A mutual friend of my ex husband and me told me that he was telling folk I'd put on all this weight because I was so distraught over losing him. I didn't. I put on all this weight cause I'm lazy and I love chocolate... get over yourself mate. I basically want to stop being a talking point.
I’ve got loads of petty reasons along with the obvious good reasons. To post hot pics of myself on social media for my old bullies to see.
Being able to fit into my old smaller clothes that I loved so much and ones that still have labels on for when I’m ... weight.
And more so to get a reaction from my crush who is lovely anyhow but with them looking like they could be in a Olympic poster I don’t feel right with being the over weight person.
Plus also getting the reaction from friends for during lockdown time.
Not sure if this is classed as too 'petty' or a bit morbid but I want to cause I'm disabled. Too many issues with people identifying me as a 'helpless fat disabled woman' even though I'm literally thriving as a disabled woman, for some reason other people adding the 'fat' in front of it feels as if people see me as less independent/less able than I actually am
1. “Glow up” - my ex left me last week; giving no reasons whatsoever. Ok, asshat, I’m going to show you what you’re missing now!
2. I’m going into a career in canine hydrotherapy, so I want to look good in my wetsuit!!!
I used to practically look like a model before I gained weight (with a bit of makeup, haha) and I want to get back to that version of my self. Fit in my cute clothes again and turn some heads, lol!
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to take bomb photos where the clothes fit on me as i'd like them to
to look slinky like my fav belly dancers
Being able to fit into my old smaller clothes that I loved so much and ones that still have labels on for when I’m ... weight.
And more so to get a reaction from my crush who is lovely anyhow but with them looking like they could be in a Olympic poster I don’t feel right with being the over weight person.
Plus also getting the reaction from friends for during lockdown time.
Finally so for once I’m not the fat friend.
1. “Glow up” - my ex left me last week; giving no reasons whatsoever. Ok, asshat, I’m going to show you what you’re missing now!
2. I’m going into a career in canine hydrotherapy, so I want to look good in my wetsuit!!!