Approaching men at a bar
mustacheU2Lift
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Is this ever a good idea?
Headed out for a girls night. Listening to a live band. Would you be offended if a lady approached you/flirted? Whats the best way to let a guy know im interested?
Headed out for a girls night. Listening to a live band. Would you be offended if a lady approached you/flirted? Whats the best way to let a guy know im interested?
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I would love it!1
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Been a long time since I've been in a bar. But, every time I've been approached by a lady or two, it's been a pleasant experience.
Unfortunately, I'm too thick headed to realize they were flirting with me and thought they were just being friendly. :laugh:1 -
Me.4 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Is this ever a good idea?
Headed out for a girls night. Listening to a live band. Would you be offended if a lady approached you/flirted? Whats the best way to let a guy know im interested?
Eye contact, smile, say hello.1 -
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CharDee_MacDennis wrote: »Don't do it! Men go to the bar to watch the game or listen to music, not get harassed by women. There is a time and place for that kind of stuff.
Right?
Save all of that bar-room hussie hijinx for where it belongs......
The Gym !6 -
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CharDee_MacDennis wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »CharDee_MacDennis wrote: »Don't do it! Men go to the bar to watch the game or listen to music, not get harassed by women. There is a time and place for that kind of stuff.
Right?
Save all of that bar-room hussie hijinx for where it belongs......
The Gym !
Precisely
Noted. I guess im packing my hussie dress away. And pulling out the granny panties tonight!2 -
rickswifey83 wrote: »I usually just come up and invade their personal space, stare at them and say "I like alcohol too"
My wing guuurl. Literally wings. Id like some hot wings...you in?0 -
If you get eye contact and then a smile I’d say he’s interested or friendly at least, personally I wouldn’t approach him, just go to the bar to buy yourself a drink right next to him, if he’s still looking at you and smiling say hi smile back and see where it takes you, if he’s not still looking he’s not interested, hold your head high walk away he’s taken already or likes guys 😜3
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If you get eye contact and then a smile I’d say he’s interested or friendly at least, personally I wouldn’t approach him, just go to the bar to buy yourself a drink right next to him, if he’s still looking at you and smiling say hi smile back and see where it takes you, if he’s not still looking he’s not interested, hold your head high walk away he’s taken already or likes guys 😜
You've done this before, havent you?0 -
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rickswifey83 wrote: »caloriecount2018 wrote: »Go to said bar. Dress seductively, but maintain your mystery. Very important. Also, red lipstick. Touseled hair.
Pick a table at the back, the one with the candlelight and sit there drenched in mystery, maybe a touch of mystique. As the bar man passes your table you ask him to buy said guy another of what he just ordered. Now you sit back, take out your cigarette and cigarette holder and light your Marlboro, puffing gently, adding to the mystery as the smoke billows and creates a big Smokey atmosphere. That will naturally draw his attention.
Now you just give him 'the glance' note this is different than 'the look'. Once he is locked in on you, it's time for 'the look', a searing, pouting, come hither, you-had-me-at-hello, whatcha doin later kinda look. By this stage he has forgotten where he is or why he's there, he's on his way over to your table. Winning!
Or. You could make eye contact at the bar and just smile, see if he notices you.
This is too much trouble my dear...I will just sit in my granny panties with my mom bun and happily eat my wings, pizza, and beer. Someone is bound to wanna join in
A woman at a bar eating wings will immediately have my attention.....if she is willing to share....I found the one...2 -
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rickswifey83 wrote: »rickswifey83 wrote: »caloriecount2018 wrote: »Go to said bar. Dress seductively, but maintain your mystery. Very important. Also, red lipstick. Touseled hair.
Pick a table at the back, the one with the candlelight and sit there drenched in mystery, maybe a touch of mystique. As the bar man passes your table you ask him to buy said guy another of what he just ordered. Now you sit back, take out your cigarette and cigarette holder and light your Marlboro, puffing gently, adding to the mystery as the smoke billows and creates a big Smokey atmosphere. That will naturally draw his attention.
Now you just give him 'the glance' note this is different than 'the look'. Once he is locked in on you, it's time for 'the look', a searing, pouting, come hither, you-had-me-at-hello, whatcha doin later kinda look. By this stage he has forgotten where he is or why he's there, he's on his way over to your table. Winning!
Or. You could make eye contact at the bar and just smile, see if he notices you.
This is too much trouble my dear...I will just sit in my granny panties with my mom bun and happily eat my wings, pizza, and beer. Someone is bound to wanna join in
A woman at a bar eating wings will immediately have my attention.....if she is willing to share....I found the one...
@mustacheU2Lift I wrangled us one!!! Mom buns and granny panties for the win!
If i knew it was this easy!?1 -
Smile and keep your body language open... if he's feeling you... he will approach
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Motorsheen wrote: »If you get eye contact and then a smile I’d say he’s interested or friendly at least, personally I wouldn’t approach him, just go to the bar to buy yourself a drink right next to him, if he’s still looking at you and smiling say hi smile back and see where it takes you, if he’s not still looking he’s not interested, hold your head high walk away he’s taken already or likes guys 😜
You've done this before, havent you?
Oh yeah tried and tested got the ring to prove it lol
I talk to everyone when I’m out, I don’t flirt, don’t need to 😜1 -
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They have these bars now where you can throw tomahawks! Take your girls and find one of those puppies...srs.
You'll come back with either a viking or dungeons and dragons nerd...which is also nice
Just say, "Hey babe I like the way you're swinging that axe. Tell me about your sword ".
These bars actually exist no joke.
Drinks, tomahawks, and flirting? Sounds like my kind of night. Slightly dangerous...but hey we only live once.0 -
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mustacheU2Lift wrote: »They have these bars now where you can throw tomahawks! Take your girls and find one of those puppies...srs.
You'll come back with either a viking or dungeons and dragons nerd...which is also nice
Just say, "Hey babe I like the way you're swinging that axe. Tell me about your sword ".
These bars actually exist no joke.
Drinks, tomahawks, and flirting? Sounds like my kind of night. Slightly dangerous...but hey we only live once.
Ya'll are going to have an excellent evening with that frame of mind.
Or go to prison.
Shush...go clean your shelf😛0 -
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caloriecount2018 wrote: »Go to said bar. Dress seductively, but maintain your mystery. Very important. Also, red lipstick. Touseled hair.
Pick a table at the back, the one with the candlelight and sit there drenched in mystery, maybe a touch of mystique. As the bar man passes your table you ask him to buy said guy another of what he just ordered. Now you sit back, take out your cigarette and cigarette holder and light your Marlboro, puffing gently, adding to the mystery as the smoke billows and creates a big Smokey atmosphere. That will naturally draw his attention.
Now you just give him 'the glance' note this is different than 'the look'. Once he is locked in on you, it's time for 'the look', a searing, pouting, come hither, you-had-me-at-hello, whatcha doin later kinda look. By this stage he has forgotten where he is or why he's there, he's on his way over to your table. Winning!
Or. You could make eye contact at the bar and just smile, see if he notices you.
You had me at using the word tousled...
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