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  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...

    In the interest of full disclosure, I couldn’t care less about a penis. If some guy shows me his he’s probably just going to be disappointed by my reaction, but he won’t offend me.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    You’re doing a good job concealing your identity
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...

    In the interest of full disclosure, I couldn’t care less about a penis. If some guy shows me his he’s probably just going to be disappointed by my reaction, but he won’t offend me.

    Internet 101 - things not to say...
  • skctilidie
    skctilidie Posts: 1,404 Member
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    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    Any number of things or nothing at all, apparently. I’ve gotten them in messages on both Instagram and Twitter from guys that as far as I know, I have never spoken to at all.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...

    In the interest of full disclosure, I couldn’t care less about a penis. If some guy shows me his he’s probably just going to be disappointed by my reaction, but he won’t offend me.

    Internet 101 - things not to say...

    Shh, I need better ones to send people
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    I had a guy on here say hello to me and then the next message was a photo of his penis.

    I don't know what world he lives on but, "hey, how's it going?" does not translate to, "show me your genitals."

    This is why ‘w0t’ was invented
  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...

    In the interest of full disclosure, I couldn’t care less about a penis. If some guy shows me his he’s probably just going to be disappointed by my reaction, but he won’t offend me.

    I'm not easily offended either. But, there's lines of what's acceptable behavior and isn't. That's what I'm getting at more than being offended.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...

    In the interest of full disclosure, I couldn’t care less about a penis. If some guy shows me his he’s probably just going to be disappointed by my reaction, but he won’t offend me.

    I'm not easily offended either. But, there's lines of what's acceptable behavior and isn't. That's what I'm getting at more than being offended.

    Totally. And I should be doing my part to teach people boundaries rather than being blasé about it
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
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    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    I had a guy on here say hello to me and then the next message was a photo of his penis.

    I don't know what world he lives on but, "hey, how's it going?" does not translate to, "show me your genitals."

    Given how terrible your auto correct works you may have very well told him to show you his genitals.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    lstrat115 wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    People like to make assumptions about women who get these pics. The whole "You asked for it" mentality that some try to apply to victims of rape or sexual harassment. I could tell you some stories, but I don't think this is the appropriate platform


    Eta: oops that was in reference to address @SpartanRunner1978

    And keep in mind they are referring to unsolicited. Its one thing if its a mutual conversation. And just cause one lady may asks doesnt mean all ladies want to see it.
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    True story

    I used to be friends with someone on this site that was so platonic I nicknamed him PJ for Platonic [his name]. He once completely out of the blue told me his wife had taken a funny picture and they were both giggling about it and wanted to send it to me.

    Bam. A pic of his D on a ruler.

    So.. it happens. Way way more than you’d expect

    Umm, no. Ugh, I can't fathom how some people think it's appropriate to do that without checking first. Know your audience. It's like telling a really inappropriate joke to someone. Know if they're going to take offense to it...

    In the interest of full disclosure, I couldn’t care less about a penis. If some guy shows me his he’s probably just going to be disappointed by my reaction, but he won’t offend me.

    I'm not easily offended either. But, there's lines of what's acceptable behavior and isn't. That's what I'm getting at more than being offended.

    Totally. And I should be doing my part to teach people boundaries rather than being blasé about it

    Exactly, you've got to draw a line in the sand. Here use this penis to draw a line in the sand.
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
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    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    I had a guy on here say hello to me and then the next message was a photo of his penis.

    I don't know what world he lives on but, "hey, how's it going?" does not translate to, "show me your genitals."

    Given how terrible your auto correct works you may have very well told him to show you his genitals.

    Excuse me but never forget I saved your tiny t-shirt photo

    You asked for it :smirk:
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    You're not going to survive long on the internet if that's how sensitive you are.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    That thread just got creepy :s
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    Caporegiem wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    I had a guy on here say hello to me and then the next message was a photo of his penis.

    I don't know what world he lives on but, "hey, how's it going?" does not translate to, "show me your genitals."

    Given how terrible your auto correct works you may have very well told him to show you his genitals.

    Excuse me but never forget I saved your tiny t-shirt photo

    You asked for it :smirk:

    CORRECTION!

    I begged.

    You have a pic of his penis in a tiny shirt? That’s adorable, I’d probably beg for it too
  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Is sending out unsolicited D considered preying on others? Asking for a friend. No really.

    This is an interesting question. I don't know if I would consider it preying on someone. I'd actually love to hear more input on this.
    Legally speaking could it be a crime? I don't know. I just don't know any woman that ever said "Yay! I am so glad you sent that without me asking"

    If I receive unsolicited D, I like to send it forward to others. Like unsolicited D chain mail. It’s especially fun when it ends up back in the inbox of the original sender

    I hold on to the ones I have received in the past so that when I get a new one I can send another right back and say "Mine is bigger".

    A couple questions...what guy thinks this is ok? Do ladies enable this by the conversations you are having with these guys? I am not blaming the ladies, I am just trying to imagine what would provoke a guy to send such a pic...

    I had a guy on here say hello to me and then the next message was a photo of his penis.

    I don't know what world he lives on but, "hey, how's it going?" does not translate to, "show me your genitals."

    Given how terrible your auto correct works you may have very well told him to show you his genitals.

    Excuse me but never forget I saved your tiny t-shirt photo

    You asked for it :smirk:

    CORRECTION!

    I begged.

    You have a pic of his penis in a tiny shirt? That’s adorable, I’d probably beg for it too

    Beans 'n weenie in a blanket?
  • skctilidie
    skctilidie Posts: 1,404 Member
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    That thread just got creepy :s

    Assuming it’s the same one, I’d like to time travel back 5-10 minutes and not read that last 50 posts or so.
  • skctilidie
    skctilidie Posts: 1,404 Member
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    That thread just got creepy :s

    If it's the thread I'm thinking of, I can't repeat most of what they are saying in there because I'll get banned. But they can go on ahead though

    Shhh, keep your voice down. At this point you might get points just for thinking about what they’re saying.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    That thread just got creepy :s

    If it's the thread I'm thinking of, I can't repeat most of what they are saying in there because I'll get banned. But they can go on ahead though

    Exactly. But i guess those who would report it would not go in there.