Embracing my "8"

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  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    you realise that no matter what number you get you are never going to be happy.

    why does it matter.

    there will always be the belief inside of you (even if you got a 10) that they are missing something and so it's not a true reflection of their scoring.

    it really does not matter.

    and fivethreeone is right...most of us are 5's.
  • HacheraTsarine
    HacheraTsarine Posts: 278 Member
    Whenever I want to feel pretty, I just visit the prison instead of making threads on the interweb phishing for compliments

    ^^this
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Easy solution.

    Stay out of those threads.

    I see what you did there.
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    I embrace my 8 too.

    surprised there were so many comments AHEAD of this one! hehe.....beat me to the punch
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
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  • VeganLexi
    VeganLexi Posts: 960 Member
    NOT fishing. So all the fishing lines are way off. I've just worked my *kitten* off to redo my body after major weight loss.. Was feeling good...then it's so sad how someone can make use feel bad about ourselves. I needed clarification. Plus, is it wrong to smile if someone gives you a heartfelt compliment? I think not.

    But why do you need clarification from a bunch of random people on a forum? It seems a tad bizarre to me...maybe it's just me...who knows.
  • Legs_McGee
    Legs_McGee Posts: 845 Member
    So are you asking people to rate you or are they just running up to you on the street and yelling numbers?
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    I couldn't possibly see 8 as an insult. I'd be happy to be called an 8.

    But seriously, did someone walk up to you and go "Meh, you're an 8."
  • 43932452
    43932452 Posts: 7,246 Member
    I get called a 5-8 usually the lower number is where they pin me. It
    all is about who is judging I guess. It used to bother me but I keep
    trying to be the best me I can, even if it is a 7!
  • ladyark
    ladyark Posts: 1,101 Member
    kidding me? I'd be happy to be called an 8 I have been called a 5 :-( I didnt think I was that bad lol

    This
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    ? 8 is way above average something like a 3 means you're bad looking.
  • AshleyM71
    AshleyM71 Posts: 3,029 Member
    The reality is that we are...or should be...online for support and motivation. How ever you get your motivation....that's up to you. It's sad when, especially women, passive aggressively attack...make nasty comments and unjust accusations. Jabs and mean comments make someone look uglier than they are. Just throwing that out there
  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
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  • AshleyM71
    AshleyM71 Posts: 3,029 Member
    See. Sad
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
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    Looking for me?
  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
    The reality is that we are...or should be...online for support and motivation. How ever you get your motivation....that's up to you. It's sad when, especially women, passive aggressively attack...make nasty comments and unjust accusations. Jabs and mean comments make someone look uglier than they are. Just throwing that out there

    nvm.
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
    8's are AWESOME...you have 2 holes and LOTs of curves!
  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
    Be thankful you're int he 8+ club sheesh.
  • HahnTBeth
    HahnTBeth Posts: 29 Member
    No one can make you feel inferior unless you let them, just as no one can make you doubt yourself unless you allow them to do so. You worked hard to get where you are so embrace it, flaunt it, love it, whatever, and to hell with all the people judging you based on what? A picture? Sounds pretty juvenile to put so much thought and time into a silly little number that has no relevance to who you actually are.
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
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  • AshleyM71
    AshleyM71 Posts: 3,029 Member
    Ok. Thread has gotten off. Nasty. Plus, everyone who unjustly accuses me of fishing should know that you all have been posting under "fun and games". People can be cold and nasty and ugly instead of supportive. I'm pulling myself out of my own thread. Sheesh. My faith in humanity is shaken sometimes.
  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
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  • HahnTBeth
    HahnTBeth Posts: 29 Member
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    Bahahahahaha
  • teagirlmedium
    teagirlmedium Posts: 679 Member
    Being called an 8 can be a good compliment or though of as a slap in the face. If you think you are better than an 8 then you may think being called an 8 is bad, because you were expecting a higher number. If you think you are less than an 8 or think you are an 8 then someone else telling you they think you are an 8 could be nice, because you may see someone thinking of you as an 8 as a compliment or the person confirming what you thought in the first place. Which means you were right and who doesn't like to be right? So I think most of the time it depends on the person being called the 8. It also depends on if you know the person who called you an 8 and know what physical type of people they view as an 8 and if you find those people attractive or not.
  • JessicaBR13
    JessicaBR13 Posts: 294 Member
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    Omg best gif ever! Thanks for the laughs!
  • JesseDP00
    JesseDP00 Posts: 367 Member
    8's are AWESOME...you have 2 holes and LOTs of curves!

    hahahaha
  • KelleyGirl74
    KelleyGirl74 Posts: 182 Member
    The reality is that we are...or should be...online for support and motivation. How ever you get your motivation....that's up to you. It's sad when, especially women, passive aggressively attack...make nasty comments and unjust accusations. Jabs and mean comments make someone look uglier than they are. Just throwing that out there

    Agreed.
  • BlisterLamb
    BlisterLamb Posts: 396 Member
    Huh. I've never been numbered. I must be doing something wrong :huh:
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    My guess is it was a five telling you that you were an eight hoping to tap into your inherent self esteem issues (made obvious by the fact you posted this to begin with) and get you to let him into your pants in an effort to rebuild your self esteem...

    IMHO
  • zeebruhgirl
    zeebruhgirl Posts: 493 Member
    An 8 is a solid B, I'd be happy with it. haha
    7 and lower and you're in trouble though.