Don’t assume...

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  • crampus1
    crampus1 Posts: 519 Member
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    Don’t assume that because I have a gift card for the store im at that I will remember to use it after spending a large amount of money for Christmas presents.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    Don't assume that because I am optimistic and happy all the time, that I'm not falling to pieces on the inside.
  • newmeadow
    newmeadow Posts: 1,295 Member
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    tinak33 wrote: »
    Don't assume that because I am optimistic and happy all the time, that I'm not falling to pieces on the inside.

    I think that means that you're not optimistic and happy all the time, but it's just a guess.

  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
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    newmeadow wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Don't assume that because I am optimistic and happy all the time, that I'm not falling to pieces on the inside.

    I think that means that you're not optimistic and happy all the time, but it's just a guess.

    that's her outside mask, hiding what's happening on the inside
  • crampus1
    crampus1 Posts: 519 Member
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    mbaker566 wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Don't assume that because I am optimistic and happy all the time, that I'm not falling to pieces on the inside.

    I think that means that you're not optimistic and happy all the time, but it's just a guess.

    that's her outside mask, hiding what's happening on the inside

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    This is my outside mask.
  • Chael2dot0
    Chael2dot0 Posts: 1,189 Member
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    So online I have had so many people on forums tell me I am intimadating, and I absolutely hate it. Or more, I hate that I come off that way cuz I am not...well, I like to THINK I am not that way really.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    mbaker566 wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Don't assume that because I am optimistic and happy all the time, that I'm not falling to pieces on the inside.

    I think that means that you're not optimistic and happy all the time, but it's just a guess.

    that's her outside mask, hiding what's happening on the inside

    <3
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
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    Chael2dot0 wrote: »
    So online I have had so many people on forums tell me I am intimadating, and I absolutely hate it. Or more, I hate that I come off that way cuz I am not...well, I like to THINK I am not that way really.

    People have told me that in person. I don't understand how I look intimidating and it's frustrating because how do you change that?
  • FitnTrimSteve
    FitnTrimSteve Posts: 664 Member
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    Chael2dot0 wrote: »
    So online I have had so many people on forums tell me I am intimadating, and I absolutely hate it. Or more, I hate that I come off that way cuz I am not...well, I like to THINK I am not that way really.

    People have told me that in person. I don't understand how I look intimidating and it's frustrating because how do you change that?

    Lettuce is very intimidating, especially poisoned lettuce :)
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    I have no idea what people assume about me.

    But whenever a romantic situation doesn't work out or someone turns me down, I assume it's because I'm fat. 🙁

    Who the *kitten* would turn you down??? That's crazypants!
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    I have no idea what people assume about me.

    But whenever a romantic situation doesn't work out or someone turns me down, I assume it's because I'm fat. 🙁

    Who the *kitten* would turn you down??? That's crazypants!

    I got turned down last week. 🤷‍♀️
    I'm not afraid of rejection though, so there's that.
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
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    Chael2dot0 wrote: »
    So online I have had so many people on forums tell me I am intimadating, and I absolutely hate it. Or more, I hate that I come off that way cuz I am not...well, I like to THINK I am not that way really.

    People have told me that in person. I don't understand how I look intimidating and it's frustrating because how do you change that?

    Lettuce is very intimidating, especially poisoned lettuce :)

    But look at my little stick arms!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    I have no idea what people assume about me.

    But whenever a romantic situation doesn't work out or someone turns me down, I assume it's because I'm fat. 🙁

    Who the *kitten* would turn you down??? That's crazypants!

    I got turned down last week. 🤷‍♀️
    I'm not afraid of rejection though, so there's that.

    I'd be scared of anyone that turned you down. They are clearly not right in the head.
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
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    I have no idea what people assume about me.

    But whenever a romantic situation doesn't work out or someone turns me down, I assume it's because I'm fat. 🙁

    I can commiserate
    i've been stood up twice. not great on the self confidence
  • Nicksmom106
    Nicksmom106 Posts: 1,624 Member
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    So online I have had so many people on forums tell me I am intimadating, and I absolutely hate it. Or more, I hate that I come off that way cuz I am not...well, I like to THINK I am not that way really.

    People have told me that in person. I don't understand how I look intimidating and it's frustrating because how do you change that?
    You both come across as very cool people to me! Both friendly, kind and sarcastic....it don't get better than that😎😘👍
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    Don't assume that because I ate all the crackers that I lack willpower. I can stop whenever I like, I choose not to.

    Besides, Christmas crackers/cookies are magical. They only come but once a year. :lol: