and websites for that kinda thing. This is not one of them. So I find it super creepy and sometimes like the message I got yesterday perverted too.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    its times like this i'm glad i get mistaken for a bloke!
  • daniellewhiteliving
    daniellewhiteliving Posts: 67 Member
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    its times like this i'm glad i get mistaken for a bloke!

    Ahh I thought you were a boy too:)
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    daniellewhiteliving wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    its times like this i'm glad i get mistaken for a bloke!

    Ahh I thought you were a boy too:)

    and everyone thinks my name is Travis too...
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    daniellewhiteliving wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    its times like this i'm glad i get mistaken for a bloke!

    Ahh I thought you were a boy too:)

    and everyone thinks my name is Travis too...

    I've seen you clarify at least one other time, and I still forget and assume you're male. And that your name is Travis :D
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    kpsyche wrote: »
    I have the same problem but it's women hitting on me. I think it must be my incredible good looks.

    :laugh:
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    I've been on here two years and didn't even realize this was happening. I've never done it to anyone, nor has anyone done it to me.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    kpsyche wrote: »
    I have the same problem but it's women hitting on me. I think it must be my incredible good looks.

    chicks likes a beard...
  • fannrod1974
    fannrod1974 Posts: 10 Member
    Absolutely. I've just deleted people and have not responded to some. Then I got the totally unappropriate message asking for sexual pics and it really just lit my fire. I can only put up with so much and sending a message like that was just crossing the line. I felt really disrespected. I don't flirt with anybody on here or message guys asking for dick pics. It just really upset me.
  • stanmann571
    stanmann571 Posts: 5,727 Member
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    its times like this i'm glad i get mistaken for a bloke!

    Doh! Not that it matters, but I don't think I had twigged to the fact that you weren't a bloke.

    LOL!


    Back to the subject at hand, I knew it was going on, but I didn't know it wasn't consensual. One of the reasons I block F&G and C-C. I'm here for good fitness discussion and to have my ideas challenged and my thinking improved.
  • musicfan68
    musicfan68 Posts: 1,143 Member
    I've noticed when people complain about it, it happens to people who have a profile pic of themselves. One of the reasons I won't post a profile pic.
  • hroderick
    hroderick Posts: 756 Member
    Nope. I just seeking motivation, inspiration, ideas on healthy living and to share the same. I'm transforming my reality and not living in fantasy.
  • 3M_TA3
    3M_TA3 Posts: 1,036 Member
    Well, this did not turn out as I had planned. (deletes nudes and pre-written pm's)
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I'm not here for that...but unfortunately, this is still the internet and their are all types on pretty much any internet forum.
  • rocketass99
    rocketass99 Posts: 537 Member
    just had someone hit me up yesterday. Don't like that stuff, I'm only here for one reason, support in my journey to health. I stick to the women as friends, mostly. Men will slap your *kitten*, women will save your *kitten*. No I'm not man hating I know lots of good guys.
  • LiftHeavyThings27105
    LiftHeavyThings27105 Posts: 2,086 Member
    edited May 2018
    cfgreear wrote: »
    Happily married man here with 2 kids. There are some creepers on here im sure. Im just getting friends and chatting with people cause im an IT guy in a server room with no social skills outside of the computer.

    Ha! I have been in IT for 21 years and feel like a fish out of water. None of my colleagues want to ever talk about anything except POV and FPG and whatever all that stuff is. It will be okay. You can learn social skills. The next time you see two or three dudes standing around, just go up and start talking to them. Practice makes perfect, right?

    And, you are indeed correct.....lots and lots of "lonely, needy men" in here.
  • MichelleWithMoxie
    MichelleWithMoxie Posts: 1,817 Member
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  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    OP, it happens to persons who let slip online that they are alive.

    Actually, it happens more to women than men.

    It does not happen from me.


  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    iv literally never had this. lol
  • jonathanthewlis
    jonathanthewlis Posts: 143 Member
    @_thisnameischosen_
  • Bohemianfit89
    Bohemianfit89 Posts: 15 Member
    This is my third time activating mfp. I enjoy the social aspect of this website. But it can get way out of hand. I'm sure it has destroyed partnerships. I don't even feel comfortable posting progress pictures. But that's the internet for you..a little bit of anonymity and people turn into freaks.
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