Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker

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  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    If she has more than 2 eyebrows, that usually kills it for me.
  • hixa30
    hixa30 Posts: 274 Member
    If she doesn't know the location of her heart on her (or anyone's) body, that's not enough self-awareness for me.
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    hixa30 wrote: »
    If she doesn't know the location of her heart on her (or anyone's) body, that's not enough self-awareness for me.

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  • IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019
    IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019 Posts: 935 Member
    @amyjsparkles Yea, sooo...I'm gonna need to borrow your gif for a second...

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    kam26001 wrote: »
    If she has more than 2 eyebrows, that usually kills it for me.

  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.

    Ugh. Yes. Indecisiveness is so unattractive.
  • Siege_Tank
    Siege_Tank Posts: 781 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.

    Ugh. Yes. Indecisiveness is so unattractive.

    Also - partners recalculating their opportunity costs is a huge turn off.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Siege_Tank wrote: »
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.

    Ugh. Yes. Indecisiveness is so unattractive.

    Also - partners recalculating their opportunity costs is a huge turn off.


    R.O.I. / Travel Expenses & Receivables should weigh heavily in any romantic encounter.....

    As a prelude to a night of passion, there's nothing hotter than a womanz with a dialed-in, P & L spreadsheet.

  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.

    Ugh. Yes. Indecisiveness is so unattractive.

    This just happened to me with someone and I just don't get it. It's so upsetting. :(
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    @amyjsparkles Yea, sooo...I'm gonna need to borrow your gif for a second...

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    kam26001 wrote: »
    If she has more than 2 eyebrows, that usually kills it for me.

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    :D Glad you could put it to good use! <3
  • DaddieCat
    DaddieCat Posts: 3,643 Member
    I'm going for covered in skin. If you're not at least 85%, then I'm right out.
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    Going along with that ^. If you are a zombie, there's about a 65% chance it's not going to work.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.

    Ugh. Yes. Indecisiveness is so unattractive.

    This just happened to me with someone and I just don't get it. It's so upsetting. :(

    Sorry to hear that :disappointed: some people just suck!
  • etelfer39
    etelfer39 Posts: 109 Member
    SMOKING.
  • kevinflemming1982
    kevinflemming1982 Posts: 158 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Travel Expenses & Receivables should weigh heavily in any romantic encounter.
    Considering I'll have to fly roughly 7,000 miles to see my girlfriend, travel expenses definitely come into that equation. Totally worth it though, when I'm able to. :D

    Before I fell in love, turn-offs would have been: Selfish, narcissistic, Flat-Earther, Anti-Vaxxer, into anything related to pseudosciences or "hocus pocus" nonsense. Those are the main ones for me, really. So long as you're not living in cuckoo land and have a decent grasp on reality, it would have been fairly easy-going lol.
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.

    Ugh. Yes. Indecisiveness is so unattractive.

    This just happened to me with someone and I just don't get it. It's so upsetting. :(

    Sorry to hear that :disappointed: some people just suck!

    <3
  • IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019
    IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019 Posts: 935 Member
    edited July 2019
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Travel Expenses & Receivables should weigh heavily in any romantic encounter.
    Considering I'll have to fly roughly 7,000 miles to see my girlfriend, travel expenses definitely come into that equation. Totally worth it though, when I'm able to. :D

    Before I fell in love, turn-offs would have been: Selfish, narcissistic, Flat-Earther, Anti-Vaxxer, into anything related to pseudosciences or "hocus pocus" nonsense. Those are the main ones for me, really. So long as you're not living in cuckoo land and have a decent grasp on reality, it would have been fairly easy-going lol.

    So what I'm hearing is...you want me to read your palm??
    Ok, but it'll have to be quick, I'm playing bridge with the ghost that lives in my basement shortly!
  • jedoubleday
    jedoubleday Posts: 479 Member
    spending more time on social media then in the real world saying age is just a number no age is a word.. 5 is a number geez
  • alteredsteve175
    alteredsteve175 Posts: 2,726 Member
    If you’re my age and are constantly telling me how “old” you feel.

    Baby, I’m not old, I’m vintage.

    Made me smile, Honeybee! I'm borrowing that. ;)

  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    Deal breaker. When he says your favorite movie is stupid. Why you gotta be so mean about it? ☹
  • Deal breaker. When he says your favorite movie is stupid. Why you gotta be so mean about it? ☹

    No one should ever be that mean.
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    awdouth wrote: »
    Deal breaker. When he says your favorite movie is stupid. Why you gotta be so mean about it? ☹

    No one should ever be that mean.

    Exactly!
  • awdouth wrote: »
    Deal breaker. When he says your favorite movie is stupid. Why you gotta be so mean about it? ☹

    No one should ever be that mean.

    Exactly!

    F that dude
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    awdouth wrote: »
    awdouth wrote: »
    Deal breaker. When he says your favorite movie is stupid. Why you gotta be so mean about it? ☹

    No one should ever be that mean.

    Exactly!

    F that dude

    I think the most important thing is respect. I respect someone not liking the same movies or things as I do. But to make fun of someone's choices, especially of something they love! That's just sort of cruel, isn't it?
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Dismissive Avoidant attachment style.
    I'm scared to google this. Last time I googled one of y'all's little dealbreakers, it ended up describing me to a T.
    I think the word was sycophant... or psychopath.... something like that. So from now on, I'm good. 🤸
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Dismissive Avoidant attachment style.
    I'm scared to google this. Last time I googled one of y'all's little dealbreakers, it ended up describing me to a T.
    I think the word was sycophant... or psychopath.... something like that. So from now on, I'm good. 🤸

    Good to know.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    Deal breaker. When he says your favorite movie is stupid. Why you gotta be so mean about it? ☹


    It is a Disney film isn’t it??
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Dismissive Avoidant attachment style.
    I'm scared to google this. Last time I googled one of y'all's little dealbreakers, it ended up describing me to a T.
    I think the word was sycophant... or psychopath.... something like that. So from now on, I'm good. 🤸

    There is an excellent video on YouTube I can refer you to.....