Where to meet single men in their 40’s?

This seems like a dumb question and maybe it is but I’m having a really hard time finding single men in their 40’s. They are all married which is to be expected at that age I guess. Online dating has resulted in nothing but men lying about being married or only wanting a fling. Are there any good guys left?
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  • crampus1
    crampus1 Posts: 519 Member
    I’d check the bowling alleys and maybe Craig’s list. I keep finding them at the sporting events. They follow you home if you give them beer.
  • Maybe hang around outside a courthouse, he'll buy you drinks with whatever she let him keep!
  • KKSW1981
    KKSW1981 Posts: 87 Member
    I understand!!!! Hey... The gym is a great place to meet guys. Especially the early birds.
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  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Home Depot
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  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    Where there are single 20 year old girls

    Universities - undergraduate sections, coffee houses, gyms, D1-2 volleyball tournaments. etc
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
    edited December 2018
    slessofme wrote: »
    Where there are single 20 year old girls
    This is so true. Men around here are Parents and Divorced before the age of 25, so being in their 40s with daughters in their late teens and early 20s is the norm, always at practices - involved and committed.
  • slessofme wrote: »
    Where there are single 20 year old girls

    I'm not putting all the 20 year old girls in the same boat but alot of them only know how to charge their phones, they twerk and they can't cook.
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    Where there are single 20 year old girls

    I'm not putting all the 20 year old girls in the same boat but alot of them only know how to charge their phones, they twerk and they can't cook.

    This had me rolling with laughter. Click to 7:00 mins

    https://youtu.be/qNnJjyIzuQo

  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    I am in my 30s and most men in their 30s are married too. You would think that the single ones would be done playing games by now, but no. Lol. It is horrible.
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    k8eekins wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    Where there are single 20 year old girls

    I'm not putting all the 20 year old girls in the same boat but alot of them only know how to charge their phones, they twerk and they can't cook.

    This had me rolling with laughter. Click to 7:00 mins

    https://youtu.be/qNnJjyIzuQo

    If you want to be happy for rest of your life
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,285 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    MFP, duh? Oh wait. You said SINGLE. Well, they pretend to be single.

    😂🤣. You beat me to it.
  • megleighd
    megleighd Posts: 53 Member
    crampus1 wrote: »
    I’d check the bowling alleys and maybe Craig’s list. I keep finding them at the sporting events. They follow you home if you give them beer.

    Beer, that's how I got my husband. Now, to keep, him I also offer him cigars. When I need something done around the house I throw something in the oven, and get that dinner aroma going.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I am in my 30s and most men in their 30s are married too. You would think that the single ones would be done playing games by now, but no. Lol. It is horrible.

    in our defense though- who do you think taught us to play those games?

    Not us women.
  • HappilyDistracted
    HappilyDistracted Posts: 1,700 Member
    The last guy who took me on a date was actually a cop who had pulled me over previously. Soooo maybe do something illegal?

    Yessss - note to self: Do illegal things.
  • megleighd
    megleighd Posts: 53 Member
    The last guy who took me on a date was actually a cop who had pulled me over previously. Soooo maybe do something illegal?

    Yessss - note to self: Do illegal things.

    Please tell me you all have seen the sexy gainesville florida police. If not, Google them.
  • iMago wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I am in my 30s and most men in their 30s are married too. You would think that the single ones would be done playing games by now, but no. Lol. It is horrible.

    in our defense though- who do you think taught us to play those games?

    I'd have to agree with that too. Alot of women, including myself at times will bash men, only because of bad experience. But truth is... none is better than the other. Men aren't the only ones who play games, some women are pretty good at that too. There ARE good men out there, just like there are good women that aren't emotionally damaged.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Prisons are filled with guys of all ages.